Why is a man not allowed to complain about anything while women complain all the time?

[Anonymous]

A man who complains about anything, even if it's valid, is told to stop whining, accused numerous things by women (boo hoo, incel, virgin /not getting any, ugly etc) while women complain all the time and get nothing but sympathy from men.

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You know what I'm sick of the double standards. Men are attacking me too for stating the obvious. When you make an observation and complain that it's unfair, you get attacked from both sides, women don't get any if that, why just because they have a vagina? F that. MEN ARE HUMAN TOO.

[Gordyshore]

You are allowed to complain; you're allowed to voice every thought that graces your mind. However when a woman is talking; she's not complaining she's trying to make you hear her. If you take it as complaining then that's truly sad. I understand you probably feel like your voice is not being heard, and that could probably be true. The question is have you ever had a conversation with a woman, and she was telling you something, but you took it as complaining? Maybe instead of saying women complain and men don't which isn't the cause at all!! Try listening.

[Vegasrunner]

@gordyshoreThis is god awful advice. He's correct about the double standard. Women bitch and complain all the time and receive empathy for it. No one wants to hear a man whining and complaining. The real answer is it's difficult to be a successful man however if you can overcome and become one you can pretty much do what you want.

[Gordyshore]

@Vegasrunner Men complain and women listen; I have been around toons of men who only complain. No one that you know wants to hear you complaining!

[Vegasrunner]

@Gordyshore Lol, you give an example of 1 person and you think that exception makes the rule? I'm a grown man so I realized no on wants to hear me complain 20 years ago. When women complain there's always a random ear waiting to listen and agree w/ whatever B. S they're talking about. Just how the world works, you should be trying to take advantage of our vs justifying it.

[Gordyshore]

@Vegasrunner When you are close with a man; they complain. Depending on the relationship that you have with someone is how you speak! You wouldn't go to a random man or woman and be like "Man let me complain to you" Where would that make any sense to do? If you can't talk comfortably around the people that are close in your life; where you feel like you are being blocked then that is solely on you. Just because you perceive the language to be different between a man and a woman doesn't mean it's actually any different at all. Again you probably can't complain around the people in your life, but trust and believe me when I say I have heard it from men and women.

[Vegasrunner]

@Gordyshore Lol, men definitely dont want to listen to other men complain so not sure where you got that also a random woman can post a complaint on any social media site and the entire world will come running to her defense. You may not like it but that's the world we live in. Telling a man that it is the same is terrible advice and won't help him once he realizes the world does not care about his complaints.

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest I grew up in an openly nudist household with parents walking around nude my twin sisters and cousins and niece's it was unavoidable for me to have embarrassing erections several times a day.

[boggboss]

Because men and women view eachother differently a man will see a complaining man as weak whilst subconsciously men accept that women like to express their feelings

[boggboss]

Yet men are conditioned to just get on with it so not sure why u expect men to agree with u for the most part they will laugh at u and get on with their lives

[rabbitzzz]

We should really listen and care for mental health of men who failed art class or ex kgb spy who things everyone is out to get him.

[grega239]

Because men have the misfortune of having to keep society going

[jahaims]

Not allowed to? Does someone stop you? No one stops me.

[Anonymous]

Because life has always expected more of men that it has of women

[Medhat-M]

We're supposed to be tougher you know...