According to Andrew Tate, men are not supposed to be happy or chase happiness or have happy lives. What do you say?

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Here's his video. It's a time-respecting 4 minutes video.

https://rumble.com/v5jtyzx-andrew-tate-on-the-pursuit-of-happiness.html?e9s=src_v1_ucp

His wisdom rings true to me and it makes perfect sense to me. Happiness is for girls and men's life is relentless war. Sucks to suck but that's the design. It's no wonder why boys turn into transgirls and cheating happening in order to chase that familiar sense of happiness from that one girl, that made him feel less miserable than he is in his dead boring, regular, same-old, different day daily routine.

According to Andrew Tate, men are not supposed to be happy or chase happiness or have happy lives. What do you say?

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

“According to Andrew Tate, men are not supposed to be happy or chase happiness or have happy lives. What do you say?”

What I’ve said before and will continue to say, these guys only care about selling you a course for how to deal with your insecurities, poor judgement, and social anxiety / all issues you personally have. They don’t care if it increases the worst aspects of yourself and hinders your ability to get actual meaningful relationship with a real life woman because all they care about is the money in your pockets. Talk to a therapist, a friend, family member, and get the help / advice you truly need because these guys’ only priority is themselves before you which includes money from you. Andrew Tate doesn’t care about you or me brother, he doesn’t not unless we are willing to pay up time n time again listening to his vile hatred rants on loop.

Andrew Tate has a discord channel filled with fellow people scammed out of their cold hard cash who rant about not getting dates, not being able to have meaningful relations with the opposite gender, and more while Andrew Tate is nowhere to be found… He is just so damn busy counting his stacks & stacks of cold hard cash.

Something I want to say to every fan of Andrew Tate, every man in general honestly… Hang in there, everything is going to be okay, there is a future for you, a beautiful woman, and a nice house where you’ll raise a family & be happy… You don’t need an online course to tell you that because inside each n everyone of you is a mature, responsible, gentle giant, and a warm welcoming & inviting individual who is nice to tell your feelings to, watch a movie with, and just be around even for a second. You are the man, women want not because of muscles, wealth, or good looks (though, they go a long way lol) it is about your character and the energy you put into the world…. Don’t be Andrew Tate, Be Yourself! Thank you and God Bless You Champ! I’m Rooting For You!

Cripplingkingship · Accepted Answer

A balanced approach would suggest that while we can’t control every hardship, our responses to life’s situations – the sense of purpose, community, and values we bring to them – can build a satisfying life.

But dismissing happiness entirely overlooks the benefits of emotional health, which can enhance productivity, resilience, and even leadership. Studies have shown that feeling fulfilled and maintaining mental well-being actually helps people perform better in high-stress situations, make better decisions, and build stronger relationships.

Happiness isn’t about avoiding struggle or expecting life to be easy; it’s about finding meaning in what you do and recognizing moments of joy even in a challenging journey.

Happiness often comes from a sense of purpose, personal growth, and meaningful connections. The key is not to expect happiness every moment but to see it as part of a balanced life that includes challenges and triumphs alike.

We are here to experience Happiness, but don't expect to be it a permanent state. For example if you think winning the lottery, will make you will happy forever. It doesn't work like that.

avery58 · Accepted Answer

I think that the world was a much nicer and somewhat happier place before these so called influencers, and especially the Tates, started getting pushed down our throats (think 2010-2015) :)

It's better to live our lives and think for ourselves.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

He’s a walking contradiction. He only says whatever he thinks is cool or controversial in the moment.

sawno · Answer

Of course our lives are supposed to be happy, what point is working hard to sustain and achieve a happy life otherwise? Might as well do nothing if I am gonna be miserable anyway right? So no, I don't agree with him. Many men have happy lives and there is nothing destructive about this. My core thing I chase is happyness and you can structure your life around maximizing the chances of it. Take my job for example, I am an IT system administrator. Obviously there are sucky days but there's plenty of moments in my job where I get paid to do my hobby and they pay for the tools to do my hobby. The only thing different is that they then also decide the goal of the hobby. But I get to play and build with cool IT networks except that I can then be extra proud of what I built when hundreds of real people use what I have built for them.

