Why do some guys like to blame all of their failures to get laid on feminism?

[Anonymous]

It's like any time a woman says no to them incels getting laid, they blame it on feminism as if thinking for yourself and saying no for yourself is a big crime. Then they wonder why no woman wants to sleep with them.

[AlbantheGreat]

If there are good sides of American culture, I think also the American mindset charges too much responsability on the individuals, it's probably one of the reaons why America doesn't have a really good healthcare system (I'm french).

I wrote to self-called incels. I would there were two kind of incels:the self-loathing, the other-blaming, the apathic.

The self-loathing will think, because he's solely responsable of his own failures, thinks he's a loser, a failure.

The other-blaming, doesn't want to have self-loathing feelings, so he targets the responsability on others: "I'm not at fault for what happens to me, it's the fault of others!"

As for the apathic, he's older, in his 30's, 40's, 50's. He accepted his inability to get laid, he gave up and stopped caring.

So, why do, some and not all of them, incels hate? Because they don't want to hate themselves. They're the byproduct of a part of the American mindset, which worships the winner and despises the loser. They don't want to be losers.

[Cuminginside]

Is it possible that they go through stages first of blaming then the self-loathing Then the apathetic.

[AlbantheGreat]

@Cuminginside I'm not sure. In the manosphere, I was part of the MGTOWs, before it split up, so I hadn't the mindset of the hard incels, which is nihislistic.
I would say the youngest were just lost. They just wanted advices. "Hey, I appreciate that girl. Does she appreciate me?". But he talked to the wrong people, so it worsened his condition.
After, many could rant, it's possible. But many people rant because they're angry at something.

[Cuminginside]

Let's be honest they're angry that the American dream is melting away or farting away right in front of their eyes.

[AlbantheGreat]

@Cuminginside Probably, after, I read a study about incels. it said they were poorer, more socially isolated than most people, had mental health issues... so they're not okay. And in the medias, many say "Oh, if it's wrong, it's because of patriarchy". So men.
Plus, the PUAs, the so-called alpha males, those who are supposed to teach men how to seduce, despise them. Because, if you're jobless, it will be much more difficult for you to attract a girlfriend.
So, some of them can feel they have been screwed. And when they rant, many people tell them "Shut up, loser", because they can be offensive, (like many people when they rant). I doubt they are well supported in their life.

[Cuminginside]

Like a positive loop just flushing down the toilet it's just a matter of how fast you go down

[AlbantheGreat]

@Cuminginside Exactly.

[Cuminginside]

Damn shame indeed

[Billlewis]

I don't know, but what they should doing is recognizing the tremendous value, benefits and opportunity for the vast spiritual growth this era in history represents.

If you think about it, there is really only one potential drawback associated with the phenomenon we refer to as feminism -- fewer sexual encounters --and that's all. Do we really want to impede the huge leap women, collectively are making, simply because we might (almost certainly) won't get laid as much? If that's the only thing at stake, I'm more than happy to make that deal, because I don't view substantially more leverage, perks, privileges even outright power for women as a negative event, but rather a cause for celebration.

[Cuminginside]

You can't have a victory while steamrolling over people They will hate you while you live in your victorious bubble

[whatever417]

@Cuminginside No one is steamrolling over you.

[Billlewis]

@whatever417 thank you very much for liking my comment.

[Cuminginside]

Wait until your Victoria's bubble pops and then see who's waiting for you on the other side with snarling teeth You see I see the patterns you don't Good luck

[whatever417]

@Cuminginside Are you having a stroke, bud? Might want to see a doctor about that.

[Cuminginside]

@whatever417 Your mother had a stroke

[Rei13]

I went down a red-pill rabbit hole and the majority of the men who commented were miserable and blamed everything on women, no wonder they can’t get laid or have fulfilling relationships. Extreme feminism is bad too tho. But in general I think it is just lack of accountability for their own short comings and growing into a better person. It is easier to blame other people

[menina]

Because they hate women who are able to stand up for themselves. Also, they're immature. So they're unable to admit that they made a mistake or that they have a problem. They can't see that not every woman will be interested in them.

