Why do some guys say riddles to girls they like?

[Anonymous]

Okay, say your in a relationship and wanted to get out of one that your in now. Because it's not working out. So you can be with that girl who makes you happy. Why tell her riddles for?

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The guy already knows you like him.

[Lovelesspassion]

Acually he's right.. Why don't girls just come out and say it...

Because they're scared...

Knowing that why is it do you think he's telling you riddles..?

He wants to go make sure your good for him..

Think of it this way.. If your on one boat that might be sinking slowy do you just jump into the nezt boat.. No.. You have to test it to see if its safe.. It may look safe but might have a hole.. And once you step on it the other boat will finnish sinking..so there's no going back.. So if the new boats got a hole it will slowly sink to..

Hes just making sure your safe enough...

[Asker]

Oic..Do I stop texting him and let him come to me then? Cause I feel akinda bad and I don't want to be the one who cause the break up.

[Lovelesspassion]

So you want him to test if you sink by sinking yourself...? Not the best plan..

Try being his friend... Don't try to date or anything..

If he likes you as a friend then somthing might come out if it..

Also if she finnaly sinks he knows your safe harbor that way ...

Dont try to push him its like rocking the boat.. He'll sit back down on the boat he's got.. but also don't forget you like him.. Don't be pushy but still smile and flirt.. But remember he has a girl he's loyal to her first right now

[Asker]

I understand what your saying. But he waits for me to text him and I'm doing all the work. I don't mind just being friends. So when do I text him and when not to text so much? I texted him once yesterday. I got the hint he was with his girlfriend. But he was still letting me know he was still there and was nice to me. So I left him alone and today I didn't text at all. So really don't know when I can text and not to text.

[Lovelesspassion]

Dont push texting... Texting is addiction a lot of people face...

People will text even when they're trying to flirt with a guy they like their texting there friends..

So don't be a pushy texter if he's got a girl.. But don't forget your friends so you can text him when ever you have a real reason to.. And your alowed as friends to text at lest once a week.. That's a minumum not a max.. Friends can text once a day but if its for no real reasons it can be concidered pushy..

[Lovelesspassion]

Also I want to make a note.. Girl friends can text 4-5 times a day for no real reason.. That's pushy but in a good way.. But they shouldn't do it often..

[Asker]

Okay, so I will only text once a week then. But if I need a reason..What would be the reason? lol

[Lovelesspassion]

As for the one time a week texting you really don't need a reason just say hi

And theirs lots of reasons that would work for the rest of the time...

If he looked sad on day you could text "are you alright today?.. You looked sad upset mad whatevet it may have been. If someone you know dies.. Use him to help you throgh it..

If you take the same class and you need a little extra help ask.

[Lovelesspassion]

Just remember he has a girl and if you text him while he's with her they will talk about you.. To keep her nice to him

Also keep your texting on the reason.. Try not to flirt alot.. Still do but not alot.. She may read his texts later

[Asker]

okay, thank you for helping me out here. I will keep this all in mind then :)

[Lupianwolf]

Why don't girls ever just come out and say 'i like you?'

[Asker]

I wasn't looking for a smart ass comment. lol :P

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Because the Mad Hatter is a great role-model when two-timing women.