
Why is everyone so offended these days? They ask for the truth then say ," you're so rude and cold". Like do you want the truth or not?


I can't answer why but you're 100% right. The other day someone asked a question. I provided an answer. Politely. But because I had congratulated them on something that, apparently, they didn't want to be congratulated about, they deleted my answer. smh.
They've been brought up to believe in safe spaces and told by their parents that they can have and do anything they want.
it’s not that they don’t want the truth it’s because they have a hard time accepting it, there’s a difference between telling the truth and coming across rude. the way you word and tone ‘the truth ‘ is important
to better format the question would you rather have a close friend give you an honest answer on how you look or dressed prior to going on a dream date or tell you what you want to hear and be curious why people are laughing at you behind your back while on your date and ask later why you are being ghosted?
@Alex8736 no let’s say my dress or makeup looks bad and they say ‘u look fucking disgusting never in ur life ever wear a dress or makeup again’ that would be very rude but if they said ‘I feel like u could wear something else it don’t look nice u can find something better’ . I feel like some people secretly hate others and want to find a reason to be rude and use the excuse ‘just being a honest good friend’
@Opinion owner you're being way extreme with this. He explained what the truth is yet you went to an extreme interpretation that doesn't even align with the question which shows your frame of mind. You tend to interpret things negatively and that's solely based on the views you have of yourself and low self-esteem.
Nahhh has nothing to do with having low self esteem, if someone’s rude that means their rude it has nothing to do with being sensitive and not accepting the truth. Someone could be honest to me I wouldn’t care and if their rude i still wouldn’t care but it don’t mean what they said it isn't offensive , some chose to get offended some don’t but this don’t change whether what’s been said is offensive
Mate ngl idc I don’t have a negative mindset or insecurites or trauma I just can tell the difference between honesty and plain rudeness. Seems like your the one with issues don’t post on this platform then get mad when people give their opinion, each to their own xxxxxxxx
Those people lie to themselves but actually just want someone agreeing to them.
A friend says "Do you want me to say what you want to hear or what I'm honestly thinking?" beforehand. I should do that too sometimes.
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I find it easy to believe that half the human race is going through some kind of psychotic episode which helps me explain their behaviour. It also gives hope that they'll eventually come out of their psychosis and see reality again or for the first time.
Truth hurts.
If they don't like it, don't ask
mostly western countries where there's too much privilege and where people have no idea what real problems are so they create new ones
there's a lot of virtue signaling going on and the truth can be too uncomfortable to hear.
It seems like some people ask questions just to start a fights.
I prefer the blunt straight forward truth. Yes people get offended but thats on them. Next time tell them a flat out lie, see how "Offended" they get then.
Well one of the reasons it that people like you are so full of shit and seemingly talk out of your asses. I see it almost everyday.
Not everyone are like that. Some people are, because when they ask they actually just want you to agree with their opinion.
You are for sure the rudest girl on this site
what girl
Because I said you are the rudest girl on this site means I can't get a girl? lol
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