It really angers me, pisses me off, why does life, society, culture, have all these rules as to how a Man

is supposed to be? as to how what separates a boy from a man? Seriously it really pisses me off, makes me angry, frustrated, furious, so much that it makes me feel like physically hurting someone just to show the world and society how pissed I am, It's why I hate being male at times. I hate how society expects us guys to toughen it up all the time, seriously, who or what made these rules, standards in society as to how a Man is supposed to be? I f***in' hate how society always tells us guys to "Man Up, Be a Man, Grow a Pair, Grow Some Balls, Sack It Up" Seriously why are a guy's Balls an excuse for doing that? Why are a guy's Balls a symbol of toughness, strength, assertiveness, leadership, initiative, making things happen, etc.? and one guy says "because balls are what makes us guys" I seriously felt like kicking his ass for saying that. They always say that part of being a Man is taking charge, taking initiative, being assertive, being a leader, making things happen, that we have to validate ourselves and not seek approval, validation from others, having goals, a mission, purpose in life, that your mission and purpose in life must come before anything else, etc. They never say to girls, women "Woman Up, Be a Woman" I made those quotes, phrases up to be the Female Equivalent, Counterpart to "Man Up, Be a Man". It's like girls, women are automatically accepted by society and life as how they already are, but us guys always have to keep proving ourselves all the damn times. It's like as if life, society, culture, has rules, standards as to what separates a boy from a man, but they do not have any rules as to what separates a girl from a woman. Also whenever a guy rants, whines, complains, is acting immature, they will always tell him "grow up and start being a Man", but they never do if a girl does the same thing. Seriously one time when a guy said to me "Grow a Pair, Man Up, Be a Man", I swear I literally kicked his ass, I f***in' punched his lights out, make him have a bloody nose, because those sexist phrases get so damn annoying, seriously why is society, life like this? I may not be a Man but that does not mean I am a wimp
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I hate how everyone or most people say that us guys have life easier than girls, women, that it's easier to be a man than it is to be a woman, that we have dating and relationships easier than women, girls, they say that being a guy, male is much better than being a girl, woman.
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Seriously why are Balls, Testosterone, an excuse for a guy to be more aggressive in all aspects of life? where is the argument to back that up?
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OVERALL!, WHY ARE A GUY'S BALL'S, TESTICLES AN EXCUSE FOR BEING TOUGH, STRONG, ASSERTIVE, TAKING CHARGE, MAKING THINGS HAPPEN, LEADING? if you think I'm full of estrogren wait til I kick your ass
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SERIOUSLY, THE WORLD AND SOCIETY REALLY NEEDS AN ASS-KICKING!
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WHY DOES LIFE, SOCIETY, CULTURE, HAVE ALL OF THESE RULES, STANDARDS, EXPECTATIONS, AS TO HOW A "MAN" IS SUPPOSED TO BE? WHY IS GOING AFTER WHAT YOU WANT, BEING DOMINANT, LEADING, TAKING CHARGE, BEING HEAD-STRONG, ALL MASCULINE TRAITS!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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like this one guy that said this to me years ago, I feel like killing him, but I don't because I don't want to get into legal trouble: "No bro, it isn't. And I don't want to be a**** but seriously this is like the eleventh thread you've complained in.

F*cking grow a pair. Seriously, man up. You need to have a spine, NO ONE respects a door mat, and you'll NEVER get a relationship without respect. Realize that YOU are in control of your own destiny and women don't OWE you sh*t!
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"not a relationship, a bj, love, respect, sympathy, NONE of it.

You gotta EARN it. EARN it by realising that you don't NEED to have a chick to validate your existance, realize that people try to help you all the time, but your LAZY ass ALWAYS blames society instead of taking initiative and making yourself more attractive the opposite gender. ADAPT! Don't cry about women not wanting you, find out what they want and use that to make yourself more attractive.

Oh and be a Man" I hate him a lot
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SERIOUSLY THAT GUY WHO SAID THAT TO ME, I WISH I COULD KILL HIM LIKE THIS: link
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I hate how people, life, always say "Real Men take charge, control, initiative, know what they want and go after it, make things happen, lead, are decisive, etc."
It really angers me, pisses me off, why does life, society, culture, have all these rules as to how a Man
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