No, you are doing things"the right way" which with today's society and environment is very difficult to do. Some gals prefer your style others like to be the outgoing version of themselves it's neither right or wrong as a whole, but from what you said it is right for you.
Você é livre para escolher You are free to choose what you want for your life. What do I or someone else have to do with your life? It would be the same as caring about men who think it's wrong for me to work and have my own business.
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No, you do you. Mysonginistic men saw house work as lesser than. So second wave feminism addressed this by leaving the housewife role; instead of fighting for the respect that housewives deserved. It was rather shortsighted for feminists to embrace misogyny; but you can't change the past.
Funny enough it was women who saw being a housewife as lesser work. Even today feminists throw shade at women for choosing to stay at home rather than work. This has nothing to do with misogyny. At least not in today's society
Some men may have seen it that way. But the majority where following a tradition of gender roles. Doesn't mean men at that time had misogynistic intentions. Invalid generalization form your end.
What are you freaking talking about? I have nothing but respect for what my girl my wife does for myself let alone our three children two twin daughters and a son considering that practically every single dime I ever made went straight to my wife to support our family when I was in military as US ARMY SCOUT SNIPER for 6 years and then another 12 years as USAF PJ in Iraq and Afghanistan every dime went to my wife and my children. You're confusing me with apparently you're ex husband or someone else that has mistreated you and your kid's. IT SURE AS HELL ISN'T ME. YOU FREAKING PSYCHOPATH!
People tell you about how you should not do this or that but honestly? All that matters is that your happy, no need to worry about others thinking you betrayed them, its not their place to tell you what to do with your life.
I definitely think that's better than most modern women between the ages of 59 down to 20 what your missin is that career women are actually most beneficial to men more so than the traditional good woman and that's because career women actually get the bag with men even though the behavior of traditional good women is sexy as hell that still pulls men into a situation where they gotta work too hard
You are not wrong, no more than a woman who wants to work is wrong, or a man who lives being a house husband is wrong. Each person should be true to themselves.
Not wrong at all. You can do what you like and what you think is best for your life. If you think you offer the most as a housewife then you should be a housewife.
No I don’t think there’s anything wrong with loving that if that’s what you want no ones forcing you to do it that’s all that matters is that you’re happy doing it
It's not wrong at all but you gotta find someone who is OKAY with having only a one income household (OR you could find a remote job that would be an alternative or work at home?).
This is one of my biggest reasons for hating feminism. It makes women look down on femininity and makes girls want to act like men. The fact you even have to ask this question is heart-breaking to me. I wish I had a girl like you in my life.
Hell no. Motherhood is more important than any job out there. A fallen society is one that forgets that
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Na your good, just ignore all the negativity from others. This is one of the reasons I dislike feminist and will never become one, they are all about supporting and empowering women to be them selves/who they are unless it's something they disagree with then they viciously attack.
I don't understand why women are demeaning being a housewife and feminine.
My mom says that being a house wife is like running a business. There are responsibilities and people depend on you.
Although my mom does not liking cooking that much, she feels proud that she took great care of me as a mother me growing up.
Everything is cool, until, your work is valued by your family. She said. The acknowledgement of work is what everyone desires. That is a natural demand I think.
That is a really really good plan to be honest. I very rarely see girls like you. Feels good to be honest.
As you may know, I am in engineering college. And the girls here are so very much obsessed with their career. That is very much understandable.
But they say that they will marry at the age of 31+. And medically, for a mother and the baby to be healthy, after the delivery, after 32+ years is like a falling graph, till it becomes 0 at some age around 47 to 52. For their (girls) health, physical and mental, I would have told them to get married around 24 to 26, but I just couldn't.
You're getting more and more awesome for me from now on.
My mom's friend's sister was pursuing PhD at IIT (top most engg. college) and she was married. But the guide was a much older woman who did not have any children and was not married.
The guide used to give so much trouble to her, and just because she was married, 1st point, and she was pregnant, 2nd point, and they were going to shift to the States afterwards.
Her PhD is not completed till this date. Women give other women headaches regarding these things. I don't know how and why.
absolutely not. you are probably much more important to your family then you would be working a "normal" job. my wife works. she doesn't make enough money to male it worth it because none of the housework or other family meed is getting handled.
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No, you are doing things"the right way" which with today's society and environment is very difficult to do. Some gals prefer your style others like to be the outgoing version of themselves it's neither right or wrong as a whole, but from what you said it is right for you.
all the "girl bosses" are going extinct, during the pandemic they learned they really loved being at home with their kids
https://www.youtube.com/embed/cD3b-s-qAV4the only happy women are feminine ones.
No absolutely not... It's totally your prerogative what you wish and choose to do.
Você é livre para escolher You are free to choose what you want for your life. What do I or someone else have to do with your life? It would be the same as caring about men who think it's wrong for me to work and have my own business.
No, you do you. Mysonginistic men saw house work as lesser than. So second wave feminism addressed this by leaving the housewife role; instead of fighting for the respect that housewives deserved. It was rather shortsighted for feminists to embrace misogyny; but you can't change the past.
