child support is important in cases where one of the parents refuses to take responsibility for the kid but yeah alimony is treating adults like children, the gold diggers dream
It was good for back in the day when women couldn't work, but now, for me, nah. If she didn't work during the marriage, that's one her🤷♀️ it's the life she chose to life. And I can see the backlash when one partner refuses to take responsibility... its a tough decision. Because if a man isn't gonna be the father, or a woman isn't gonna be the mother, that they put themselves in, I dont know. But, that's mostly why alimony and child support isn't going away anytime soon. So, people just gotta be careful who they marry and be smarter about how the marriage is gonna be.That's why I plan to talk. before we even have a wedding (if I decide to have one) about what happens if so and so happens. I feel like most people do t like to talk about the big question UNTIL that moment happens, then their stuck with the results. Or not get married, but, kids can still happen, so child support is still never going away anytime soon
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Some guys are voluntarily "unemployed" and working "under the table.". Some guys are unemployed because they got fired for being drunk on the job. Some guys are unemployed but have enough in savings to pay alimony or child support.
Sorry that you are still hurting. Women are no where near treated equally to men even to this day. I only partly agree with you.
@5points2gspot Your right if they were treated equally they wouldn't be getting special perks like they get now.
Lets say there is no children and the ex wife is not unemployed like him
alimony is not child support.. get your facts right.. Of course a man should support his children and pay child support if needed, but alimony in this day and age should not exist.
Spousal support on the other hand is a case by case basis. Majority of cases should be limited.
its dumb either way but for some reason I think its more gross if the man is receiving alimony
Most courts are willing to suspend alimony if the person is unemployed, which is why I said I think the current system works
Correction. Suspend or reduce alimony.
Lets get married 😂😂
God the womens comments on this confirm that most women see men as walking talking wallets and atm's to be discarded if they can't pay money.. How sad.. Women simple are not worth marrying any more.. Lets get this correct.. MEN DO NOT OWE YOU MONEY IF YOUR MARRIAGE FALLS APART.. Child support sure.. But Alimony.. Get a fucking job like the rest of us..
Men should pay
If men have to pay for women then women should give up the right to vote, and no fault divorce should be abolished so she cannot get divorced without the permission of the man.
they also could get a fucking job
why? I thought women were strong, independent and didn't need men
Its his problem
even if they have zero income? thats the problem with women like you, you see men as walking talking Wallets and ATM's and heave help him if he cannot pay..
have you ever heard the term blood-sucking gold digger?
@G5TWA1 Unemployment is from the government; so it isn't even really your money.
It is because they pay people from taxes and at least where I live the amount you get from unemployment is directly proportional with the amount of money you pay in taxes
why, can't you get a fucking job?
Yes its a necessary spousal support
I guarantee you, they shouldn't
Yea but they should change the laws men should pay
Never heard the word “alimony”
Men have to pay some money to their wives after divorce, thats called alimony
Really? So it exists in Turkey?
It exists everywhere. Its even worse here, even unemployed men have to pay. doesn't matter if she cheated or abused him
Not sure, it doesn't exist in my country, Turkey’s a weird country lol
How come it doesn't exist there? It exists everywhere
Not sure but I think it must not be like Turkish laws
Thats probably it yeah
Whats your deal
Men have to provide their wives after divorce, thats called alimony
Fuck that. After divorce she's on her own. Ill help with the kids but thats all