They're sad and miserable.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why do some people not want to accept responsibility for, and confront, their own shortcomings?

[Billlewis]

Because it's easier to scapegoat someone else, or in this case, the opposite sex -- than to accept the unpleasant reality that our best effort wasn't sufficiently good enough for us accomplish our goal.

[DextroShade]

They usually aren't wrong as modern women are more entitled than ever and think average men are beneath them. Hoeflation is a reality: our grandfathers could work at a factory or on a farm and still get a wife who was fit, a virgin, cooked, cleaned, took care of the children, and submitted to him. Modern women think a factory worker or farmer is a loser despite the fact they have far less to offer than their grandmothers: most are fat, only ~5% are virgins, many are baby mommas, a lot of them are proud of not being able to cook or clean, and they are all incentivized to divorce by feminist policies and family courts. Even obese baby mommas think an average man who is 5'9" and makes $50,000 is beneath them, largely because of feminism and pathetic simps like yourself.

This is a big problem because if the average earning men who do all the jobs thatcare needed to keep our civilization running are shut out of the sexual marketplace they will decide that these jobs aren't worth doing and society will crumble into a new Dark Age.

[Sabretooth]

Sex can be affected. I remember a guy complaining about not being able to enjoy sex and same with the girls. I asked if feminism was very prevalent where he was and his response was "yes". As a Christian, I don't promote premarital sex--but, clearly, he nor these girls had a healthy view of it. I can't link that question as it was years ago. However, this doesn't seem like a similar situation. I also don't equate a strong woman and a feminist... Franky, the whole thing is bullshit.

[mobiusforniner]

Because they grew up with no sense of responsibility or accountability. They aren't used to things not going their way. They are not used to failure or mistakes. Theyre not used to learning, growing and making themselves better.

Theyre not used to being a MAN.

[stepyo99]

That's not why men criticize feminism. In fact, one of the biggest critiques guys have of feminism is how promiscuous they've become because of it. I think you're just obsessed with this "incel" boogeyman.

[whatever417]

God forbid women embrace their sexuality! 🙄

[stepyo99]

@whatever417 LOL
Women: where have all the good men gone? How come they all treat me like a piece of fuckmeat?

Also women: God forbid women embrace their sexuality!

[whatever417]

Weird, I found a great guy and married him. Still don't judge other people's personal sex lives.

[stepyo99]

@whatever417 Women: don't judge other people's personal sex lives.

Also women: Incel!

No, I will judge other people's sex lives because it's an outward expression of their own measure of self-worth. Maybe you found a guy who is willing to marry the local cum dumpster, but most guys have zero interest in being in a relationship with a whore.

[236color]

Because they think guys in the 50s never failed to get laid. Now I wasn't born till 1959, but I sincerely doubt all guys pre feminism got laid at will.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women blame all thier dating woes on not being real men anymore😆

There's a NUGGET of truth in everything. But the size of that nugget can vary from person to person and situation to situation.

These guys aren't wrong necessarily. But it's up for debate on how much of it is actually feminism and how much of it is actually them.

[inhua]

attraction is biological. not political

no one needs to be blamed. some things just aren't meant to be

[catarecute]

because they can't face the fact that getting laid is a dick move and really they are failing at being a dick who uses women.

[ZamerZ]

I bet you're very proud of yourself for this comment, aren't you?

[Cuminginside]

@ZamerZ I'm sure she is I'm glad you called her out on it. You got a Hi-Five from me.

[Unit1]

It is always easier to shift blame than to look at self.

[Anpu23]

Its an easy target. But in reality before feminism they'd even have less of a chance.

[Anonymous]

I am not interested in looking for women since I have more important things to do.

[gothbxtch]

good question lol. easy scapegoat i guess

[KrakenAttackin]

Feminist women are usually easy to bang.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol simping