About a year ago I was talking to my friend about the girl I liked/like, he made a comment regarding gold digging. I told her but I don't know if she misunderstood or if I mis-worded but she got the impression that I called her one. We really didn't talk much about it back then and I didn't think it was a big deal
We started getting close afterward and I asked her out but I was turned down. That caused a lot of drama between us, which is still sort of there to this day.
We were talking the other day about what happened and she just brought up the gold digger comment. I completely forgot about it but she said that it really hurt her and that she's still sort of upset about it
Even though I didn't mean it at all (since I know she isn't), could that have been the reason I was rejected? I mean, it was a year ago and she's still upset about it
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yeah I would reject you too.
if a guy thinks you're a gold digger most likely he doesn't trust you and probably doesn't respect you...so logically the only reason a guy would deal with a girl he didn't trust or respect is because he just wants sex from her. so yeah I would just not deal with that guy because I wouldn't trust HIS motives from me. sometimes you can apologize all you want, but you can't take words back. besides how does she even know you mean your apology? for all she knows you could be lying. if I were you I'd just move on
the thing is, we became even closer friends after it happened
Is there ANYTHING I could to to let her know I'm sorry? I mean, I didn't even call her one and I just feel horrible about it. She said its in the past and its over and done with but I just want her to know that she isn't one