Do you think modern men lack masculinity nowadays?

[beenherebefore]

Yes

No

[Lionman95]

I clicked no because masculinity and femininity are in my view changing concepts adapting to the state of society. I know that many men in the manosphere complain that testosterone levels are going down what they leave out is that most people work in office jobs and no longer need high levels of grip strength. People now need different abilities than they´ve needed 100 years ago.

[WhiteThought]

Yes, because feminism has screwed everything up, and now we have a lot more men being raised by single mothers and then raised by children of single mothers. Women are becoming more masculine, as they become more ambitious, but will never be men, so that benefits no one.

[beenherebefore]

You're absolutely RIGHT!

[Anonymous]

No clue if it's general or depends on the area you're in, but I've had 4 women hitting on me the past week, for lack of actual men around, cause everyone identifies as they/them 🥸

[beenherebefore]

Oh WOW sometimes it seems like men want to act like women and women want to act like men. So weird.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me about it lol

[Anonymous]

A lot do.

[beenherebefore]

LMFAO.

[Anonymous]

I’ve always saw masculine traits as,

Logical, Rational, Compassionate, Strong, Resilient, Passionate, Faithful, Loyal, Motivated, Charismatic, Open Minded, and Courage.

Haven’t seen much of that lately… Given the new govt leadership.

[beenherebefore]

I agree!

[Jersey2]

I think modern men have been hammered down to not be masculine and raised that way while having it pushed on them through school. At the same time modern women have been through a similar process to get them to be more masculine and dump being feminine.

And so here we are… now there are no families, communities full of kids, no real happiness for a lot of people. Live and learn.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Yup. So many modern men are afraid to talk to women and complain about how bad their lives are. It's embarrassing.

[beenherebefore]

Way too embarrassing.

[NathanDavis]

I don't socials and don't live through my phone...

the people out there in my daily life are quite "normal" and "average"

[jshm2]

Nah, modern women just don't understand what it is.

Most of them have daddy issues - so their frame of reference for "masculinity" is broken.

For the rest they've been watching/reading too much Twilight bullshit or romance novels - so they are clueless.

[Chazmatazz269]

Most men do not lack masculinity, but suppress it to avoid the many and various negative consequences of expressing their masculinity in this day and age.
The risk exponentially outweighs the reward.

[beenherebefore]

Modern men need to understand that suppressing their masculinity is making them less attractive to us. I look at most men nowadays and feel like they all act like p*ssys.

[Chazmatazz269]

The risk exponentially outweighs the reward. You are not worth the risk of losing my job, my home, my reputation and possibly ending up in prison. No woman is.
When “good women” band together to put an end to bad women weaponizing the corrupt legal system to ruin men’s lives, good dudes can go back to being good dudes. Until then, the creeps and entitled jack*sses can keep you company. Enjoy!

[SmokinAces2000]

If your “masculinity” is losing you your job, home, reputation, and landing you in prison, then that’s not masculinity.

[Chazmatazz269]

All of the men at the center of these stories were falsely accused of crimes and some were convicted when the ONLY evidence against them was a woman’s fabricated testimony and the fact that he was a man. Thousands more cases have sent men to prison because they didn’t have video evidence, an astounding preponderance of other evidence or witnesses to corroborate their defense. Even the ones who didn’t go to prison, their lives are ruined.

www.foxnews.com/.../former-yale-student-trying-restore-career-life-after-alleged-false-accusation-rape-led-expulsion

www.cbsnews.com/.../

www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...a-borisova-urumova.html

www.newsweek.com/alice-sebold-sorry-innocent-man-went-jail-her-rape-blames-flawed-legal-system-1654605

www.cbsnews.com/.../

Stick your own head in the sand SmokinAsses, but stop lying about the way the world works. You have literally never provided empirical evidence to support your bullsh*t. All you have is lies and misinformation.

[Shiprex]

The definition of masculine these days depends on the woman and her mood as they seem to think they are the ones who define how men "should" be so they get their jollies and things done for them.

[The-Stud]

Read a study that said something like 60 year olds had more testosterones levels on average in 2000 than 20 years olds in 2025. So yes, it is declining.

[beenherebefore]

Oh I agree! These low testosterone levels need to be studied ASAP.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Oh ffs, people act like it’s the end of the world that things are becoming more gender neutral. As if masculine culture as we know it isn’t one of the biggest reasons men kill themselves.

[stratford]

Masculinity has lost it's way, and has been taken over by sexist mysongynists.

[SmokinAces2000]

Only the incels that sit in their basements all day complaining about women and playing the victim. Besides them masculinity seems to be doing fine.

[beefcakebradybatson]

MAGA men because they substitute their tiny p*nis for love of Trump.

[dustybiker2]

Some people misunderstand that the lack of open uncontrolled rage is strength, not weakness.

[exitseven]

yes, I cannot figure it out but I blame social media.

[Anonymous]

No, masculinity and femininity are just a social construct, based on patriarchal gender stereotypes.

[Jennz6]

Especially the Democrats

[WonderingManII]

No it just depends on who the guy is.

[Snakeyes7]

Mainly because they are told it is toxic.

[beenherebefore]

Well, I think that being a P*ssy is not better.

[Snakeyes7]

Agreed. That is what the men who fell for it have become.

[beenherebefore]

100%

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Been that way for 200 years

[someone4567]

Yes but in western countries mostly.

[beenherebefore]

Oh have you been to East Asia? Cuz it's way worse LOL.