No one is obligated to care about anyone but when people don't seem to have anyone that cares about them, is it random or something about them?

[Anonymous]

I feel bad for them, I mean no one besides family, Random means its coincidence or just a matter of some people have to not have someone like that in their lives it is not anything against them as people.

Would lean Random

Would lean something about them, could be they inspire jealousy, they are a headache, they are closed off, on and on

A combo of both

Definitely think it's random

Definitely think it's something about them

[Anonymous]

Yes. 😆

That was deliberately vague. Because we're talking about multiple variables here.

For example i use to work with this girl who a guy didn't have to be very attractive to get into her panties. He just had to believe it, put on a good show of finding her attractive and BOOM he'd be f***ing her that night. Because she knew she was trash. She had weird boobs. Like those things were so far apart they pretty much had their own zip code. But she had nice eyes and a decent face. But she was a terrible person. No self respecting man would treat asnything more than an easy f*** because had no self respect. And she tried to break up guys that were already in relationships because by doing that it was the only way she felt she could get over on these women. So don't go feeling sorry for her.

And i guess what i'm saying is don't feel sorry for men like this easy. You're not helping them. You can befriend them, you can help build them up, but at the end of the day discovering their confidence and self worth is up to THEM. No one can give that to them. I promise you it's there. It's there with every guy they just have to seize that power. NON ONE decides a man's worth but that man.