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If my anyone spanked me now they wouldn’t they wouldn’t do so without a fight.
No kids don’t fear time out in their bedrooms they will just do it again the bad behavior act
No, bible says do it and I turned out great. I would spank your butt being on here.
Omg my dad keeps telling me "i hit u bc i love u" 💀
That sucks
Yepp
I had similar without the love part.
It was more ‘because I can’
Nope, it parents dont lay the smack down on them in the early years, bubba or Bertha will make thier byotch!!
Not if you do it right. If you want spanking to be effective they need to know full well why they are getting the shit spanked out of em.
And just know that other kids and teachers, even neighbours will prey on your children so they get abused by you. It's easy to work out which child gets abused. And you will make the mistake of disciplining/shouting at them in public or loud enough that your neighbours will hear. I can see your name is of an Asian heritage, so you will also know that Asians get discriminated. You think you believe everything someone else says about your kids? That people can't manipulate your kids into doing something they didn't understand and implicated them into a mistake?
@RasberrySlushPuppy
Ah cue the obligatory holier then thou white person trying to lecture me about morals and shit.
I suppose we should do the latter where we end up with a generation of entitled brats why think any criticism is emotional abuse... This weakness is why the west is doomed.
@malik00 im not white, im also Asian.
I think its more effective to slap them once than depriving them of candies and ipad usage. Its actually a form of terrorism. Terrorism works to shape someone's behavior if the terrorist is typically a kind soul. Spanking is a flex of power.
Spanking is not beating or brutalizing. Its actually more playful than anything.
Yes, it is. There’s a better approach towards instilling the type of behavior you want from a child. Physical violence towards a child is not okay.
No. Spank that behind. I wished I had received more spankings growing up. I needed it since I'm too wild.
If it goes beyond the hand or it isn’t over a deliberate disobedience or obscenity, then it’s abuse in my mind.
Spanking is really fun and a great way to exercise.
I'd say in 99% cases, soanking kids is something nobody should do.
Yes I do believe spanking is outdated. Spanking is evil and has got to stop.
Yes... Physical violence is really not good toward children
Spanking is important part of growing up to learn about giving and receiving violence.
No man. What a stupid way of thinking. Spankings is for children who constantly disobey their parents or do bad things. Spanking and rebuke gives children wisdom.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy "Spanking and rebuke gives children wisdom." Not sure where you think we disagree?
* to learn about giving and receiving violence.
It can be a motivation to children. But like anything, can be abused.
No we need more of it we are too soft a society I got spanked and came out fine
I hope you never have children
🤣🤣🤣 well spanking them isn’t going to kill them peoples kids are out of control
My kids won’t be entitled brats like yours will be
If you are able to have kids, I hope you won't. Don't have child you are fit to be a mother.
*unfit
Just do yourself a favor and keep your legs close or use birth control , Don't have any children at all.
Haha well I’m going to have kids so mine just won’t be disrespectful
You obviously think spanking is beating your kids which it’s not it’s showing them who’s in charge when they do wrong They don’t need it all the time
No it's not, we already see the consequences and they are not good.
Yes, but that doesn’t mean you don’t punish them at all. Time out is a great punishment, I hated it.
spanking is maybe one.. two... or three. But the spanking may go overboard..
Yes, I'm not sure it was ever really effective either.
I don’t think it’s a good idea unless you want your child to develop some sort of kink 😃
It's not outdated and the people who think this always have the most unrulely kids who are like "FUCK you mom " when the kids don't get their way.
children need to be disciplined. They need to get punished sometimes.
Hell NO. it is not child abuse, but could be depending on who is doing it.
I believe it is outdated yes
correction is better done by family then the outside world
THE OUTSIDE WORLD WILL DESTROY THEM
And your own parenting can also destroy them. I take for example: a child is abused for a mistake they made instead of learning from it. Next time they made a mistake they are again punished instead of discussing it. The child now won't go their parent to talk openly. They won't talk openly with others. Others see their vulnerability and exploit by getting the child into trouble for more punishment.
The hardest people you know got spanked as kids. Keep your nose in the kitcehn, woman
Aight anonymous troll
y'all men are so misogynistic
there's a pattern where mamas boys, girls and their mamas wish to destroy the world
And you should focus on going to war instead of annoying everyone here, man
Deep down you wish you got beaten for your bad behavior. You got serious daddy issues now
So you want to assume what i am thinking about?
Ok. Wanna be my girlfriend? How about i tell you ill love you and respect you and then whip you when i discover you're evil
No matter how a misogynist will respect me i still won't respect him
How much*
Disliking sluts isn't misogynistic its normal
By saying 'sluts' proves that it is misogynistic
@iammaria ok. Sluts are hedonists. No different than rapists
Why you comparing sluts with rapists?
