Is it okay to be a fan girl?

[chris_987]

If we believe that all people are equal then why would it be okay for girls in particular to have posters. People they admire. Pay money to see to see these people perform. Some girls even elevate them to such a high level that they would be willing to do anything for them.

It kind of flies in the face that women want equality when they're the only ones that participate in fangirl culture. Where they literally elevate somebody based on their status in society.

That's jux a pose Fanboy culture where it's all about things like an IP such as a comic book or electronics like a PS5. As when we will pine for things. But when it comes to celebrity culture, we pretty much don't see a difference between a random hot girl on the street and beyoncé. At the end of the day we're going to treat them equally.

So it looks like men are the only ones that can actually treat each other equally.

[Summeroflove]

I treat people the same. You treat me with respect I treat you with respect…. You’re a ass to me. You and I aren’t friends especially if I made a effort to be nice to you.

[chris_987]

So you never once had a poster of a women you idolized.

[Summeroflove]

Not really. But you can be a fan of someone without lusting after them as well

[chris_987]

Who are you a fan of?

[Summeroflove]

Carrie Underwood maybe. But she married lol so I ain’t into her like that

[Anonymous]

Why do you care? What is it going to change in your life?

[chris_987]

You do realize that man care about a lot of things. Like why does the Earth spin on the axis? How big the universe is? None of these answers. Theoretically will change a person's life. But men brains are built to solve the mysteries of the universe.

So when you say "you shouldn't care" just because your brain isn't wired to solve problems doesn't mean that you should try to inhibit somebody's brain who is?

So next time you see A man asking a question about something you couldn't care less about. Just remember that your brain is only designed to ask questions that benefit you and how it changes your life. Men are far less self-centered.

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao you have no idea what kind of questions I ask. They are usually always about everyone else. Like one of my biggest questions I have brought up is about men's mental health and I actually ask questions that a lot of people will relate to and is beneficial to raising awareness. You on the other hand ask questions that either serve no real purpose other than to down something or to try to make yourself seem smarter than what you actually are. Stop being pretentious.

[chris_987]

Pretentious: making a claim to be smarter than you actually are

If you got the sense that I think I'm smart then I thank you for the compliment cuz I know I'm not cause I just have interest in everything.

But you on the other hand you could be asking about men's mental health because an unstable man can affect you. And then I'm sure if I prodded and poked at the reason why you're asking that question. We would land on your concern for your own safety as it pertains to men.

But I'll admit the reason why I'm asking, The question about fangirls is because on my Snapchat more than half of the women on there there are at the Chris Brown concert and some of the girls that are trying to go backstage are wearing lingerie. Which would beg the question. Why a girl so willing to do anything for a guy that will sleep with thousands of women, but how have a standard that men should never cheat on them.

See my question was to answer a bigger question.

[leahzrc]

I don't idolize celebrities

[chris_987]

You should Google solipsism

[leahzrc]

The bible says not to idolize celebrities how does that make me self centered you nut

[chris_987]

The question was is it okay to be a fan girl?
Your answer was " I don't idolize celebrities"

That makes me think you're incapable of looking outside of yourself and seeing the millions. Probably billions of women who idolize celebrities. So you attributed the question to yourself thus not even tackling the topic. That's why it's clear that you're a solipsis and not capable of viewing topics outside of your self.

[leahzrc]

This website is girls ask girls if my answer isn't valid then I guess I don't exist because I personally do not idolize anyone but the Father Son and Holy Spirit

[leahzrc]

girls ask guys*

[leahzrc]

you just always hated for me no reason like I pray you heal your hatred against me because I am not the enemy

[chris_987]

How can I hate you? We've never even met. I don't even know who you are. Have we spoke before or something?

[leahzrc]

You just so hateful I figured you hate me but I get it the internet is behind a screen so we must not be real

[chris_987]

Hateful? How about this? You actually try to prove that I'm hateful instead of saying it.

[leahzrc]

You accuse me of solipsism So I can say you are hateful

[chris_987]

That's because I asked a general question and you attributed to yourself. That had nothing to do with me hating you. It was just an observation

[DrPepper12]

Proud Swiftie here! No shame in that game!

[chris_987]

Are you gay?

[DrPepper12]

Is that a prerequisite?

[chris_987]

In most cases yes