Is my mix of late motherhood, autism, atheism and anti-spanking beliefs rare?

[Vesuvius87]

Would you say these combinations make me rare:

- Latina mother (gave birth for the first time at age 38)

- Neurodivergent (, mild, nivel 1 on autism spectrum)

- Atheist; our marriage was non-religious

- Deep hatred for corporal punishment on kids

Yes

No

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I like it more how that system rephrased my question, much better. I tend to like analyzing things, over overanalyzing and not really the type that gets satisfied with an ''You go to Heaven when you die'' or ''because I said so'' or expecting others to be kind when you're not yourself.

[bowenw]

I don't believe any of the things you listed are particularly rare, although as one person pointed out, all of them together makes you somewhat of a rarity.

[Anonymous]

None of those by themselves seem so rare. Maybe the combo of all four is but as soon as soon as you start sorting people by that many factors, you narrow it down a ton.

[Vesuvius87]

I was searching more about my traits. The interesting part I found is that many of us neurodivergents with mild autism actually like to question things, analyze so much and not comply to traditional norms just because things were done like that in the past.

[Kelly6]

@Vesuvius87 not at all

[Kelly6]

@Vesuvius87
I gave birth at age 42 and baby came healthy

[Vesuvius87]

Awesome. My husband and I are thinking of conceiving again after our son's 2nd birthday. I'll be 40 by then.

[Kelly6]

@Vesuvius87
That is good news, 🥰

[strateguy632]

yes rare. statistical rare.

[Vesuvius87]

Yeah I only realized I had mild autism late in my adulthood years. Prior to that it would've been just 3 things.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

No. You sound just like every other feminist.

[Vesuvius87]

Yet I'm now a stay-at-home mother, cooked and take my son to his early stimulation classes. That's still some traditional trait. I don't trust babysitters nor daycare.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

You looking for a gold star? You're an atheist... which means you'll probably raise him to hate his dad.

[Vesuvius87]

My husband is also atheist. To be honest he's like my male counterpart even on the mild autism spectrum too. He doesn't like spanking kids either. He hates that.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Poor kid

[jahaims]

Weird way to seek attention

[Vesuvius87]

It's a free site to ask many questions here.

[fishbone77]

You sound like an annoying millennial.

[Vesuvius87]

Well this site is fun too. We can ask many questions here.