Is it okay to hide your wealth from your SO?

[Anonymous]

You didn't tell your SO you are millionaire or you won lottery

[Lliam]

You have no obligation to disclose that to an SO unless you are married to them.
I wouldn't disclose that to a date or a girlfriend. I would want to tempt someone to be extra interested in me because of my money.

But, if I loved and trusted someone enough to marry them, my money would provide us with a comfortable life together.

[CloudMassacre]

I’m not really sure. Like my gut says yeah it’s fine, but at the same time, I’d want to know if my partner was in massive debt

[Asker]

Thats what I thought too

[CloudMassacre]

Like to me, it would be a turn off if they were wealthy and super materialistic, like scoffs at anything cheap or non luxury

[Asker]

Lmao same. So do you like them frugal?

[CloudMassacre]

Like a healthy level of frugal, not like unplugging appliances and taking 3 cup baths frugal

[Asker]

Thats extreme cheapskate. Like this one https://youtu.be/rm-GryeWnpM

[CloudMassacre]

Yeah, no way I’d want to be with someone THAT penny pinching. Like I don’t care if gas is 5 cents more at this station, it’s not worth the.55 cents to worry to me

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I think that's wrong to do that. Why even marry a person you don't love or trust at all?

Makes no sense but people see their spouse more as a "partner" instead of a close family member.

[LazerBean]

I'm not going to marry someone I would hide my stuff from.

[Dargil]

From your girlfriend yes. From your wife, no.

[BarryLiverstone]

Depends on what kinda relationship you are in. Are you married or just started dating?

[Asker]

Dating. Not married

[BarryLiverstone]

Right but how long have you been dating? And will you be getting married to them?

[Asker]

Like 2 years. Of course. Is it bad to hide it?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. In that case hiding the fact that you are very wealthy is not trustworthy. They don’t have to know the exact amount of resources you possess but they should be told you are wealthy and hiding that fact is like lying to them.

[BarryLiverstone]

Why haven’t you told them yet?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

No, it's not