Why are racial slurs and rude behavior so common with teens now?

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

My 7th grade niece has been telling me about how rude everyone is right now, An 8th grader shoved her in the hallway and just said "move *racial slur*" and I guess racial slurs are super popular right now. I've heard so many latinos and latinas saying it too, it's an african-american term only for african-american people, but nobody is gonna stop them either.

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Also White people say it too, I am not saying it's one race who says it the most but from experience hispanics and latinos have been saying it.

[ohsheeT]

The war Iran and America going on you can see it

There's another war going on it can been seen and felt

It's the war against Good vs Evil

And now matter who you are in life you have followers. And leaders

The leaders will tell you to educate yourself

The followers are drama makers they're ignorance and they follow whoever it is that has the biggest the fattest mouth because they're lazy number one they don't want answers they want to cause chaos because they are evil that's who they are good against evil

Everybody on this planet Has the same DNA It doesn't matter about a color

And I guess if you want to add color into it our loving God made our bodies to adapt to the environment the harsh conditions this Earth has to offer depending on the location you're in so that would tell me that God would protect us if we are in the Sun a lot and it would change the pigment of somebody's skin

And if you really think about it Jesus is black he was dark complected his parents the same way

Jesus is a loving God I'm sure he is sick and tired of even hearing about color because it does not matter this body that we are all in it falls to the ground at the end our spirit that has no color goes on

Now everything I just said just because I think it just because I feel it it doesn't mean that I'm right

And this answer is not meant to be taken wrong or right It's To be taken As you have to come up with your own answer and then you have to be wise enough to change to teach the people in this world that are so ignorant

Because one day we all the little people are going to have to come together because there's a bigger evil out there that's been controlling all of us for a long time but in your school stop the ignorance teach or don't

Ignorant kids I feel sorry for because they get their answers their attitudes their Knowledge from their parents and brothers and sisters and friends

That's why they are followers they will always be followers until they're not

You have a chance to become a leader and do what's right do what you think is right do what your heart tells you

[KostasKouvalis]

" an african-american term only for african-american people"
Do you have a copyright on it? And actually...

https://youtu.be/X6WX3awlAYI?si=ZO9ZWwpS0Z6MFtdK

But it's no different then when I was in high school in the late 2000s. Me and my friends casually used racial slurs, it was just normal. One time a black kid came on the bus and a bunch of kids went, "Back of the bus, back of the bus!" Another time they told the driver to leave him 'cuz they don't like his kind. One time a bunch of rednecks started a KKK faction on campus.
Me and my friends never went THAT far, we just used slurs amongst ourselves. That's just how everybody talked. I got called into the office once and a black kid started laughing, "Ha ha! That's what you get White boy!" So it was two sided.
Teenagers were always racist and assholes and disrespectful towards elders. That part hasn't changed. What has changed is ADULTS have become more immature, entitled and assholish.

[KostasKouvalis]

Really the only difference is that this time you'll get in a lot more trouble for it. Like those kids who made the human swastika. In my day, they would've just suspended them and it'd be the end of it. No one would make national news of it

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

If it's a trend I kinda get it. The way people have been using it though.

[4ngelic]

When I was a teen, slurs and edgy jokes were common. i've sieg heiled, made terrorist jokes, said the n word, etc and I think pretty much everyone has when they were like 14. That never really went away during the 'woke era' either. It's normal teen behavior, as long as it's not actually ment and is just humor.

[KostasKouvalis]

Me and my friends did too😂 And Justin Bieber said "nlgger" when he was a teen. And I still hear about these things. Some high schoolers made the news for making a human swastika😂 Some rednecks at MY school started a KKK faction. So I think you're right. Only difference is back then, the worst that would happened is you'd get suspended for a few days, while these days you get investigated for a hate crime and end up on the local news. There were some teenagers and frat boys who even got expelled for something they said in a group chat outside of school hours. And one girl got arressted for joking that Netenyahu should bomb the school so they don't have to take finals. And an entire plane got diverted because someone named their blue tooth device "bomb." The pilot even said he knew it was a joke but still diverted. People overreact to EVERYTHING now!

