Is a man who wears women clothing, make up and acts feminine inherently sexual?

[Still-alive]

Do you view men wearing all of these things as ‘sexual?’

by ‘acting feminine’ i mean mannerisms, ways they walk, inflections in their speech patterns to sound feminine, etc.

Yes i view men wearing makeup, womens clothing and acting feminine as sexual

Sort of i do

Not really

No just doing all those things doesn’t make them sexual. Certain behaviors do.

It depends (say how)

Im not sure and just want to see results

[goaded]

Dame Edna, RIP. No more sexual than Sir Les Patterson.

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[Lionman95]

No it´s not behavior and style of clothes that make the difference. Because to me a male wearing womens clothes is not sexy at all because I´m not attracted to guys.

[Still-alive]

ok... but is it 'sexual'? that a different question im asking

[Lionman95]

I think it could be sexual but that's rather rather a subjective decision. Because to me something is sexual when it makes me think of sex or gets me horny. Something a man wearing women clothing and make up can't do. So my answer would be no but someone else could say yes.

[Lionman95]

I'm glad you appreciate my comment

[msmissydc]

No, I remember a male friend of mine going as Tinker Bell. There was not a single thought of sexual intentions behind this. It was just fun and a costume.

[Smashingdoozy]

No, you're only sexual when you are being sexual. nobody is inherently sexual, EVEN when wearing nothing but their birthday suit.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I think so. They seem to be thinking about sex as much as guys but saying it out loud.

[Still-alive]

So is that different compared to if actual women wear all this though? If so how?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I think anyone dancing on a pole in any costume without being paid for it is probably inherently more sexual. :-D

[Still-alive]

Ok so what if all they are doing is reading books to kids and in a dress? Sexual?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Then maybe not! I got an image of drag queens when you asked the Q. If they treat these things like gender and sexuality in the background then I figure they're like the rest of us heterosexual types who dress normally and act normally. But I think someone who is flaunting it is kind of forced into being very sexual just by the deviation they are intentionally making in society. I'm not saying they're inherently more sexual but there is no divorcing the sexual deviation they are making, and I think therefore more sexual than usual. Like a flamboyantly gay man is probably more sexual than usual because he's bringing his sexuality so pronounced and out loud into the party; it's going to inevitably dominate the conversation and therefore his thoughts.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Nothing wrong with it in my opinion, mind you. I'm not some BIble-thumping type. But I think anyone who enters a party wearing something or acting in a way that society, at the present, will never divorce from something fundamentally rooted in sexual activity and preference is going to find themselves being more sexual than usual.

[llorando]

It's not the act of wearing makeup and women's clothes that make it sexual, it's the reasons behind it that make it sexual. Does doing it just for fun make it sexual? No. Does doing for a fetish and sexual release make it sexual? Yes.

[leahzrc]

hahaha definitely want a daddy and much dick whether private or public about it

[Guardian45]

Say WHAAAAT?

[leahzrc]

you heard me ;)

[menina]

Not really. It's just the way they like to present themselves.

[najekim]

We knew 100% straight guys do drag shows just because they could get away with it. And their acts were hilariously good.

[Christoff92]

They can go life as the way they want it. Prejudicism is very awful.

[Guardian45]

Like a traffic accident, I just gawk and stare speechless.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I believe it all depends