To this day, I am still in awe at how perfect of a bell curve the "How Men Rate Women" is. All you need to do is move 1 percentage point from one bar to another. In contrast, the "How Women Rate Men" graph is obviously stacked in one direction. As for where that graph comes from this link of course:
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/11/17/your-looks-and-online-dating/
What? What do you mean you're getting redirected to their front page? The link is broken? Here, let me fix that...
https://archive.is/LDVFm
There we go! Now I can't say for certain that OKCupid tried to scrub those results from their webpage, it just looks awfully suspicious that it's gone. I also tend to find that the side that has to censor everything is usually in the wrong and has malicious intentions. Just saying.
You have to make an alpha profile. Just put up a pic of you looking badass at the gym. Badass doing some activity. One of you enjoying life maybe out on the town with friends. A social acceptance pic of you and like 2 or three girls hanging over you. Then in your profile just write some semi neg or qualifying post ie "If you won't cook my favorite meal for me (lasagna) and call me daddy then swipe left"
Guys come off like wimps on there and use shitty photos. Write too much like a book , no. Girls are flicking through. Just catch their eye and leave them wanting more. And yes girls hate guys who brag about fancy car, lots of girls wanting you, having a big D , having a gym bod, but they do like that stuff, just show it off low key like not as a brag.
Are you a girl user? Cause I read your example image and you talked about meeting your boyfriend. Also your personality and emotional way of thinking comes off as female. Just my theory how you come across.
Now, to answer about your post topic regarding to girls on dating apps. Not responding to your brother. You were implying ALLL women are ignoring your brother. Till #3 you specified that there were SOME women who MATCHED with your brother, “did not match to his education level and income”.
Well, empathy and love don’t mean shit since education and level of income comes first, right? If that is the case, then maybe he should stay off of dating apps and go to school. Hopefully he’ll meet a educational person trying to be a entrepreneur. He deserves it.
I highly doubt think this , I think a lot of men lack confidence when approaching an attractive woman. Women raise their standards because they want the best quality man. A man who knows he can’t match a woman’s energy or standards will have a hard time. A man should change his appearance a bit , be more assertive, have more confidence, and step the game up/ women have a hard time like myself because we have to weed through all the losers who just want to play the field, men often think we’re easy because of looks , and men truthfully don’t have the game they think they have. So when women like me shoot them down their ego cries.
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Everyone struggles on dating apps. It's really hard to find someone worth talking to just from a few pictures and a little about me which is usually not even about them or is generic and boring af. A lot of people are shit at communicating. Some don't say what they're actually looking for. Others are a little too ahead of themselves talking about marriage on a first conversation. Dating is rough. But why are you complaining about not getting dates? Why would you want to date someone who isn't attracted to you?
Oh give over. 90% of the women on dating sites are cheap fucks. I tried dating sites on & off over the years and never anymore than the few days as I got tired of the douchebags used to the sluts already on the sites thinking all women are after cheap sex.
Some of the messages sent were... pathetic to be blunt
The problem is most guys who can't get a match online couldn't get one in real-life if they were the only man on a island full of nymphos. Also remember girls don't like wading through a mountain of shit each day just to find a diamond.
Well, yeah, I’m sure men have it harder than women, but I think the whole topic is more complicated than you think. Places like Tinder, the majority of men there are probably looking to hook up or something of the sort with nearly every woman they swipe right on. The thing is, most women there do not want to do that. In this way, both struggle because they are using such an app for different purposes.
Gonna get deleted. Because obviously to you can't take criticism. But come on dude, EVERYONE has it hard on dating apps. Guys and girl. Girls are sick of horny guys and guys are sick of being rejected. What about the non binary people? They have it hard too.
Stop👏Involving👏 Gender👏 In👏 Everything
At every level, by any metric, women have life much easier than men. Only a fool or a feminist denies this.
Want proof? John's Hopkins, the leading "gender reassignment" surgical center in the US followed people who changed gender for more than 20 years. To a person, people who changed genders said life was easier and the world was much more friendly as a female.
Oh yeah, men have it harder. Here's a good channel that goes indepth about it all with charts & everything:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/HNxtm4_k64s
Well that’s easy. Most men in dating apps just want to hook up. Most women want an actual relationship. (There are exceptions of course but in general) You’ve got 100 horny dudes to 10 women and they have to sort and figure out who is worth their time and who isn’t.
I am done with dating apps. All dudes want to just have casual sex. I don't know if it's only a thing in my country as most people prefer to find an arranged match for marriage due to the sickening caste system.
If you think there's a women on this planet who will ever care about what men are experiencing your delusional. To a woman a man is an atm nothing more.
If men are looking for dates , yes the reason why some women say they find it hard because all the guys that meet their standard just want sex but the guys that don't meet their standards who wanna date, they avoid
Too small to read it
Besides when you get options, you always choose the best. The "best" being subjective to both the genders
This video was one of the driving questions behind the poll I put up today about dating apps.
Why you care about providing proof to women 🤷🏻♂️ , don't use dating apps usually they look for sugar daddy
True, If you are a man if you don't have the 6 (6 foot, 6"+ package, 6 figure income) women will not want to know.
I think you should get off dating apps before they wreck your brain.
Who cares about girls just fuck the easy ones and that's it.
Men do have it harder on dating apps for sure
I know this is what it’s like. Well aware.
Must be pretty shocking for them lol
