Basically in a nutshell the just world fallacy is the belief that on a universal gradscale bad behavior or bad people are always punished while good behaviour and good people are always rewarded. For instance as an example, a guy talks about how he's never had a girlfriend or a relationship and it's making him feel depressed and he feels lost in the dating world. Now not all but some people will tell him "Maybe you're not a nice person" "Maybe you're acting weird or being creepy" "Maybe you're saying something that turns women off" "Maybe you look bitter and women dont want to be around someone like that" implying that what's happening to him is justified because he's probably doing something wrong or acting a certain way thus deserves it. That's the just world fallacy. If you're a good person, you'll be rewared, if you're a bad person, you'll face the consequences. Are you gulty of this?
Have you ever heard of the just world fallacy?
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There are things we can control to some extent, and things we can't. Most of us have some ability to change our attractiveness. Watch "Murderball". You'll see men who are wheelchair-bound who have found girlfriends. Many the men on GAG complaining that they can't get a date blame others and are unwilling to make any effort to improve their attractiveness. I don't have a lot of sympathy.
But you're implying that they didn't do anything to try and change their situation to begin with. It's a cognitive bias on your part because a bad person can be rewarded
You can see that from their posts -- "It's not fair that women don't want to live with me in my parent's basement" "It's not fair that asking random strangers on the street for dates doesn't work" "It's not fair that I'm not a 6'2" 'Chad'" They feel that a desirable woman should be assigned to them, without being willing to do anything to make themselves more desirable.
If a woman gets raped, it was her fault. She shouldn't have put herself in a position to get raped. She shouldn't have been wearing certain things to attract the wrong attention
And now we see why women won't date you. You basically hate women.
Proved my point. Obviously rape isn't most women's fault but why is that with incels, they have to be bad people who get what they deserve? Your cognitive bias is showing
I never said that. Mostly what they need to do is to learn basic social skills. In human interaction there is a lot that is implied but I said. People's who don't understand that, or worse, refuse to understand it, have a hard time making friends or attracting a partner.
Implied but unsaid
What if they do have friends and interact with people but fail in terms of attracting women?
I always ask "How many unrelated women do you greet by name when you see them?" and the answer is almost always "none". But the real problem is that they are so fragile they can't handle the idea that they should change their behavior in any way.
How do you know their behaviour is bad?
How is this a fallacy? If you act bad, you get bad results. If you act good, you get good results. Is that complicated or something? It's pretty snowflakey to be mad that actions have consequences.
Because there's bad people who do get rewarded while there's good people who don't get rewarded. The universe doesn't always punish those who deserve it and it also doesn't reward those who deserve it
Sure, but that's not the norm. If I walk into Walmart and slap someone, do you think I'm going to get rewarded or punished for my action?
Depends. If you're a girl doing that you can get away with it. Most men though won't get away with it. But that doesn't disprove the just world fallacy
After reviewing your last reply to me and the other guy with my husband, he said that speaking to you is a waste of time due to the fact that everything you say is under the influence of the mental disability fallacy. I truly didn't realize that your mental disability was that severe
Ah okay so insults now because there's no counter argument to the just world fallacy you're guilty of doing along with other people. The reply i wrote to the other guy was a point i was making