I was banned from a bar over a lie—should I keep fighting this?

[Anonymous]

It has now been 11 months. I was at a bar and a woman I approached was uncomfortable. She outright lied and said I asked her to come back just for me, and she said I touched her. Neither of those happened, and she knows it too.

I've been trying to plead my case for some time now, I started with asking them to go through footage. No luck. Then I came back and asked what proof they even had aside from her word, and they eventually threatened to call the police if I returned.

Much later now, I tried going back hoping they'd forget me. They didn't and they gave me one last chance. I asked what proof they even had that it happened and he just said. "Get the F-ck out or I am calling the police. For real this time." I left and he even posted about it on social media, calling me an asshole for not letting him be wrong. Was I indeed in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

i had something similar happen a couple years ago at this bar i had been to many times , i recall one night as i was about to leave went to coat check to get my coat but it was very slow so had to wait in line , was this blonde girl nearby i had never seen before , i was close to her in line but we never talked and never interacted.

somehow one of the main bouncers either cause of my reputation or a false claim though that i had touched her ( which never happened and if they had looked through the video would of seen nothing happened ) but this bouncer made this bizarre claim that i touched her and was touching girls at that bar without there consent ( which never happened , maybe i looked at some or asked some to do a shot but i never touched anyone )

i recall they didn't let me back in for a few months but eventually i did get back in , not exactly sure why but that bar isn't as popular now as it was then so i haven't even been back there in months and not sure when i'd even go back if i do bother

but accusation against me was entirely false , perhaps girls was uncomfortable with me but i never touched her and didn't even know her at all and if i had been touching all these girls without there consent at that bar wouldn't others have said something and wouldn't there be video evidence of it?

[Opinion Owner]

but isn't much you can really do now as video evidence is likely deleted and ownership of a bar can legally deny entry to people for various reasons , usually its for lack of payment or starting fights or being rude to other customers , its less common for men to be banned cause a girl was upset at them as that pretty much happens all the time and most girls are very easily annoyed these days it seems

[madhatters4]

i think you just need to find a new bar. they asked you to leave. it's a your word vs her word situation. she may be lying but it doesn't really matter as the establishment has made its decision. it's a bar. find a new one.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why are you so desperate to get back to this singular bar?

[OneViewpoint]

Assuming you're telling the entire truth here and there isn't a different side to this story, there are some batshit crazy head cases out there in the female (and male) population. For that reason, I tend to take interactions with women in a slow and controlled fashion. Even when women approach me. I wanna know just how batshit crazy and/or stupid she is before I invest any time or energy in her.

[exitseven]

I would find a new bar to drink in. This place seems like it is too much trouble. take your business elsewhere. Money talks.

[Jeff51]

If the owner doesn't want you back then that's it. He has final say if he wants your business or not.

[beefcakebradybatson]

No, but don't waste your time with that a**hole. Go to another bar.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Just go to a different bar? 😒

[Anonymous]

Go to another bar. Wtf

[Asker]

There aren’t any near.

[Mike_Hum]

Just go to another bar.

[Agape93]

@Abbycado

[In_Trance]

Retard of the week