Doesn't it make you upset how women casually initiate divorce to take the man's property and kids and suddenly blame on men for "abandoning his kids"?

[melssvdv]

[CalmUntilAbused]

Yeah, the "no-fault divorce" was a mistake and should be abolished. It is nothing but a means of "divorce rape" on men. If there can be no logical reason given for the divorce, the one filing for it is at fault (which, in an overwhelming majority of cases, is the woman). Not that divorce in general is justified (and neither is the state-sanctioned parody of marriage). Just get rid of the state-sanctioned parody of marriage and the idea of divorce altogether, this way the immature grown-up kids will not marry at all - this would clear the situation up for those who know what the actual marriage is supposed to be and intend to go through with it "until death do them part".

[SeekerOfTruth007]

The government is not going to stop sanctioning marriage, because it gives them power over the family unit. The Democrats want to re-define marriage as between one person and one object anyway. They aren't done. People will be fucking animals and marrying them pretty soon.

[CalmUntilAbused]

@SeekerOfTruth007 Well... That is if the Demo (n) crats ever win another election. With all those attempt on President Donald Trump's life, even if He does not succeed in everything He promised, I cannot really see them winning anytime soon! I do agree President Donald Trump is unlikely to abandon the idea of the state-sanctioned parody of marriage, and for the reasons You gave.

[CalmUntilAbused]

attempts*

[WonderingManII]

Yes it does! And I pray and hope that I never meet a woman that is so selfish as that!

[melssvdv]

It was my brother who suddenly got experience in this scenario recently...

[WonderingManII]

@melssvdv That makes me really sad. Sorry to hear that. 😔

[SeekerOfTruth007]

They've been doing that ever since women's suffrage. Before Suffrage, divorce rates were around 3%. Ever since suffrage, Divorce rates have been as high as 75% for first marriages and it's even worse for second marriages.

Abandoning children? Hardly. Since the evil supreme court previously gave women special "rights" to murder their own unborn children, our civilization has gone to crap ever since then. There have been over 120 million "legal" abortions in the USA alone since Roe V. Wade. That's more than twice the total casualties of WW2.

[Hagar88]

Nothing more ruthless than a woman who decides to end a marraige. Especially worse when they were cheating because they need validation that they were justified in cheating and need the kids to see that and not blame her for being the reason they are missing important years growing up with their father. They also get greedy for as much child support, alimony and anything else, as much as they can possibly get.

[msc545]

I agree with you, and I think that money is actually a bigger factor than cheating. They can always cheat; they can always find another guy; they can always have sex with as many men as they want. Money, on the other hand, doesn't come so easily. When they get divorced, they get that child support and the alimony and the property and the kids and all the things that go with it. Father gets nothing except bills.

[melssvdv]

@msc545 They print the money and that causes destruction in every field possible.

[Viola_456]

Wtf is the point of your profile, just to hate on woman? 🤣
Well first, noone goes for divorce "casually" there's always something behind it.
And second its bullshit to ask this question, just becouse some women did it doesn't mean anything, when my mother divorced my father she let him have their appartment, becouse she didn't want to argue.
This question is like asking man "Why do you rape woman". Becouse some are assholes, but most are normal and have nothing to do with it

[TonyMetal___86]

Not only fit but a smart 6ft tall girl too 🤣

[Viola_456]

Thank youu 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome miss viola 🙂

[msc545]

I don't think women get divorced casually. I think they do it for money and they do it deliberately.

[exitseven]

yes, I knew a couple of guys that made good money and one ended up having to live with his parents and the other lived in a tiny apartment above a lawnmower shop. Their expanses stayed the same and there was not much left over for them the live on.

[msc545]

Yeah, that abandoning the kids accusation actually is code for he's not giving me enough money.

[TonyMetal___86]

If a woman initiates a divorce against me to take what i own than i'll initiate her death certificate!

[msc545]

Tony, don't even talk about this kind of stuff in public. It will just get you in trouble.

[TonyMetal___86]

@msc545 i'm just saying, as if someone telling you: if someone tried to kill you slowly in a horrific way, what would you do? Say thank you 😄

[msc545]

Yeah, I hear you loud and clear. I just want you to be a little careful about what you might say in public, that's all. Well, thank you.

