Why is everyone so offended these days? They ask for the truth then say ," you're so rude and cold". Like do you want the truth or not?

[ZenJen444]

[SnowedIn]

I can't answer why but you're 100% right. The other day someone asked a question. I provided an answer. Politely. But because I had congratulated them on something that, apparently, they didn't want to be congratulated about, they deleted my answer. smh.

[ZenJen444]

🤣 I'm really starting to come to the conclusion that a lot of people on this app need therapy and have some serious issues.

[SnowedIn]

You 100% right about that too! I confess to being one of them.

[JPresidente]

They've been brought up to believe in safe spaces and told by their parents that they can have and do anything they want.

[ZenJen444]

Very accurate , sheltered individuals

[Anonymous]

it’s not that they don’t want the truth it’s because they have a hard time accepting it, there’s a difference between telling the truth and coming across rude. the way you word and tone ‘the truth ‘ is important

[ZenJen444]

There is no right way to tell someone the truth who has a hard time accepting it. It's going to sound rude to a person who can't face the facts. If that's the case they shouldn't ask for someone's opinion

[Alex8736]

to better format the question would you rather have a close friend give you an honest answer on how you look or dressed prior to going on a dream date or tell you what you want to hear and be curious why people are laughing at you behind your back while on your date and ask later why you are being ghosted?

[Opinion Owner]

@Alex8736 no let’s say my dress or makeup looks bad and they say ‘u look fucking disgusting never in ur life ever wear a dress or makeup again’ that would be very rude but if they said ‘I feel like u could wear something else it don’t look nice u can find something better’ . I feel like some people secretly hate others and want to find a reason to be rude and use the excuse ‘just being a honest good friend’

[ZenJen444]

@Alex8736 thank you!

[Alex8736]

if there are friends like that, who needs enemies?

[ZenJen444]

@Opinion owner you're being way extreme with this. He explained what the truth is yet you went to an extreme interpretation that doesn't even align with the question which shows your frame of mind. You tend to interpret things negatively and that's solely based on the views you have of yourself and low self-esteem.

[ZenJen444]

@Alex8736 she's not comprehending. I believe we both have explained the same thing to her. When someone's mind is wired the way hers is they interpret everything offensively. I believe it has a lot to do with trauma and insecurities.

[Alex8736]

@ZenJen444 court has been adjourned for the day and we have said our peace now onto the next case on the docket lol

[ZenJen444]

🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Nahhh has nothing to do with having low self esteem, if someone’s rude that means their rude it has nothing to do with being sensitive and not accepting the truth. Someone could be honest to me I wouldn’t care and if their rude i still wouldn’t care but it don’t mean what they said it isn't offensive , some chose to get offended some don’t but this don’t change whether what’s been said is offensive

[ZenJen444]

We've gone over this with you twice yet you're still not comprehending based on your negative mindset, insecurities and trauma. Case closed🔨

[Opinion Owner]

Mate ngl idc I don’t have a negative mindset or insecurites or trauma I just can tell the difference between honesty and plain rudeness. Seems like your the one with issues don’t post on this platform then get mad when people give their opinion, each to their own xxxxxxxx

[ZenJen444]

Again , your interpretation who said we were mad? Seek therapy kiddo.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Those people lie to themselves but actually just want someone agreeing to them.

[ZenJen444]

Exactly 🤣 and when you don't they get angry

[Ms_Facesitter]

A friend says "Do you want me to say what you want to hear or what I'm honestly thinking?" beforehand. I should do that too sometimes.

[Anonymous]

I find it easy to believe that half the human race is going through some kind of psychotic episode which helps me explain their behaviour. It also gives hope that they'll eventually come out of their psychosis and see reality again or for the first time.

[ZenJen444]

It's crazy

[Msputiton]

Truth hurts.

If they don't like it, don't ask

[ZenJen444]

Thank you!!

[DaisyM23]

mostly western countries where there's too much privilege and where people have no idea what real problems are so they create new ones

[inhua]

there's a lot of virtue signaling going on and the truth can be too uncomfortable to hear.

[bowenw]

It seems like some people ask questions just to start a fights.

[ZenJen444]

That too lol

[bowenw]

Or they have an agenda.

[BJP21]

I prefer the blunt straight forward truth. Yes people get offended but thats on them. Next time tell them a flat out lie, see how "Offended" they get then.

[ronaldo75]

Well one of the reasons it that people like you are so full of shit and seemingly talk out of your asses. I see it almost everyday.

[ZenJen444]

I remember you, lol. You're the guy who keeps stalking the girl that isn't interested in you lol.

[Sasahara]

Not everyone are like that. Some people are, because when they ask they actually just want you to agree with their opinion.

[Anonymous]

You are for sure the rudest girl on this site

[ZenJen444]

Not my fault you can't handle the truth and that the girl doesn't like you back.

[Opinion Owner]

what girl

[ZenJen444]

Hey ugly, you're the guy who can't get a woman to save your life and you're still hurt about me telling you you'll never find love. You still won't. Good luck ugly.

[Opinion Owner]

Because I said you are the rudest girl on this site means I can't get a girl? lol

[ZenJen444]

🤣🤣🤣

[ZenJen444]

I already know who you are dude. I've responded to your post before and because you're insecure and offended you comment anonymously yet the truth still remains..