Marriage and kids is a trap/lie?

[Anonymous]

It's all a bunch of BS that leads to disappointment and resent.

Agree

Disagree

[OneViewpoint]

I disagree. it depends on the two people, what they want out of life, and how well they work together. Some people don't want kids. Some women make great mothers but lousy wives because all they really wanted was the kids. A husband becomes a low priority. Some guys make lousy fathers. All they really ever wanted was pussy 7 days a week. Some people can balance kids and a spouse.

[slatyb]

It's a trap if you are doing it to please others. If you don't want to be married with children, then don't.

[Staximus]

Maybe if you marry the wrong person, but not if you marry the right person. If you're not a dumbass who rushes into marriage or has kids with the wrong person, you will be fine

[jahaims]

I've been married 10 years and we have 2 kids, it's awesome. Stupid/immature people find relationships difficult because they can't figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Not a lie, but it can potentially be a trap if the woman purposely gets pregnant as a way to get her boyfriend to marry her. Planty of guys only get married because their girlfriend is pregnant.

[msc545]

It is a trap for men and it is a windfall for most women.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Maybe if you’re a miserable loser who is expecting someone else to be responsible for your happiness

[FenixG45]

No, it's not, but it's hard to get it right, and requires daily effort.

[MasterKS]

Its fucking waste of time.

[Asker]

Yep!

[MasterKS]

@asker you agree?

[kavakava]

And it's optional

[In_Trance]

Whatever