@iammaria sluts dont have sex for pleasure they do it for power. Same as rapists
If you're gonna say "rapists are terrible!!!" Thats the point. Thats why we call sluts names
This dudes never felt the touch of a woman and probably doesn’t wipe his ass cause he thinks that’s gay🗿
Its gay for a girl to talk about the touch of women
Lmaoo
We Stan a closeted queer king🏳️🌈 🌈🌈🦄
Why are you mocking gays
How are they mocking gay people? We are making fun of homophobic people who are in the closet but can't admit they are gay
Or misogynistic people
@iammaria how the fuck are you even saying im gay or misogynistic
Physical punishment does not work.
Just talking to them damn sure isn't either
@Janessa2021
I think physical punishment should only happen when you are sure that the child's behavior will greatly affect his/her future in a negative way. I mean only for some serious matters, and it should be avoided as far as possible. And if you're gonna do that you need to make sure you are not gonna harm them!!
Why tf would I harm my own child? An ass whooping means the child went to far. I dont mean beat them up.
@Janessa2021 The best way is to avoid talking to them, but only for a short time.
@Janessa2021 I mean physically punishing your child shouldn't be used as a tool to overcome your own anger.
I will spank my child if they go too far while at a certain age. Just taking things from them or putting them in time out isn't gonna fix it
Voilence is never the answer
OUTDATED, STUPID, CRAZY, SADISTIC!
The funny thing is sado masochists, narrcissts, psychopaths don't care that others will get their kids into trouble. They like it wait for something to occur that will allow them to carry out their duties as a parent.
Do you have kids?
@mobiusforniner your point of asking that?
@RasberrySlushPuppy I dont believe people who dont have kids are qualified to tell me how to raise mine
@mobiusforniner you say it as if the moment you become a father you suddenly are an expert. That's an illogical falacy
@ResberrySlushPuppy 😂
@mobiusforniner I don't have kids... But if you hear parents who beat their kids the first thing they're gonna justify to you with is "we were beaten"..
It sounds obviously like a revange to me, and not any kind of discipline or teaching.. It sounds like a non ending series of violence against the powerless.. Like somebody got hurt when they didn't deserve it, their reasoning was not respected. And so they need to feel better by doing the same.. I think I am a human and our specy has dignity. And a child can understand if you talk with them reasonably.
Im not justifying beating kids. Hitting a child out of anger is never ok. And for what its worth, im not a new father. I have several kids and you know what? Im still learning. I love my children and would jump in front of a train for them. I love them enough to put myself through the conflicting anguish of disciplining them as I feel necessary so that they will grow to be respectable and hardworking adults. Kids are awesome. Yet they can be evil buttheads too. Until you have some of your own, I can't accept your opinion as legitimate, because you have not known, felt, or seen what this experience is like. And justifying your opinion through third party observance is not necessarily representive of all parenting styles
@mobiusforniner you're a fully grown adult man, what sits or stands before you is a small vulnerable defenseless child who has no choice but to live with you and follow your rules but you choose violence. That is called bullying. You think you're always right, that you brought them into the world so they have to be just like you. I genuinely feel sorry for your kids.
Yeah though. To each his own.
I think it is a form of child abuse as well as sexual harassment and bullying.
Although I don't have kids, I am still an adult though, it is a sense of responsibility not to have children when you are not ready.
@invalid1 well said!
I do. If I have any kids I would
Only when you see it as a last resort to save them...
@TonyMetal___86 yes. Here it is hard to do anything. Kids call CPS on their parents now and act like they are abused and then teachers call it on parents. It turns into a mess. Most kids do not understand the ramifications of what they say or do.
I hope that they change the laws there, kids shouldn't be allowed to sue their parents unless it was something really dangerous or violent and parents have the right to discipline their children to make them good citizens in the future, no loving parent likes to get physical but sometimes this will be the only way left to make them straight again...
If a kid called the cops and i was the one to respond, i'll try to see what happened and if the kid was spanked to be only disciplined than i'll congratulate the parent and will tell the kid that he/she better be spanked by their parents instead of being spanked in the police station...
Some kids are just so wild and stubborn where you are forced to use a combination of punishements and compromises to make them snap out of what their doing...
No. But what you mean by "spanking" is subjective.
Better than being slapped
Yes, children who were spanked turn out awful.
Now the children are entitled brats cause they didn't get any discipline.
@FamilyStranger children like you
I meant that those who haven't had a spanked is the reason we have the mess with other factors as well.
Noting good comes from hitting kids.
Yes it is. Children should never be beaten.
I don't think it is really. 🙂😀
95% of the times yes it is
Get spanked as child didn't do me any harm.
What job do you do?
Nurse
I too was spanked and I went to nursing and physiotherapy. I also had pink t-shirts. Luckily earlier in my life I was told by a masculine guy to be assertive and not timid. I realising what spanking had caused, so I joined the Army infantry and my career. I'm not suggesting you do so aswell, infact I have a lot of respect for nursing. I just thought you should know it is no coincidence.
Not oudated but we need to speak to them too
should never have been stopped in my opinion
No i dont it needs to be back in the family
Hahahah nope.
Yeah
Beat those little bastards until they behave!
Nope.
Nope not at all
Its oldschool
Maybe but it works.
Yes. I Hope.
Not at all.
No not at all.
Absolutely
In some cases yeah
Nope
Yes it is abusive