American women, do you believe American men have an obligation to defend and protect you?

[KrakenAttackin]

YES. I am an American woman and I believe American men have an obligation to protect women.

NO. I am an American woman and I do NOT believe American men have an obligation to protect women.

A total of 14 votes were cast: 6 girls and 8 guys. See detailed results

[meetkitty123]

Lets remove the word obligation

Lets remove the gender

Lets remove the age

What question can we create?

As an American Would you defend, protect or stand up for another American...

in danger, in harms way, falsely accused or being maltreated?

@KrakenAttackin

Would you?

I would and I have... sometimes at risk of injury... Sometimes frighten with a pounding heart, a raised chin and a stiff back standing as tall as my small 5'2 frame will allow...

Would I expect someone to do so for me? No. I have long learned not to expect anything from anyone. Even with certain people such as a boyfriend, a spouse, a friend or a family member who we would expect to behave in a certain way. it is still too much to expect the expected.

However Would I desire and still hope someone would do the same for me? of course. That's all we're left with really. not expectations not obligation... just hope and desire for a good outcome in such situations.

[KrakenAttackin]

@meetkitty123. Your question is different from the one I am asking. I am asking about general attitudes and expectations of women regarding men.

[meetkitty123]

My answer and counter questions stands the same

Would I expect someone to do so for me? No. I have long learned not to expect anything from anyone. Even with certain people such as a boyfriend, a spouse, a friend or a family member who we would expect to behave in a certain way. it is still too much to expect the expected.

However Would I desire and still hope someone would do the same for me? of course. That's all we're left with really. not expectations not obligation... just hope and desire for a good outcome in such situations.

Now how about you? Would you defend... Since you insist... A woman

[KrakenAttackin]

@meetkitty123. In times past I absolutely have and risked my life in the process.

I am curious about the "I don't need no man, bad bitch, Boss babe" crowd and their opinions.

[meetkitty123]

@KrakenAttackin well I glad you stepped in and came to aid. We need people like this.
I remember a few situations where I've had to stand up and defend someone/someones I loved. In one situation to the point where it nearly killed me but I wouldn't take it back the bruises the trauma it is what it is. The person I defended was/is safe.

As for not needing a man attitude from certain women? I know there are those like that I'm not sure if I fall into that category or not

I don't "need" a man but that doesn't mean I don't want a man. I can handle many situations and I have on my own especially lately but even as I write this up... im choking up excuse me... I'm capable but it doesn't mean I desire to have to do everything on my own it would be nice to have someone there to lean on... It would be nice to have someone true to make things a little less scary and less difficult it really does suck when you have to do everything on your own and don't get me wrong it does feel good at the end of the day when you accomplish the tasks that are difficult... But it still would have been nice to have a partner to help or strong arms to crawl into or to catch you if you slip.

[demonics]

Translation: Your question puts me in a position that i'd rather not be in, reality, therefore I will re-frame the question so I can maintain my false sense of superiority as a modern western woman who doesn't need a man, but also be able retreat to my femininity whenever I need male protection at a moments notice. I am woman, duplicity is in my very DNA.

[meetkitty123]

@demonics may I ask who are you?
Whats your story and do you know mine? I think not.
So say whatever you must. This us between the kraken and I.

[KrakenAttackin]

@demonics it's a question of entitlement and expectations. If course a Captain Save -A-Hoe like you had to come charging in.

[meetkitty123]

@KrakenAttackin thank you for the MHO 😊

[RoseyGal]

See THIS sort of attitude is why many American men - particularly white English speakers - are becoming less and less desirable in the dating field. Don't matter if you make 100,000+ a year if you're a douchebag, only interested women would be sluts.

You go to many European countries and a man who doesn't defend his woman is considered a Loser. Douchebag. Trash. Wimp. Weak. Effeminate. Undesirable. Unless.

Even in so-called barbaric "backward" countries like the Balkans or say Bulgaria or Serbia or Russia men are an improvement on American men who think like this.

Hell even in Arabic countries men have more balls and that includes Muslim regions where men and women alike are oftentimes taught women are just property.

[KrakenAttackin]

@RoseyGal. There it is, shaming language from a woman who would say "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"... Until she really does need a man.

You can't have it both ways baby girl.

[RoseyGal]

@KrakenAttackin - ROFL. What's shaming about reality? You sound like a spineless wimp. I mean WHAT USE do you have not just to a woman but your family if you think it's an obligation to defend them.

[KrakenAttackin]

@RoseyGal. Did I stutter? Sorry Boo, I am trying to reconcile modern female hypocrisy and all you can do is turn up the volume. Being hormonal and yelling doesn't win arguments.

[RoseyGal]

@KrakenAttackin - ROFL. Wherever am I going on about what you blitter like an idiot about? East European men have nothing to do with feminism. Muslim men have nothing to do with feminism. Are you stupid?

[KrakenAttackin]

@RoseyGal. Are you entitled to men's protection, yes or no? It's a simple question.

[RoseyGal]

@KrakenAttackin - what use does a man have in a woman or child's life if he won't? None.

[KrakenAttackin]

@RoseyGal. FINALLY. You say "yes, you are entitled to men's protection"... fuck, that was like pulling teeth.

