I'm 19 and never been kissed!

[emzy-89]

its pretty self explanatory...is that weird?

[authentic]

A further thought for you to ponder on, instead of asking what's wrong with you, ask ---

What's right with me? What am I doing RIGHT?

ans: You get yourself the chance of finding Mr. Right with your FIRST TRY. How do you do that? By learning from others' mistakes. You have your next 20 years (at least) to meet Mr. Right, what's the hurry? The kind of "Mr. Right", at your age group, you really think they are your "Mr. Right?" :)

Ask those who "are concerned about you" this >>> "Have you seen what happened to those who drove at 200 mph in order to 'get there fast'? What did their 'there' turn out to be?"

You may be interested in reading these two links:

How to meet Mr. Right on your first try, without ever having to meet Mr. Wrong? >>> link

Why are there so many messy relationships? What are the fatal mistakes people make? How to stay free of people who you don't want to come into your life? >>> link

[yannick]

no it's not. don't pressure yourself. find a nice guy, someone you really like first! I had sex twice with friends that I wasn't attracted to under the influence of alcohol before kissing a girl I love for the first time, and trust me, when you do something because you feel like that's what people your age do, it's not good. wait for the right person and you'll see, the kiss will be AMAZING. when I kissed my ex for the first time it changed my life! it was the best feeling in the world. definitely something else than kissing some girl friends because we drank too much...

[LookingForTrust]

I didn't get my first kiss until I was 18, and he was wayyy too old, 26. Needless to say, that was badddd. It's not a weird thing. I have friends who haven't had their first kiss yet either, and they are getting quite desperate. Please don't feel bad about it. And yeah going around kissing people probably isn't the best idea, because it doesn't teach you anything about love etc, BUT I'm a hypocrite for saying that because I have made out with my guy friends before. Just one of them, but still just forget about it.

ANYWAYS, kissing isn't a slutty thing. Sex isn't a slutty thing, even, if it's with someone you love. But please please I beg of you, don't feel bad! It'll come soon, I promise :) Good luck, hon!

[MagicalBlueFerret]

nope if you're saving it... I've had my first kiss this year (15) I don't think it's too young because I love him. most of my friends who just throw themselves around first kissed at 12 or 13. It just depends on how long it takes for you to fall in love. don't worry :) my friends lost it with 'affairs', which kinda sucks. most of my friends who are saving it too haven't first kissed yet

[Anonymous]

no. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 21 so it doesn't really matter. you might get kissed before me. just make sure the guy is decent. the guy I was with was a douche and I wish he was dead.

so no, you aren't too old to get your kiss, just do it when you're ready

[beatabeatrix]

I only really had my first proper kiss as 19 :) just at the start of this year.

Before that it was just a quick peck on the lips with the boy next door when I was 10 which I don't think really counts hehe.

You're not weird though no, everyone's different!

[Littletad]

Not at all. But are you anywhere near Texas? We might be able to fix this.

Just kidding. It's perfectly natural to "complain" or think something must be terribly wrong if you hadn't had a kiss yet. But if you wanted to look at if from a different angle, think of all the time you saved by not kissing some frogs. A first kiss is cute, romantic, and maybe even a little tantalizing for the guy. Just make sure it's someone who wants to know about you, and not how your lips taste on a first date. Take pride in knowing your time is due soon, rather then "why haven't".

[DieToWin]

I actually just answered a question like this to a 16 year old

link

its not exactally the same since It was for a guy and a younger guy. but its kinda the same. just hang in there. Don't dwell, things take place for a reason and eventually everything will work out in the end =)

[backporch-p0et]

No, its not weird at all! Don't psych yourself out like that. Trust me. I'm 19 and just recently have been kissed for the first time. I just never found a guy that I truly liked and was comfortable enough around to kiss. Your time will come and it won't be perfect or maybe it will! I was freaking out the following 24 hours, but a good kind. =]]

[CherryBomb32]

Girl...get on it...! What are you waiting for? You are obviously very curious or you wouldn't think anything of it. Believe it or not, I waited till I was 27 to have sex for the first time...Well, I wasn't an angel when it came to the other stuff but I waited till 27 none the less! Kissing is great! Who says everything has to be all goooey and special, who cares...just have fun!

[Appleater]

I think it's weird. Not to be mean but I don't know anyone that's never been kissed. When my sister was 16 and I was 18 I liked to think she had never been kissed till I caught her making out with her boyfriend and I was p*ssed...just felt like adding that in haha. Don't you ever go to parties and stuff? People make out when they're all wasted. I would think everyone would have experienced that in highschool. In fact me and some roommates just had this conversation of drunk kissing. And to all the people saying it's so special to wait...It's just a kiss, you're not losing your virginity.

[emzy-89]

I don't drink so no I've never experienced a drunk make out session. I'm afraid I'd have to disagree with you though, I think a kiss should b special...if youjust go around kissing people just for the sake of it, then it doesn't really mean anything.

[kreuz]

I agree it is worth waiting for that special person in your life ...

[vanwa-meleth]

No, I don't think so. I'm almost 19 and have never been kissed. I believe it's just because I haven't found the right person yet. You'll get your first kiss when you meet the right person. =]

[MRPAUL]

Well no that isn't weird at all it just means you haven't found the right person to kiss yet don't worry but it's some thing you would just tell people though.

[itsweird182]

I didn't get my first kiss til I was 19, I'm 20 now and still have not kissed anyone else.

[afriendlycow]

Same here man I know how you feel. :(

[gotrandom]

save your first kiss for someone special. not weird you're just a bit slower than others :D

[Surya-kant]

very nice as till 19 I also not kissed any gl, bt later only once I got chance to do so, that's it.

[Phoenix98]

I'm 21 and never been kissed never really felt right with most women I was with except one I wouldn't worry about it, it will happen when it happens.

[Anonymous]

im 19 and never kissed too. :)

havent found the right girl yet...

[tyrantfuryre]

No. My first kiss was at 16 but I wish I could have done it over.

[mormongirlmichl]

no...it isn't weird...don't sweat it!

[soccerchick10100]

Waiting for the right person make it worth wile.

[yournamehere]

no.

[Anonymous]

I'm in the same boat :/

[Queen97]

Same here