Anonymous · Answer

I think happiness is a choice. No sometimes people are going to detract from your happiness. But you don't have to keep those people in your life.

While Tate makes some accurate observations. His approach is spoken from a completely combative perspective. I give everyone a modicum of respect (or at least I try to). From then on you're either gaining or losing my respect. I'm not going try to to force a woman into being somebody she's not. But I might not accept her in my life if we're too far apart in the way we think. A woman is not going to force me into being somebody I'm not. And I'm OK if she does not accept me because we're too far apart.

I guess what I'm saying is I think Tate only says this because he doesn't know how to be happy. Did he not get enough hugs growing up or something? I don't know. 🤷‍♂️

chilldude33 · Answer

Life is what you make it. It's like a canvas. If you paint war and excruciating discipline, that's what you gonna experience.

That being said, happiness is also wrong thing to focus on, or it's not the most precise language to use.

Happiness is an upward spike. You can't upkeep it forever. And what goes up must come down.

It's best to focus on building the internal feeling of security in yourself, your life, your values, so that you can rely on yourself as you experience life.

But you don't achieve it through some macho, tough discipline. You achieve it through acquiring wisdom and understanding of yourself, other people, situations and life in general.

Lliam · Answer

Why do people listen to that misogynistic ass hole. His goal is to inspire hate and make people miserable.

I think the goal of life is to squeeze as much fun out of it as possible. Enjoy all your senses to the fullest. We are surrounded by beauty and wonder.
You only live once. Enjoy it while you can.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I disagree. I've lived a wonderful and successful life by selectively pursing things that I do well and make me happy. I also happen to be uber disciplined and I would definitely be considered a stoic by most people. I think that I wouldn't be anywhere close to the man I am today if I didn't aspire to do things that made me happy.

purplepoppy · Answer

People under investigation for sex crimes aren't the best role models to take advice from.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I say you know me already. I see influential people using psychological levers and exploiting fear or distress of others to generate $ as a  serious threat to society.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Self fulfill prophecy Mr. T. If you chose that path.  go enjoy life a little. Be kind to yourself.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I don't give a damn what this bald-headed back-alley pimp has to say and I don't know anyone who does. Let him rot in prison for all I care.

Anonymous · Answer

I think chasing happiness leads you to unhappiness. If you try to live a good Christian life and work hard in all aspects of your life, holding fast to your faith in hard times happiness will come.

genericname85 · Answer

i'd say don't listen to violent criminals who never learned how to love and who had half their brain destroyed by being punched in the head.

EmmaMary · Answer

Just my usual one word response... Bollox .

katiesmuff · Answer

Don't know who Andrew Tate is but think he is full of shit with a statement like that.

phraseology · Answer

That's what happens to a guy when he abandons God (Christianity) for Satan (Islam)...

exitseven · Answer

Thoreau said it best. "Men lead lives of quiet desperation."

Anonymous · Answer

Happiness can be achieved in different ways. Success, achievement, winning, respect, confidence, control, influence. So not sure i agree with him although I didn't watch his video so..

Anonymous · Answer

hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Andrew Tate is a fool. He can go live his sad life himself. I desire joy in my life, not misery.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

He's retarded and has probably contradicted himself a million times

noohair · Answer

Happiness is an internal emotion. That is why chasing it is futile. And who is Tate?

justsam2525 · Answer

He is a massive tumour and has ruined my marriage so I don't care what he says

LaSaturno · Answer

This is not a correct statement because you can’t chase happiness. You simply experience it and let it grow.

RageBabe · Answer

He’s such a narcissist.

Dongie · Answer

He's an idiot.

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