There's is nothing wrong with doing what you want to with your life. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters. Ignore what others say and think. It's not their lives. It's your life.
I'm pretty sure feminism was about choice. If you choose to be a housewife, then you're fine. But you can choose a career if you so desired and aren't shoehorned into a role. If you enjoy being a housewife and enjoy more feminine aesthetics and it's your choice, then it's all good. It's not "wrong", it's just so you have options other than housewife if you wish.
In order to be a homemaker and not get a job outside of your home, you must have a man that makes a lot of money! Most couples cannot choose if the wife prefers staying home, they need two salaries to run their household. So, if you are lucky enough to marry a man with money who will support you, then go for it!
The only thing that would be a "betrayal of women's rights" would be to allow other people to tell you what you should be doing with your life! Freedom means that you should be able to choose whatever you want - stay at home, become a doctor, engineer, teacher, etc. Do what you love!
Wrong? I don't know. Depends on each specific context I guess. I imagine that being a housewife is more dangerous when you don't have a spouse & are have no money in the bank... But if you do... Then how wrong could it be? You're living. That's the goal of life right? You're not directly hurting anyone. Sounds pretty harmless to me.
It doesn't matter, live however you want to live if you're not hurting anybody. It's strange to me that you're looking for approval from other people at your age.
Only problem with that is, it might be difficult to find a man who can support it long term, most men nowadays can't afford a housewife.
No there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I’m the same way.. I’d love to stay home with my kids while they’re little and work from home doing stuff like sewing and I’d love taking care of my husband. I hate that people have shamed it and make it sound like the wife is just a lazy person depending on the man.. when there’s really something to say about being a housewife.
Why would any one think that there is anything wrong with being a housewife if she so desires or being a corporate leader? It depends upon the girl that is what " Free Will " is.
I know.. but I’ve ran into several guys who wanted girls to do certain things and didn’t think they should have free will when it came to that.. and also society shames housewife roles
Any guy that thinks that is nothing more than a quote " Dieing Breed " Girls have their careers and children staring literally right in front of them" Show me a mother that can't " Multitask a career on top of being a parent first "
No way is it wrong or setting a bad example for others! Do what makes you happy! Even if the rest of the world is against it. At the end of the day, you gotta be true to yourself.
There is never anything wrong with what a person decides to do and their content to do so. Heck, I wouldn't mind being a house husband myself. Seriously. I'd be the president of the PTA, a soccer dad, chillin at the pool with the other housewives, and would really enjoy being a DILF.
No you're not, in fact most of us would ask do you have a sister or cousin who is single 😂
In terms of rights, last time I checked, it was a woman's right to choose what she does as her vocation. If she chooses to work, she can, if she chooses to stay home she can. You have every right to choose this life.
No, women like you are in short supply and high demand, despite protestations from feminists that men should want nothing more than an independent career wife. Someone should be at home with the kids, whether it be the wife or the husband. Something profoundly sad about kids raised by paid carers and babysitters instead of fully present parents.
Not at all that's something holy and great thing you can have career like doctor or whatever good career but that doesn't hold you from being house wife the feminism ass are bunch of broken old psycho shit don't listen to them men need woman woman needs men that's all
Live the life that works best for you. Sadly this is one aspect of feminist messaging that has gone terribly awry. Women having the right to choose their path in life naturally means they can continue doing everything as traditionally as they please too! Anyone who criticizes you for this is neither a feminist nor an egalitarian.
Nothing wrong with it but I personally think being a 24/7 housewife is a doll and horrible existence.
It's like prison and to me it isn't attractive, besides the fact the immense majority of men around the world can't even afford a housewife to begin with. It's just not practical with reality.
@Keepitanomonous: If she can find some dude loaded with cash then fine. Do whatever they want.
I'm just saying the immense majority of men around the world realistically have a hard time carrying their own weight financially, so it's not realistic and practical that the immense majority of woman will find a man that can carry her weight as well plus if you throw in kids into the mix.
Full time housewife are dudes that are financially loaded, not for poor and pay check to pay check people which most of us are in the real world with real life situations and circumstance.
I mean my hobbies are outside my duties of taking care of the home, grocery shopping etc which take priority always. My hobbies are more a late afternoon, night time thing.
No those are GODS commanded commandments for women who have a spiritual purpose and absolute value unlike those others that protest GODS commandments. Dont worry about those who have a destiny of they're choice to enter the lake of fire. Your example shows your rightuosness and there's nothing that can take that away from you.
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There's is nothing wrong with doing what you want to with your life. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters. Ignore what others say and think. It's not their lives. It's your life.
I'm pretty sure feminism was about choice. If you choose to be a housewife, then you're fine. But you can choose a career if you so desired and aren't shoehorned into a role. If you enjoy being a housewife and enjoy more feminine aesthetics and it's your choice, then it's all good. It's not "wrong", it's just so you have options other than housewife if you wish.
