I hate my toddler behavior, existence and noise is this normal?

[Anonymous]

Am I alone? My toddler is loud, overly hyper, destructive and a toddler from hell. I’m so tired of my toddler and he’s only 2. I think he has adhd, my life is ruined. 😢

Yes

No

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Your toddler is innocent and undeserving of your hatred towards him. If you seriously hate him; give him up for adoption or give up to someone who loves him.


Seriously, he deserves someone who would go through hell and back for him and not having someone say on the internet “I hate my toddlers existence, behavior, and noise.”


You should’ve thought of that before deciding to have kids. You should have realized that having kids and dealing with many issues is inevitable and simply a part of parenting. I feel sorry for your child.

[Subarugirl]

You've never had children have you? Imagine being so tired, sleep deprived, depressed, stressed, so overwhelmed that you regret having your child. I can imagine that because I have lived through it. I was your age when I had my son and the last thing I needed was judgment from people who don't understand. She need's help and support, not judgment.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@Subarugirl I work with children, I work with elderly, I work with special needs, I work with children with special needs too. I get it. It’s not easy. But I still have my opinions.

It’s GAG. I have every right to voice my opinion on this, just like you do as well. I voiced mine, I gave her advice, and I put my two cents in on how I feel about parents who say they hate their child just because they are a child.

If she needs help, what can we do about it? She posted this before. I told her to take him to a pediatrician, go to therapy, go to behavioral therapy for her and her child… I gave all the solutions I know to give based on my knowledge. It’s up to her to be the one to follow up with that information. If she can’t do that, the last resort I suggested in this comment, is to give her child to someone who is willing to care for him if she can’t.

Have a good day.

[Subarugirl]

You definitely had some good points but all I’m saying is that there is a big difference between working with children and having one of your own. She’s not alone in how she feels, most mothers will feel similarly at one point or another. However having those feelings when your at your limit doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you human.

[lrina]

i don't think this is anyone's fault, your toddler is just being a toddler, but i can understand your frustration. however, if you don't love him, please just give him up for adoption or give to your family to take care of for some time (until you want to take him back in, if you just want a temporary break from him). it's critical for children at this age to grow up with kind and loving parent figures.

[notwoke]

its called being a responsible adult and realizing that now its no longer all about you. Many people raised by a single parent feel the same way you do. I'm very grateful my parents did not think this way. The more you fail to deal with this constructively and mold him into the man you want him to be, the worse his life and thus yours will become. If you a single mother, well, parenting is a 2 person job that requires a male and a female presence to do well so you have some disadvantages

[Randy888]

its normal to be annoyed but do you actually HATE him or wish he never existed? If yes that is not normal, But if you deep down still love your toddler and are just annoyed thats normal

[Asker]

No I wish I never had him at all.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most kids are terrorists at that age.

[dorksided1]

Once you choose to get on your back anything can happen, and you assume the responsibility of whatever comes literally. Sounds like you are maybe just overwhelmed with it all, you cannot diagnose him only a Doctor can. They call it the terrible 2s for a reason but teachable of course you got to put the time and work in

[Sour-rose]

d'ya know that toddlers are that to like animals? They be willin' to do actual harm to you that could kill you, if they were strong as moutain lions. But they ain't so that's why instead of being dead, we just be annoyed with them.

So no, you ain't alone and just being a toddler... for now.

[wittymilf]

70% of having a toddler sucks. Actually that doesn’t change until they’re adults 😂😂.

If you hate your child 100% of the time you might need to seek help. you sound over loaded and like you’re losing the battle.

[Aurora1010]

Please seek professional help, your toddler doesn't have any fault, he's still an innocent being and he needs you. Treat him with kindness.

[sirderpsalot123]

Getting frustrated from time to time is normal. Hating your child's existence is abnormal. Your toddler isn't going to be a robot, you're going to have to do this thing called "parenting"

[Anonymous]

Since it's too late I recommend trying your best to teach him good behavior so when you send him to school he won't get many parent calls from teachers. If it's public school then it's similar to free babysitting for half the day. If family or friends help out make sure you return the favor. I got minor surgery to sterilize myself to avoid having a toddler of my own, meaning I have more time to help babysit my siblings kids

[Subarugirl]

You are definitely not alone, most parents will feel that way at some point especially with a high energy toddler.

[Subarugirl]

Talk to some one about it, get some help and find a support system. You probably need a break and some time to recharge. Parenting is hard, and having a tiny human that is dependent on you every second of the day is exhausting. Mix in some postpartum depression and it makes things even more difficult. It is extremely common for mothers to resent their children at one point or another, but it does get better.

[OddBeMe]

I doubt your alone. But its either soldier on or put it up for adoption.

[fred_durst]

there are many other childless couple that desperately need kid
it is win win solution

[Anonymous]

You had a kid too late and now regret it, adoption or child services awaits

[Iron_Man]

You’re the mother deal with it

[Emanon25]

Don’t feel sad please