Why do so many men defend these things that damage men?

[msc545]

Many men defend women who make false accusations, alimony, child support, paternity fraud, and other things that damage men. Why is that?

[CriticalCatDad]

I think it's because those men hate themselves and pour their whole being into giving women everything hoping it makes them feel better about themselves somehow. Like how the BLM activists worship black people, these men worship women and feel the need to defend them at all costs. These men know they're irrelevant. That they're nothing but disposable afterthoughts. What these men don't understand is that women don't care about them either.

[msc545]

good answer!

[CriticalCatDad]

Thanks, I needed to hear that. Been in a shitty mood lately and don't want to drag that mood with me into work

[msc545]

Right - glad to help!

[KrakenAttackin]

These men are fully socialized into "cuck mode". Seriously, these men were likely raised by a feminist and tyrannical single mother who ran down men at every opportunity. The damage done to these boys (later men) is irreversible.

[Anonymous]

Those are the guys that have been on the fringe/friend zone for eternity... and they're hoping that will. get them laid. It's no different than the hundreds of corporations in the last decade LITERALLY OVERNIGHT who all of a sudden had all women/gay dudes/Blacks in their commercial... or celebrities who talked 24/7 about those 3 groups. Look at ESPN. You'd think the only things they knew were transgender athletes, women athletes, or BLM supporters... because they spend 80% of their time on those 3 groups... though all 3 PUT TOGETHER are the national minority. It's to rake the cash in from those 3 groups. By switching up who they're advertising at... they're trying in cash from every side. The fastest growing segment of NFL fans are WOMEN. THATS WHY Ray Rice doesn't have a job... despite not even had so much as a parking ticket. It's okay to deal pounds of dope, agg assault, etc... but we can't have you if you alleviate our cash cow.☝️Same with those guys... if they pretend to follow along with the popular media driven company line... they increase their chances they'll be seen as desirable because they'll be publicly applauded for how "enlightened" they are. I know several of those guys. Many of them.

[goaded]

I don't think anyone defends women making false allegations or paternity fraud (aren't they the same thing?).

Men get alimony, too, "alimony is gender neutral", SCOTUS in 1979, https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/30/style/men-alimony-spousal-support.html

And why wouldn't you pay for your children's upkeep?

[msc545]

Men frequently defend allegations of domestic violence that are false. Alimony is technically gender-neutral but very few men get it to begin with and even fewer can collect it. Where I live failure to pay alimony is not usually awarded to men, and when it is failure to pay it by women is not enforced in any way. How many men do you know that got alimony and collect it? Child support in California is ordered but NOT enforced against women.

[DarkLegacy]

Because they are pathetic simpy excuses for men who have been brainwashed by the feminists or allow themselves to be manipulated by women. Men like this are letting the side down, but many are doing it to get liked or laid by women and it never works.

[lightbulb27]

not sure. I've seen that... women can be viscious and for selfish reasons. Or they may do it to defect the offspring from what they perceive to be a threat.

I think men assume the woman has best interests which is not always the case.

[lightbulb27]

the flip side is that people don't see themselves clearly or others may mis-perceive them. That causes distortions. I character, honor, values are on the line... many people will fight.

[JacobJordan]

They are cowards, feminine, women with a blue account, or simps.

[jahaims]

They want to be an ally so they receive positive attention from females.

[DrPepper12]

I don't know ANYBODY that does that. Not one.

[DrPepper12]

@CriticalCatDad sorry to burst your bubble but no kids out of a 20+ year marriage. Why would a man DEFEND the woman defaming and suing him? Think for a nanosecond. How many of these men even exist? SMDH

[Anonymous]

If you do anything less than 50/50, you should be paying child support. 50/50 or more, no.

[msc545]

You obviously know nothing about how child support works. Men pay it, not women - and not "50/50" of anything.

[CriticalCatDad]

Which is one of the many reasons why I'm never having children. Apart from the fact that said children wouldn't be mine and my only purpose In life word be making money for her to use as she pleases. Fuck that

[Opinion Owner]

@Msc545 I didn't say anything about women. I know it isn't as enforced for women and that isn't ok, but that doesn't mean I have to think parents shouldn't be expected to financially support their kids.

However, I do have sympathy for the men who get denied 50/50 for no good reason and still get put on child support.

[msc545]

Even with 50/50, men pay a lot more and women pay little or nothing, yet get physical custody almost every time.

[Opinion Owner]

Msc545 and I don't agree with that, but I'm not against the concept of child support and stated how it should work in my opinion.

I agree with everything else you mentioned in your question, though.

[msc545]

You would not be FOR child support if you realized that women don't pay it and nothing happens to them, while men who don't pay it go to jail.

[CriticalCatDad]

Exactly, @msc545

[Opinion Owner]

@msc545 you can be for something and still desire improvement.

[msc545]

Try paying it yourself and we will see how you feel.

[Snakeyes7]

Because they think it will garner the approval of women.

[CriticalCatDad]

Why is a woman's approval so important?

[Anonymous]

Because they want to look good.

[Anonymous]

Both men and women should be against anything that damage anyone

[CriticalCatDad]

Should, but they don't. Women damage men all the time and men allow it

[OtterMan68]

can you give examples or cite numbers?