Can someone try go their entire life single without romantic interest?

[cth2188]

Is it possible? If that person is content in their life? I know society says that single people are miserable and lonely if they're single- I disagree.

[midnightmoon05]

Many do.
Go talk to some 40, 50, 60, 70, 80…yrs old lonely old people… you decide after. I know plenty whom have gone that route or ended their…

in our 20, 30 even 40s…young, have energy. We feel like we own the world…not so much when going towards the other directions.

people will tell you, it’s you life and you can do whatever you want…. that’s because they don’t give a damn about you!!
those who care about you will tell you…the truth!!

[cth2188]

I don't have the energy to date anymore unfortunately less more get married- I communicate with those who are in their 40s etc most are content single some no... I guess it's different for others

[midnightmoon05]

Dating can be a hard. I had to learn the hard way after my husband decided to leave.
Restating as a single mom with 2 kids…was surly very different from dating in my 20s.
I had to make a lot of changes.
Took some time.
At the end…I refused to accept that I have to end up alone like a few of the older women I know in their later 40s, 60s…seem bitter, lonely and started to act wired. Like desperate for friends.
Sometimes, it’s easy to say…I’ll give up … many times…I cried to my friends why when I was looking and many were interested due to me being an amazing woman of quality…but they didn’t known my relating of my 2 kids…so they didn’t go further … hahaaa their lost!!! I am with an amazing man now!! We are so lucky to have each other.

[cth2188]

That's great honey after my divorce and traumatic experiences my journey is over with men

[midnightmoon05]

I was there too.
But I didn’t want to be beat down. After a year of pain and depressed…I told myself to change … still took another 3 years before I met my second husband.
Take the time to heal, learn and grow…you deserve love.

[cth2188]

Thanks 🙏🏽❤️ I'm on a self love journey

[midnightmoon05]

I am so happy to hear that! ❤️

[cth2188]

Not enthusiastic on dealing with American men for that matter- too dangerous/ toxic

[midnightmoon05]

It’s okay to not have a man for sometime.. just enjoy being single for now…. yiu will know when you are really. 👍😝…
Never stay too long in unhappy places.

[cth2188]

A man doesn't define my happiness I do

[midnightmoon05]

Exactly!! Be happy on your own. Rebuild yourself…with the love you have…you can share with someone who will treat you the way you want.
It is definitely must better to have a “partner in crime” to enjoy life with.

[cth2188]

Yes thanks 😊 be blessed 🙌

[Jazzy54]

Yup. There have been many people who have chosen to be single and have led happy, content lives. 😊

[cth2188]

Yes 🫶❤️

[Sparkie460]

I always said I would never get married and have kids but here I am living and loving married life, well most of it anyway. I tried staying single but I found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with

[cth2188]

That's good times have changed and the dating climate has become dangerous... I'm actually scared to date

[midnightmoon05]

@sparkie460, that’s so good to hear! And happy for you! My second husband said the same…single all his life till he met me. Got married the first time at 54? I think.

@cth2188 what do you mean dangerous?

[cth2188]

Haven't you seen all these women dying by men nowadays? Constant hate towards women attacks- I'm encountering misgony and hate all the time from men who hate women- if it's not hate it's abuse or stalkerish behavior.. men running on impulse. Granted it's not all men , but it simply not safe for women to date with how toxic dating is. Back then folks can date with no red flags.. lot of folks have mental / emotional issues. I see women being taken out of here by males who can't control themselves or their emotions when rejected.. I had to call the cops on a friend of 11 years because he threatened to unalive himself and admitted to stalking me on social media and around my apartment. I'm on Facebook for church and don't online date ! I've only dated 2 men in my life my ex husband and him... single women are better off single nowadays due to hiw dangerous dating is. I asked God to keep me single 🙏🏽 💯

[cth2188]

How ^ @midnightmoon05.. too many emotional males not enough masculine men who know how to treat women

[cth2188]

Too many mental / emotional problems women like me who has been single a long time have accepted being single is best and men are threatening to unalive single women who choose to be single because they're being rejected. I live at an apartment complex spoke to the men politely and men refuse to speak back or accept nice a few opened the door or I opened the door for them at the laundry room- just hate and disrespect. I'm a traditional woman and will not be dating American men or men in general.

[midnightmoon05]

Wow!! That’s crazy! I m so sorry
to hear that happened to you and a friend whom you have know for such a long time. Does sound scary.
I understand you may not want to go back to the dating scene at the moment. Perhaps there might be miscommunications with expectations?

[cth2188]

There is no miscommunication these men have admitted to hating American women and / or toxic... even here... if someone speaks or opens the door you appericate that with gratitude and respect... I will help a pregnant woman or elder person... these men pf today are too toxic and abusive towards women... you should hear the stuff they say on social media about women... they have movements now to travel overseas for women... and I constantly get miagby hate from men on here with the exception of @Sparkie460 and other older men who are married and see what's going on who I'm friends with. My safety comes first...

[cth2188]

Of " I wish American men the best and will remain single and celibate until Jesus returns 🙏🏽

[midnightmoon05]

Aaaahhhhhh….. I pay no attention to such…I have lived my life independent of news/social media.
Holding my own value and meeting my second husband whom was so damaged…no one wanted him.
I have no interest of what others say or what he used to believed. He used to believed that he will never married or have kids…. I got all that straighten out.
Girly…use your power to make the changes you need to be the woman you want to be.! Life is amazing! Hugs! ❤️

[cth2188]

Your husband was hurting these men are abusive big different and I deal with this daily women as I advocate for women rights and abuse suriviors. This isn't a social media thing - this is reality ! I amde my choice my ex husband and ex of 11 years I will deal with in this life time until Jesus returns 🙏🏽

[midnightmoon05]

Indeed yiur choice. We have very different idea about love, life and relationships.
I hope your journey brings you happiness.

[cth2188]

Thanks it has 11 1/2 years

[Sparkie460]

Thank you for the mho

[cth2188]

🙏🏽

[JBlade]

Yes, because people are different. Some people are loners and prefer to keep it that. There's nothing wrong with that if someone wants that.

[Billlewis]

My ideal arrangement is one in which we're romantically inclined, but I'm strictly forbidden to engage in any penetrative sex with her other than servicing her orally. She, however enjoys the freedom to date other men whenever she wants and whenever she brings a male lover home, I'm required to serve them both as a personal servant and maid, etc.

[Taffy1234]

Society doesn't care about you and never will.

[midnightmoon05]

That’s correct! We are here and will be lucky to have parents raise us right to be our best. So that we are strong to stand on our own two feet to live a good life with our partner and raise children for the next generation.
We have to take care of ourselves. The govt will give the basics.

[Dkc123]

I don't know about women but men can. Coz first 30 to 35 years we get used to it so it becomes normal andregular thing.

[SnowedIn]

Yes, of course.