Most guys me age are single. Girls make their own money, they don’t really want us. They are independent and view rubbish like travelling as more important than getting married and having kids.
Women self fund their lifestyles, have friends and travel, so for a guy to make their life so much better he has to do a lot of tap dances. He has to be incredibly nice to her, or like so handsome or so rich.
Who would have thought, women earning their own money would make most men like redundant to them.
Give a woman an inch and they take 9.
A lot of women just can’t even make good choices for themselves, that’s why we have the patriarchy. Why men used to pick partners for their daughter. You give women a bit of freedom and will your family propagate still.
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This may be the funniest accidental argument for women’s economic independence I’ve ever read. “Once women could support themselves, men actually had to make their lives better in order to be chosen.” Yes. That was rather the point. If your romantic prospects depend on women having fewer choices, I’m not sure women’s freedom is the problem here.
What about us. Why don’t women think to make our lives better and only think about their fucking selves
Who said women shouldn’t make men’s lives better? Of course they should. That’s literally the point of a relationship. Both people should be able to look at their lives and say, “This person makes mine better.”
But you’re complaining that women having their own money means men now have to offer something worthwhile to be chosen. Why is that offensive to you? Women are expected to bring love, companionship, sex, emotional support, loyalty, effort, affection, and partnership to a man’s life. Men should bring value to theirs too.
The difference is that women no longer have to marry just to survive. So yes, now you actually have to be someone she prefers having in her life over being single. So does she.
That isn’t women “only thinking about their fucking selves.” That’s two adults freely choosing each other instead of one of them needing the other because she doesn’t have any better options.
Is it bad for who?
If you're gonna argue we should have kept women barefoot and pregnant, you're on a slippery slope that leads to "should we have freed the slaves"? Because now White male losers have a harder time competing in schools, with women, in careers.
Your whining is beyond pathetic. You are basically admitting you can't compete in life without some artificial advantage that guarantees your success at the expense of other people. I have exactly zero sympathy for you. You think you "did it all by yourself" while you cry that your privilege has been revoked and you have to compete on a level playing field.
Welcome to the real world Tiger.
Lmao so men actually have to try to be more than just a paycheck for women now and that is somehow our fault? Financial independence is a good thing for everyone except incels who believe they are owed a partner just because they exist.
Do actual work to improve yourself and see yourself as more than just a paycheck.
Ohh so when have women ever thought they are supposed to
Improve a man’s life
Are we supposed to baby them too or just still expected to take care of their homes, children and sexual needs which im sure makes their lives WAY easier?
The true test of any woman is to remove the leash. What she decides to do tells you her nature.
I've had some that kept running away and I've had some that noticed they were free and would come back and put the leash back on.
You have to decide if you want one that requires a leash or one that stays close without the need for one. But the only way to know which one you've got is to remove it.
Life doesn’t owe you a partner. No woman owes you a relationship just for being a man. If you want a partner, you have to win her interest first.
There are places on the planet where a woman is still like livestock or a pet, plus you can have babies with them. You probably need a visa to get there though
No, but it is bad that the only value that you apparently have is as much as your income. If that's all you have to offer then no wonder you are unhappy.
Why would it be bad that women are employable and can hold down jobs?
No.
Because if this is the way women have always felt about men maybe it's best that this happened. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who was only with me because she felt it was her only option, would you?
it ends up that the more women see independance, the less they want men, so yea, it ended up backfiring didn't it.
An independent woman is just a responsible adult.
Nope