[Agape93]

Because they haven't experienced getting punched in the face yet for running their mouth.

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

😂 for real

[relationship_guru]

This kind of behavior feels new because we’re hearing it more openly, but it isn’t new. People have used insults, exclusion, and dehumanizing language for as long as history has been recorded.

Women fighting for voting rights were mocked and attacked. Black people were enslaved and later terrorized under segregation. The Romans looked down on outsiders as “barbarians.” Different tribes, nations, classes, and ethnic groups have always found ways to treat someone else as less human.

So the real issue is not that teens suddenly invented cruelty. The issue is that some teens are repeating old patterns with modern confidence because they think it makes them edgy, funny, powerful, or untouchable.

But racial slurs are not harmless. They carry history. They carry pain. And when someone uses them casually, especially while shoving someone in a hallway, that is not “just kids being kids.” That is bullying, disrespect, and prejudice showing up in real time.

The answer is not to pretend it will disappear on its own. Each of us has to put those acts in check when we see them. Parents, teachers, students, friends, and family all have a role. Silence teaches kids that it is acceptable. Correction teaches them there are boundaries.

Your niece should report it, and the adults around her should take it seriously. History may explain why this keeps happening, but it does not excuse it.

[abc3643]

A nontrivial part of it is this:

However, this actually goes back to about 50 to 60 years ago. I don't have time to explain in detail, but the advent of cable television and the relaxedness that came out of the late 1960s was when this began. I'll try and explain more later.

[Zack-Bann]

As opposed to when?
This is the least racial slurry era of our history.


And what’s wrong with that? Just tell your niece to fight back and call them whatever racial slur applies to them.


That’s how you develop thicker skin.


Coddling kids too much is how we end up with a sissy generation that could drown in a teacup

[Snakeyes7]

It's the Streisand effect. The more you crush those who say certain things, the more people want to say it to piss off the powers that be. It's how jokes work.

Not sure if there is any empirical evidence behind this but teens are just naturally prone to question authority.

[Kaneki05]

You clearly aren't 20 asking this, tbh I don't even know what age you'd have to be because everyone knows slurs are common and even more so common the younger someone is.

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

I am twenty, thank you. I know it's common. It was just a question, damn.

[Lesbologist]

Listen to the music they're listening to and it will all make sense to you.

[Mike_Hum]

Because minorities have been told that they're "victims" and under attack so they are responding to this fantasy appropriately. It's anti-white racism.

[strateguy632]

i don't believe that. the thing that is common is making up stories to incite hate or get sympathy. like that rapper.

[strateguy632]

https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-47317701

[BCRanger10]

If that's the case, it's probably just a move to the opposite extreme of where we have been lately.

[TonyMetal___86]

Because these kids were raised without morals and values, the whole system is corrupted!

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

I know, right?

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[genericname85]

i think it historically is still quite rare.

[msc545]

They are just mimicking the behavior of their parents and other adults around them.

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

Yeah.

[NovaSpawn]

I feel like people are just really rude in general.

[I_love_Capybaras_29]

I agree.

[Kelly6]

@I_love_Capybaras_29 It's been like that always

[Godihateyou]

The world is healing. That's why. People need to hear the truth. Don't want to be called a slur? Don't act like that slur. Easy peasy lemon squeezy

[Godihateyou]

Oh and the slur is ours. White peoples, we invented it you call you it. You stole it, like everything else.

[ThisSiteSux]

Because the world is healing. Generation Zyklon will free America of the mud bloods.

[tonita926]

That’s common for people of all ages to be rude it hopes them sleep at night.

[TheGreatCornholio79]

Probably haven’t had to face the consequences. And school seem to do nothing about it.

[FreyaRed]

Brutalization...

[Alex-Snow]

There is no place for it at any age.