Funny enough it was women who saw being a housewife as lesser work. Even today feminists throw shade at women for choosing to stay at home rather than work. This has nothing to do with misogyny. At least not in today's society
It was originally men who thought it was lesser work. Some men still see it that way today. Second wave feminism started in the 60s or 70s.
Some men may have seen it that way. But the majority where following a tradition of gender roles. Doesn't mean men at that time had misogynistic intentions. Invalid generalization form your end.
How is a generalization invalid if it was meant as a generalization?
It means that your generelization is inaccurate.
How so?
You're a very bad girl, but I love you that inside you
Why am I bad?
To be perfectly honest you seriously have the wrong opinion about me.
I actually prefer to pleasure a girl long before I cum twice inside
I don't even know who you are. I think that you have the wrong person in mind.
I don't even know how you came to that opinion of me but you're completely wrong.
What opinion? I don't have one for you.
What are you freaking talking about? I have nothing but respect for what my girl my wife does for myself let alone our three children two twin daughters and a son considering that practically every single dime I ever made went straight to my wife to support our family when I was in military as US ARMY SCOUT SNIPER for 6 years and then another 12 years as USAF PJ in Iraq and Afghanistan every dime went to my wife and my children. You're confusing me with apparently you're ex husband or someone else that has mistreated you and your kid's. IT SURE AS HELL ISN'T ME. YOU FREAKING PSYCHOPATH!
People tell you about how you should not do this or that but honestly? All that matters is that your happy, no need to worry about others thinking you betrayed them, its not their place to tell you what to do with your life.
I definitely think that's better than most modern women between the ages of 59 down to 20 what your missin is that career women are actually most beneficial to men more so than the traditional good woman and that's because career women actually get the bag with men even though the behavior of traditional good women is sexy as hell that still pulls men into a situation where they gotta work too hard
You are not wrong, no more than a woman who wants to work is wrong, or a man who lives being a house husband is wrong. Each person should be true to themselves.
You do you, kiddo.
Don't be part of the pack, be part of the party.
Not wrong at all. You can do what you like and what you think is best for your life. If you think you offer the most as a housewife then you should be a housewife.
No I don’t think there’s anything wrong with loving that if that’s what you want no ones forcing you to do it that’s all that matters is that you’re happy doing it
It's not wrong at all but you gotta find someone who is OKAY with having only a one income household (OR you could find a remote job that would be an alternative or work at home?).
No, my wife is the same way. Don't worry about what other people think. If it makes you happy, then do it.
This is one of my biggest reasons for hating feminism. It makes women look down on femininity and makes girls want to act like men. The fact you even have to ask this question is heart-breaking to me. I wish I had a girl like you in my life.
Your feelings are what most men feel. But men suffer this shit similarly.
Hell no. Motherhood is more important than any job out there. A fallen society is one that forgets that
Na your good, just ignore all the negativity from others. This is one of the reasons I dislike feminist and will never become one, they are all about supporting and empowering women to be them selves/who they are unless it's something they disagree with then they viciously attack.
You’re not wrong. Girls don’t have to conform to traditional gender roles, but you’re allowed to if you want to.
Not at all! Since I was very young, I had a similar desire... My plans went out the window, but being a housewife is still one of my greatest goals!
I don't understand why women are demeaning being a housewife and feminine.
My mom says that being a house wife is like running a business. There are responsibilities and people depend on you.
Although my mom does not liking cooking that much, she feels proud that she took great care of me as a mother me growing up.
Everything is cool, until, your work is valued by your family. She said. The acknowledgement of work is what everyone desires.
That is a natural demand I think.
What were your plans?
@The_Shadow_Dweller To wait until marriage for sex, marry young and have lots of kids. Fate dashed those plans for me...
That is a really really good plan to be honest. I very rarely see girls like you. Feels good to be honest.
As you may know, I am in engineering college. And the girls here are so very much obsessed with their career. That is very much understandable.
But they say that they will marry at the age of 31+. And medically, for a mother and the baby to be healthy, after the delivery, after 32+ years is like a falling graph, till it becomes 0 at some age around 47 to 52.
For their (girls) health, physical and mental, I would have told them to get married around 24 to 26, but I just couldn't.
You're getting more and more awesome for me from now on.
Mental health as in, let me give an example.
My mom's friend's sister was pursuing PhD at IIT (top most engg. college) and she was married. But the guide was a much older woman who did not have any children and was not married.
The guide used to give so much trouble to her, and just because she was married, 1st point, and she was pregnant, 2nd point, and they were going to shift to the States afterwards.
Her PhD is not completed till this date.
Women give other women headaches regarding these things. I don't know how and why.
No you are not wrong. Its your life, no one else's.
If other women and soyboys are calling you a traitor, tell them to suck one and mind their own business. you're probably happier than they are.
absolutely not. you are probably much more important to your family then you would be working a "normal" job. my wife works. she doesn't make enough money to male it worth it because none of the housework or other family meed is getting handled.