Would you attack a person who wronged you 20 years ago?

[Anonymous]

I spoke to a man who tried to run over his old school teacher. Would you do this in your 40's?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say four types of people who hold grudges that long,

1 - Those with no social life or social contact and cannot remember any recent conversations with people so rely on conversations from 20 years ago.

2 - Those who were given an exorbitant amount of undeserved positive attention all their lives due to good looks, high income, or high intelligence, so that they cannot tolerate weak insults the way normal people can.

3 - Those who were raised by crazy and mentally insane parents who caused them to believe they should kill their enemies instead of ignoring them.

4 - Those who were tortured or severely injured by others, and have legitimate reasons to be angry for that long.

[FreyaRed]

Never forgive and never forget, but never get caught.

[exitseven]

I was bullied in 9th grade by a kid who was 17 in the 9th grade. Aftrer 9th grade I never saw him again. I expect that he dropped out. I do not imagine his life turned out all that well. One day I looked for him online and there was not a trace. He may be dead for all I could find out.

I did entertain the idea of looking for him and maybe following him into a men;s room and give him a swirly for old times sake,

[exitseven]

thanks for the MHO😎

[Dargil]

If I was that way, I'd murder my ex-wife.

[Asker]

murder is most common between married people.

[Dargil]

She was adulterous with three separate men while she was married to me. I was definitely a cuck-cuck-cuckold. In Spain or Italy, There are crimes of passion. In any of those places, She would be in the ground.

[lightbulb27]

wow, I'd hope not, but never say never. we are all human and prone to holding onto grudges and emotions are just that.

in general, no.

[jazzy34]

Do you like the idea of going to jail? If not, move on with your life.

[Asker]

police do very little. My dad says people wave at the cameras and it does nothing. I am asking for you not myself.

[Spencer10]

I try to forgive and move on. Hatred is corrosive and eventually only hurts me.

[Anonymous]

I probably would if I knew I didn’t have long to live.

[Yannishka]

Sounds like a very stupid thing to do.