In order to be a homemaker and not get a job outside of your home, you must have a man that makes a lot of money! Most couples cannot choose if the wife prefers staying home, they need two salaries to run their household.
So, if you are lucky enough to marry a man with money who will support you, then go for it!
The only thing that would be a "betrayal of women's rights" would be to allow other people to tell you what you should be doing with your life! Freedom means that you should be able to choose whatever you want - stay at home, become a doctor, engineer, teacher, etc. Do what you love!
Wrong? I don't know. Depends on each specific context I guess. I imagine that being a housewife is more dangerous when you don't have a spouse & are have no money in the bank... But if you do... Then how wrong could it be? You're living. That's the goal of life right? You're not directly hurting anyone. Sounds pretty harmless to me.
It doesn't matter, live however you want to live if you're not hurting anybody. It's strange to me that you're looking for approval from other people at your age.
Only problem with that is, it might be difficult to find a man who can support it long term, most men nowadays can't afford a housewife.
Good luck, I hope you can have that life.
No there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I’m the same way.. I’d love to stay home with my kids while they’re little and work from home doing stuff like sewing and I’d love taking care of my husband. I hate that people have shamed it and make it sound like the wife is just a lazy person depending on the man.. when there’s really something to say about being a housewife.
Why would any one think that there is anything wrong with being a housewife if she so desires or being a corporate leader? It depends upon the girl that is what " Free Will " is.
I know.. but I’ve ran into several guys who wanted girls to do certain things and didn’t think they should have free will when it came to that.. and also society shames housewife roles
Any guy that thinks that is nothing more than a quote " Dieing Breed " Girls have their careers and children staring literally right in front of them" Show me a mother that can't " Multitask a career on top of being a parent first "
No way is it wrong or setting a bad example for others! Do what makes you happy! Even if the rest of the world is against it. At the end of the day, you gotta be true to yourself.
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There is never anything wrong with what a person decides to do and their content to do so. Heck, I wouldn't mind being a house husband myself. Seriously. I'd be the president of the PTA, a soccer dad, chillin at the pool with the other housewives, and would really enjoy being a DILF.
No you're not, in fact most of us would ask do you have a sister or cousin who is single 😂
In terms of rights, last time I checked, it was a woman's right to choose what she does as her vocation. If she chooses to work, she can, if she chooses to stay home she can. You have every right to choose this life.
No, women like you are in short supply and high demand, despite protestations from feminists that men should want nothing more than an independent career wife. Someone should be at home with the kids, whether it be the wife or the husband. Something profoundly sad about kids raised by paid carers and babysitters instead of fully present parents.
Each person likes what they like. Womans rights is not about being a housewife if that is what you enjoy.
by the way if you are not in a political field then what the hell are you worried about setting an example.
Do what feels right from you and stop letting others judge you for your choices.
Not at all that's something holy and great thing you can have career like doctor or whatever good career but that doesn't hold you from being house wife the feminism ass are bunch of broken old psycho shit don't listen to them men need woman woman needs men that's all
Live the life that works best for you. Sadly this is one aspect of feminist messaging that has gone terribly awry. Women having the right to choose their path in life naturally means they can continue doing everything as traditionally as they please too! Anyone who criticizes you for this is neither a feminist nor an egalitarian.
No, just do whatever makes you and your partner feels good. It is nobody's business.
Not wrong at all. If you're okay with it if that's your passion and your husband agrees that's perfectly fine.
It’s your preference, as long as you are happy with it and your partner then it’s fine. Also as long as you do not shame or slam those who are not.
personally I would never have that type of person, it’s just not what I like in a relationship.
Nothing wrong with it but I personally think being a 24/7 housewife is a doll and horrible existence.
It's like prison and to me it isn't attractive, besides the fact the immense majority of men around the world can't even afford a housewife to begin with. It's just not practical with reality.
*dull
Well I wouldn’t call it dull persay. I have lots of hobbies like cross stitching, hiking, gaming too.
Well, seems like your definition of housewife just means leisure and pleasure while someone else supports you and your lifestyle style. LOL
Yeah, And thats wrong why? Aslong as her hustband is ok with it i dont see the problem?
@Keepitanomonous: If she can find some dude loaded with cash then fine. Do whatever they want.
I'm just saying the immense majority of men around the world realistically have a hard time carrying their own weight financially, so it's not realistic and practical that the immense majority of woman will find a man that can carry her weight as well plus if you throw in kids into the mix.
Full time housewife are dudes that are financially loaded, not for poor and pay check to pay check people which most of us are in the real world with real life situations and circumstance.
I mean my hobbies are outside my duties of taking care of the home, grocery shopping etc which take priority always. My hobbies are more a late afternoon, night time thing.
No those are GODS commanded commandments for women who have a spiritual purpose and absolute value unlike those others that protest GODS commandments. Dont worry about those who have a destiny of they're choice to enter the lake of fire. Your example shows your rightuosness and there's nothing that can take that away from you.