[RoseyGal]

@KrakenAttackin - no I didn't say I was obligated. Do you know how to read? I said what use a man has in a woman's or child's life if he won't protect them? That's not obligation - get a dictionary simpleton.

[CALIGVLA]

@RoseyGal Kraken "El Incelito" Attackin can't punch his way out of a wet paper bag, let alone protect a woman from real men and dangers.

Unfortunately, many American men are becoming like him indeed, real wimps.

[KrakenAttackin]

@CALIGVLA Yeah, that's me, totally harmless and helpless.

[Jamie05rhs]

I know this question was for the ladies, but I'd like to share my view as well, if I may:

I believe that I have a responsibility to protect her if she's my girlfriend or if she's my wife. If it's just a random woman, then no; she's not my problem.

Sorry if this offends anyone.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Jamie05rhs. This is the crux of the question. Men will naturally vigorously protect the women in their lives, but do random women feel entitled to protection of random men. So far it seems that they do.

[Jamie05rhs]

@KrakenAttackin Interesting. Well, I guess I feel bad for them, though, because they may very well be disappointed.

I mean, look, it's not my fault. I vote for Republican sheriffs and Republican D. A. s. (And I support ICE and the border wall.) These women are probably the ones voting for Democrats who put them in danger.

[Guy13]

Sure they do…all the damn Feminists will change their time when China is knocking on the door.

[KrakenAttackin]

@guy13. I mean more in a day-to-day level, such as a woman being harassed/attacked, do they think other men have an obligation to step in.

[LazerBean]

He's trying to find peer validation for wanting to watch women get murdered on the streets.

[Guy13]

@LazerBean I think any and all have an obligation to step in... but apparently not on or in NYC subway.

[LazerBean]

Yep, which is exactly what I told him. It seemed to upset him.

[Guy13]

@LazerBean We are Mighty together ;-)

[LazerBean]

Absolutely 😎

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean So, are you a boss babe? Don't need no man? Bad bitch?

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean. It amazes me how many women feel entitled to the protection of random men when they constantly say they don't need a man. How do you reconcile this?

[LazerBean]

I can reconcile it by saying if you were getting ass raped in an alleyway and a woman walked by, you would hate her guts if she didn't call the police or do anything, and just ignored you. Don't be a hypocrite, it's very emasculating.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean I have sever seen a woman help a man who was being attacked. Never.

[KrakenAttackin]

And again, the question is:. Are women entered to men's protection?

[LazerBean]

And I've never seen a man do it either 😉 so confirm or deny on if I was right about how you would feel or move on the your next pathic, hypocritical rant.

[LazerBean]

Yeah I thought so lmao

[MzAsh]

No. But I’d love it if he collaborated with me to defend and protect myself. My man showed me how to use firearms.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know that it is a uniquely American trait, but I feel an obligation to protect women in my immediate vicinity.

[TrueConfection]

Obligation? No, but it's certainly appreciated.

[Justneedtokno]

Only obligation is if I was married to him or in a committed relationship with or my father uncle

[CALIGVLA]

It's a good thing that they don't. They can't expect that incel losers like you could protect them. Damn, you couldn't punch your way out of a wet paper bag, let alone protect somebody.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't think it's a obligation but men should protect their country women.

In America for some strange reason this country just doesn't support one another.

It's everybody for themselves here which is a very bad way to live.

[Plinko]

No one has an obligation to protect anyone at all.
It's why self defense is so important.

[Bratsondanielle]

I'll defend myself. My bullets go where I aim. My husband can help if he wants

[JessieBellll]

No but you have an obligation to defend pedo women because that's what you are into

[KrakenAttackin]

@jessiebellll. Nasty ass land whale.

[JessieBellll]

Pedo defender

[CALIGVLA]

He's actually a pedo, Jessie.

[KrakenAttackin]

@CALIGVLA Sheesh... a Cuck pumping up a land whale.

[CALIGVLA]

@KrakenAttackin I'm not interested in Jessie the same way you're interested in prepubescent children, @pedoattackin. I'm not attracted to white women.

By the way, do you sniff children like Joe Biden does?

[KrakenAttackin]

@CALIGVLA Whooooo child, what a great insult. Next you will insult my mother or say I have a tiny weenie.

[msc545]

All those strong independent women who don't need men can just defend themselves.

[PrettypleaseDY]

No, nobody does

[Iron_Man]

Yes they do

[LazerBean]

Defend against what?

[LazerBean]

Oh I saw your reply to guy13. I think any decent human being should try to help any person being attacked on the streets. The lack of that is why NYC and similar cities are such shit holes.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean. So "yes". Honestly, how often do women come in to defend a man?

[LazerBean]

Would know, there aren't any statistics on it. I've just seen as many men defend women as I have women defend men.

[LazerBean]

If you don't like decent people doing decent things, you can just say it. Nobody's going to disbelieve you.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean. Now that is a crock of shit, pure and simple.

[LazerBean]

Clearly. Everyone here has lots of respect for your morals and dignity.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean. There again, you can't just answer the question so you revert to shaming. Are you entitled to men's protection, yes or no?

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean. Once again you can't answer a simple question. Are you entitled to men's protection, yes or no?

[LazerBean]

I did answer the question, you just didn't like it 💁🏽‍♀️

[KrakenAttackin]

@LazerBean so you say you are entitled to men's protection. Got it.