Girls! Why is it so "creepy" to add a stranger on Facebook?

I don't find it creepy. What I do find creepy are the guys who add you then constantly hit you up. Its perfectly fine to add me and talk to me and maybe even meet up at a party and then see each other after that, but its not a dating site to me. So trying to get to know me to date me before even seeing me in person is a turn off, but its not that creepy.
Also you have to remember that you may not approach girls in a bad way on there, but a lot of guys do. A lot of guys tend to say sexual things to girls or just plain out creepy things. As long as you're friendly and not giving off the impression that you want to sleep with the girls then you're fine.
I don't necessarily find it creepy, I just wonder what the point is. The point of Facebook isn't really to add strangers. Although, yeah, if I don't know them I might think they're up to something sketchy, who knows what they might do with your personal info.
chatting online - followed by texting - followed by meeting up in person - followed by new potential relationship. you know a lot of people meet on FB, it's just the open minded ones
Some added us with intention to have cyber sex or maybe try to stalk into our personal details.I don't judge all guys like that but I prefer accepting friend reuqest from someone that I know or maybe at least my friends know him.
that's a great question, I thought most people were open when it comes to adding them on FB even if it's a stranger, I read girls answers and I think they're justified, but still they can accept the friend request and put that guy in a list were he can't see their personal info or pics like a "Restricted" list, and that way he can chat with them (or her) and if they felt that he has no bad intentions they can open their info or pics,
sometimes I stumble upon some girl profile and I find that we share some interests so I feel like adding her, just to be friends no bad intentions
Last month I found a kids wallet under a motel bed. So I kept it to return to him. I didn't have his address. So I found him on Facebook, he had a unique name. I couldn't message him because of his privacy filter. So I friend him so I can message him... nothing. Isn't that funny?
Something to think about when that stranger is adding you.
Haha wow, his fault! interesting story BTW!
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Is this really so hard to grasp..
We don't know them, or their intentions. It's important to be careful who you add.. who can see where you live, your friends, the school you go to and the millions of pictures you have up.
Most girls think that the guy wants to have cyber sex. They just don't want to think that there are a few decent and nice guys that purely want to be friends, that want to know her, that want to like meeting new people. But I don't blame them either because there are some guys that actually act creepy (bloody fuk!) on such sites. Most girls get creeped out very easily both online & offline.
But the thing is that if the guy is good looking, then she might add him. That is how it is, you know.
They just think it's some random guy trying to look at their pics and info and see what their up to I guess. I don't really see the big deal of adding random people on it either.
What exactly happened to them?
it's a very "big deal" some guy looked at their pics.. oh no, the horror! but still I wanna see what she says
Lol I know. I think all of that be careful who you add bullsh*t is getting blown out of proportion. It's honestly pretty ridiculous. I never try to add any random girls...or anybody at all. I usually just sit back and let people add me if they want to if not then I'm fine, so I'm not really worried about it.
Because then they can get your personal info and potentially steal your identity. Also, I don't want some total stranger being able to see pictures of me and stuff...
Should I say that?._. OK well!
MOM SAAAAID: Don't talk to strangers. WHYYYY? Cuuuuuz they are dangerous,wherever they aaaaaare THEY ARE DANGEROUS. =}
Don't have a Facebook, don't have to deal with it
I only ad people I know in real life
So you're not open minded enough to make new friends.. or...?
I'm all for making new friends. But if I get a request on FB and don't know them then I ignore it
I add them though :-/ Does not seem to create any problems
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