If someone said the love of your life is already in your life would you be satisfied?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

In my life? Or dating? Cause there are plenty of women i know that i think i'd be satisfied with if they were the love of my life. They're just not.😆

[Asker]

In your life already

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that's non specific. There are a lot of women IN MY LIFE that i am not currently dating.

[Asker]

Right... if one of those women were in fact the love of your life... would you be happy?

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard to say. I'd like to say yes. But we're not dating. And that's the only way i could know for certain. Like for example there's a woman i work with that is smart, hard working, loyal, honest. If we were similar people she'd be darn near the perfect partner. But we are not the same type of people. I'm tame, she's wild. Which sucks because i get to watch her make one bad choice after the next when it comes to men. Is she perfect? No. But she is a good person. She's just not so good at choosing men. She likes men with an edge and in her 40's i don't ever see her changing. I feel bad for her every time she gets her heart broke. But only she can change this. And i just think she's not meant to.

[Asker]

Opposites do atrract... mostly

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that's nonsense. People use lust and or loneliness to justify that saying. opposites almost never work out. Believe me, if i thought she's have any interest i would have already asked her out. I don't know if this God's way of protecting me or what. Because while she's good i don't know that she'd be good for me. And because i'm the way i am i'm pretty sure i'd bore her. You just can't make fire where there's nothing to burn. I know she likes me, thinks i'm funny, but that's where it ends. And this is not any kind of code for, "i lack confidence" because i most definitely don't. Believe me, i wish we were a match. In my heart i know we're not.

[rgb008]

Yea, I hate meeting new people

[Anonymous]

Yeah