We are told not to cry. We are hit and abused by our spouses and it’s seen as okay. We have our children taken away from us and we have to pay child support payments even if the mother already has a new guy. We are not allowed to have empowerment movements for our gender. Women can make money easier on onlyfans. We are more likely to be killed while working due to working more dangerous jobs. So on and so on.
Lastly, we are loved for what we provide when women are loved unconditionally.
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Do girls ever feel bad for the way society treats men?
The abuse thing is not ok, i know, the hardest part of dealing with that is telling people what's been going on. They look at you like "wtf, she wouldn't do that" or "get a grip, you're a man", and how many times i heard "Well everything looks fine to me, why wouldn't you say anything?". Male friends treat you like you're a failure to the male gender. Women friends treat you like you must have done something to deserve it, but it can't be that bad cos you're a man, and strong.
Crying? F*** anyone that tells me not to cry. I cried every time the emotions were too much to hold in. I cried every time i left my support group. I cried when i wanted to.
Paying child support has to be done. It might be a legal obligation but it should also be a moral one too.
Some jobs suck, i wouldn't argue with that.
As for the unconditional love thing... i think you might be in a worse place than you want to be at the moment. Women are the most beautiful (on the inside), kind, caring, loyal, passionate creatures that God (if you believe or not) ever saw fit to grace this crappy planet with. Don't lose your faith in womankind because of a bad experience or two. They will pick you up, repair the damage, and be your best friend forever.
Only in some aspects, but at the same time society treats women bad in some aspects too.
You are wrong about Only Fans that is NOT easy money... unless you somehow get into the 1% of the top performers, its a lot of hard work and you don't get any benefits, like health insurance, 401k, etc... as you are self employed. It is like a hobby for many who just want a few extra hundred a month.
I am on the camp that new born babies should always have a paternity/dna test done to make sure the father is who she claims it is.
Too many men have been defrauded by having to pay for and raise a child who is not theirs. In my home state, the woman can have an affair and since they are married, his name goes on the birth certificate by default.
He has to contest it in court, paying expensive legal fees within a certain time frame to get it off. Of course if he has no idea she cheated and he may not for years, then that time frame will pass.
I know someone in that situation right now, he found out his son was not his son a week after he turned 18. This was back in 2017, he took his ex to court and won a return of all $120,000 he paid in child support, and of course she filed bankruptcy on it. Something he would never be able to do when paying child support. The system is fucked up in that respect, the same mechanisms to collect child support should be reversed in the mans favor in cases like this.
I also believed in the concept of Roe Vs. Wade for men (look it up if you don't know what it is.)
I know laws are to try and save tax payers money, or they say its in the best interest of the child, but they are wrong when the make victims.
It’s very unlikely for women without a college degree to have a successful career. Skilled manual labor jobs pay extremely well. Men have the option where as women are forced to take on tremendous amounts of debt if they want a good chance at a career. Men have much more job opportunities so let’s just say men and women both have benefits and disadvantages and fighting over it isn’t gonna solve anything.
Women I’ve worked with include a 747 captain, a diesel mechanic, an aviation mechanic and numerous truck and bus drivers. Which skilled manual labor jobs aren’t available to them?
@Pyrofox A woman I’ve known since she was four had the Navy pay her way through medical school. She’s at Walter Reed now serving out her service commitment.
@MikeInHawaii Oh her I think I know her actually from a discord community I've heard the hell she puts the grunts through if they screw up lmao. Launchers break its go do pushups till the launchers back up and going. XD. Lol.
Where do inexperienced kids like you get such crazy notions? There must be some powerful anti-woman propaganda out there. And then guys who are subjected to it sit around feeling sorry for themselves instead of pulling up their socks and getting out in the world.
Except, with their minds already poisoned toward the entire female gender, they'll never be capable of loving, trusting, or having a meaningful relationship with one.
There are lots of guys who are worthy of a woman's love and respect. But whinny, entitled guys are NOT.
Long before I was 18, I figured out some of the rules stacked against men. My sister could cry and her brothers would be in trouble. As an 18-year-old college freshman, I could see women, who would knock down a UGA linebacker if he was guarding a keg, complaining the next day about men “getting them drunk,” as if they were sweet, innocent little angels, making a naive mistake for the 137th time.
@MikeInHawaii. You were talking about society, not just individual woman. It's impossible to stereotype men and women. Some are ass holes, some are manipulators, and plenty of them are really good people.
I think society is equally hard on both men and women.
I know a man paying child support for a teenager he proved wasn’t his daughter when she was four. He waited beyond the statute of limitations to contest paternity and had “acted as the father.”
I know a man who was 15 when his 19 year old babymomma had their child. He has gone to jail at 19 for being behind on child support. The state supreme courts in several states that make victims of statutory rape can still be ordered to pay child support to adult babymommas.
I’ve gotten ridiculed for complaining that male bashing creates a hostile work environment.
Yeah, I think guys go through a lot of shit and it doesn't get talked about it enough and society or at least radical feminism always finds a way to make women the victims and makes excuses for their BS.
Well at least a honest comment from that mexican chick but she forgot to mention that Men are born to work manual labor jobs while women are born to work with kids / become a chef or get college degree to be successful
Without college degree women are useless and that's a FACT
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Dude, women don’t care about men.
They don’t care about men.
They don’t give a flying fuck about men.
Women are only capable of caring about a man. Someone they know. Someone they have an emotional connection with. In general, women are completely indifferent to men. This is not some plea for women to “change.” It’s like asking a double amputee to juggle. It’s just not happening. Don’t ask something of women they aren’t capable of.
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Women may pity men. But women NEVER feel sorry for guys that they have not developed some intimate relationship. Generally every thought in a woman's mind is geared to be about HER. I mean if she feels bad for a guy, it's ONLY because it affects HER relationship with him.
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Society still to this day has expectations óf Men, despite various sexual revolution movements through the years Men in a round about way are still expected to be bread winners and God help a man who is seen crying. Yes, Sociéty dealt mén a bad hand
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Sounds like a bunch of whining to me. Especially your onlyfans point. More women want to work those dangerous jobs you speak of but there's heavy discrimination there. Jobs like manual labor are considered jobs for men. If you fight stereotypes against women you can have more women working those dangerous jobs you speak of. Half your points aimed at discrimination against men are actually the opposite. Congratulations, you've played yourself.
I am flattered about how many women acknowledge the pains a man goes through due societal expectations. I read so much on here where Men and Women are bashing each other. We really need to stop doing that, there really needs to be more Men and Women like us. The battle of the sexes only brings pain and animosity between genders. The Powers that be like the Supreme Court and the Politicians create such a division between sexes. It is up to us to go against the grain and love and heal one another (not talking about sex) we need to do more to understand each other and not resent each other