[TonyMetal___86]

@msc545 thank you, it's just that some people likes to be provocative!

[msc545]

I know and I understand that. Still. Sometimes when you say something then something unfortunate happens afterward you might get blamed for it. That would be terrible.

[CalmUntilAbused]

@msc545 I mean, a "divorce rape" initiated by a woman pretty much always ruins a man's life to the point where it's barely worth living anymore in current legislative climate (this was somewhat improved by President Donald Trump, but is still far cry from "reasonable legislation"). Therefore, the take voiced by @tonymetal___86 is perfectly justified. It is not a declaration in the spirit of "I shall end the life of every woman I encounter in my life", but more in the spirit of "if a woman ruins my life, I shall end her life". It sounds pretty equal to me!

[TonyMetal___86]

@CalmUntilAbused well said, believe me. i'm so far from hurting anyone, in contrary i'm someone who always helps the others and even forgive my enemies, but it's impossible to just suffer your whole life till death because of someone who just decided that they don't have any interests with you anymore or because they have just changed...

In the end, you'll see yourself paying the price alone and losing everything just for someone who is living on your misery, not only that!

They will give her all the rights, plus you are forced to pay her money while she's making sex with others and stretching her legs up doing nothing except nagging... etc, meanwhile the man have lost all what he worked for, got nothing except loss, no money, no health no kids no nothing, just a broken man suffering to death and the whole world is against him, plus above all, he keeps being threatned by the court and everyone, until he reaches a point where he finds death is a luxury compared to the his current life and he remembers that everything that is happening to him, is caused by a specific woman who decided to sh*t on him just so that she can live the life that she wants, without ever caring about the consequences of her actions and what she has done to a human being who had all but now lost everything because of her, so she won't appear to him as a person anymore, she'll look like demon to him who won't stop until she finishes him off, that's where the guy decides to take her with him...

So, is it right? In my opinion: hell yeah it's right!

[msc545]

So the lesson is you never get married.

[TonyMetal___86]

@msc545 that's what actually is stopping me from getting married again, i won once but maybe i won't another time 🤷🏻‍♂️

[msc545]

The chances of winning as the man anywhere in the US keep diminishing day by day.

[TonyMetal___86]

@msc545 it's because men there are accepting what's happening to them, a lot of dirty of women just wants everything but won't give a damn thing, so it's time to move and take back what's ours!

[msc545]

Unless you want to seriously break the law, men don't have a choice except to accept what's happening to them. Court orders are very strong, at least here where I live, and you don't violate those for any reason. The courts here heavily favor women.

[CalmUntilAbused]

@msc545 Okay, I suppose we did find a flaw of this idyllic California, then? It's no place to be a man, apparently. Well, not all of the USA is like this, at least from what I'm hearing. Though I guess the courts and their hostility towards men are another point we mostly agree on.

[msc545]

@CalmUntilAbused well, you're not wrong about this. It's okay to be a man in California, but it sure as hell is not an okay place to ever get married or have a divorce because you're going to get reamed. I find that as a single man in California, I don't get mistreated by the courts now, but in the past I have been badly mistreated by them.

[msc545]

So yeah, I think we can agree on the mistreatment of men in US courts in general, and particularly in California courts, at least in any action that involves a dispute with a woman.

[LiamS95]

To be honest I don't think about it much, when I get married I won't be planning on any divorce it will be till death do us part in old age after a lifetime with my lover and best friend

[melssvdv]

"I won't be planning on any divorce"
I was not talking about you/men taking divorce. But about women taking it casually and how the court allows it casually as well.

I was not about men initiating divorce, but women doing it.

[LiamS95]

understand but I suppose it rvolved this way because far too many women were wronged in the past. There is no excuse for either side.

[msc545]

No, brother, it evolved this way because women are basically greedy and they don't want to work for their own money. They want your money.

[msc545]

So now men getting wronged makes up for all of that, correct? That somehow equalizes things in some way that I don't fully understand, but apparently you do. Please do tell.

[Ariesman81]

It use to bug me. Now I take comfort in knowing she's someone else's problem.