- YES. I would love to get revenge on them.15%(10)14%(17)Vote14%(7)
- YES. but I don't really care to get revenge.38%(26)34%(40)Vote27%(14)
- What is ghosting?37%(25)39%(47)Vote43%(22)
Most Helpful Girl
Me ghosted = ONCE only = as his lesson to me for being hours late weeks b4.
I did just two laps of the venue looking for him
Couldn't find him
Decided to stay, met five other men & had a great time.
My date called me the next day, was totally surprised that I had stayed + a little hurt that his lesson had back fired.
We still continued to see each other though :)
There was no hard feelings.
I actually found it funny.
Most Helpful Guy
I think it depends on the definition of ghosting. If you suggest that blocking or deleting someone is also ghosting I would say that it's happened to me, yet I'm not into revenge. If the definition is one of just not talking to someone else yet leaving the door open sort of speak, then yeah I've had that happen too. Generally I find that the ghoster or blocker, has a misunderstanding or prejudges someone without asking or getting confirmation on the situation at hand, if I generally like someone and they ghost me or block me, generally I can conclude they are ether cynical and or have a low self esteem, and couldn't possibly think that a guy would like them for themselves, rather they immediately conclude that the guy is either a player or something else negative, yet the negative thoughts based on their past experience is more to blame. If a ghoster or blocker contacted me, we'd address the problem and get to the bottom of it, chances are they will still oscillate between ghosting or blocking at times when they expect more attention or are going through a rough patch but they think you should just know or see it through the internet.0