How was your first ever clubbing experience like?

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Do you go out much now or are you sick of the whole thing?

bruvleigh · Accepted Answer

it comes round over and over again. no doubt in a few weeks ill be in the mood to go out and get sh*tfaced with mates. but then I will go out

and when I get into town we will start with the same conversation, "where do we go to first?" then we spend an hour and a half walking until the whole group decides that we want to get sh*tfaced at this particular venue. despite being virtually the same as all the others.

so we go in and its usually a bar more than a club which means after about an hour in there we will get bored and decide lets go to a big club, so we spend another half hour walking to where the main clubs are, on the way having to stop 14 times to dissuade that individual prick in the group who wants to get tequila at this bar or sambucca from that one.

EVENTUALLY we will get into a club. we will spend over the odds for drinks, and will start to dance. now at some point one or more will need the toilet,

and suddenly the group is split, the club is only getting more crowded and now your aim isn't to dance but instead to find the biggest concentration of your friends to hang with until you find the rest of them.

so after spending an hour or two swapping between dance moves and shouting to your mate three inches away that you thought you saw the back of Hannahs head near the bar, its at this point the club will start to close.

it will take you half an hour to leave the place because of toilet stops, losing mates and that prick trying to order ANOTHER shot as the place is closing. but eventually you'll make it outside.

now here is an important decision, do you go home or do you stay out and find somewhere else to drink? well the group will always decide to stay out but what that really means at half 3 in the morning is that you'll spend another hour walking around until you realize everywhere is shut.

APART from the kebab shop, so now your eating a kebab whilst you have one prick in your group going on about a bar that SHOULD still be open on the other side of town, another one on the edge of tears because that girl he really likes got off with a middle age man in the toilets.

its at this point where you realize that your last bus left an hour ago and that you now have to fork out a fortune on a taxi which at least one mate will want to share. and they won't end up having the right change so you'll have to pay the lot anyway.

clubbing ain't worth it, you spend most of the time walking round town at night, HOPING the night will get better. it wont. it never does

Alonso14 · Accepted Answer

Disappointing. Pretty much the same as every other time I've been. I go but only because that is all anyone my age ever wants to do, if I didn't go out to clubs I wouldn't have a social life outside of work.

Its just hours of listening to music I don't like, which is too loud to talk over, in an overcrowded room and being rejected constantly by women. Having said that as a female your clubbing experience will likely be different, instead of spending the night being rejected you will be constantly harassed by men you aren't interested in :)

confugirl · Accepted Answer

My first clubbing experience was just awful. I went with a friend who's very outgoing. I'm the opposite. Anyway, it was very hot and stuffy. The music was way too loud and it was very crowded for such a tiny space. To order a drink, you had to shout to the waiter and I could barely hear what the hell they saying. As for the crowd, there were many women in skimpy outfits and even more sleazy guys. The music was just awful, so I just ended up staring at my friend who danced with 5 different guys during the whole evening. Around 3 am or so, I decided it was enough and told my friend I wanted to leave. She said we won't be long, but I ended up waiting another hour. I told her I'd go home alone then, but she told me I should wait for her a little longer. Then I was just sick and tired, went outside to leave, but she kept shouting at me to wait for her. It would be fine if she'd just stay and let me leave in peace, but she decided that wasn't good enough. So then she finally went outside and we left.

I still don't like clubbing, but now I at least have a reason and my friends will know that I've experienced it, that it's not just prejudice.

Nelly-Nells · Accepted Answer

Went with my home boys , and my boyfriend. Hated it at first , too many people touching me and I don’t really like to dance unless i’ve had a few drinks. I remember the smoke and nasty club air f***in with my contacts so yea. Went threw that phase now I prefer an upscal lounge, wear everything is modern , can have a few drinks with my people, and talk if we want and dance without everyone being on top of another. Honestly don’t really go out lately , more like pizzza or tacos with my boy and a movie with the fam.

MaskofInsanity · Accepted Answer

I can't really remember. I was about 14 (overseas) and went out with my cousins. Just a lot of dancing and stuff (I didn't drink).

I'm now 22 and yes, I still go clubbing. I have a lot of fun with my mates. However, my taste in places has changed a lot and I definitely drink more.

Anonymous · Answer

I was 16, and I was on a cruise from San Diego to Mexico during Spring Break. All the minors found each other because most of the passengers were old people.

Anyway, some kid smuggled vodka onto the boat in water bottles, and we snuck into the ship's nightclub one evening. We got smashed (me especially because it was the first time I ever drank...I chugged it lol).

I did a bunch of sh*t I wouldn't have normally done, I'll say that. It was kinda fun but it would have sucked if I wasn't completely drunk. That sucked in the end too, because I blacked out and woke up in some old couple's cabin face down, with three coin buckets from the ship's casino filled with my vomit. They weren't there when I woke up, I just got the f*** out of there. For the rest of the trip I was known to a good portion of the ship as "that kid in the bomber jacket".

Would not do it again, lol

lauramor · Answer

My first any kind of sucked yeah ha ha because a firiend made me go and she kept kissing a guy on the dance floor and I rejected a guy that was really hot because he was drunk but my friend decided to ask the guys brother for drinks hahahaa. But like some bit of it were really funny and the ride home was funny too. since then I have enjoyed myself every time I go clubbing and I still do but not that much right now, because I don't have anyone to go with since its summer

MikeK · Answer

I was like 16 or 17, and it sucked.

Too young to drink, bad music, and at the time - I LOATHED the atmosphere.

After high school, I really didn't start going to clubs again until my mid 20s. But by this time, it was far more tolerable, and there were some good times.

Now, as I approach 30, I'm beginning to dislike them again.

Anonymous · Answer

Fun, because I love dancing to loud music, and enjoy hanging out with people. I can't legally drink (and I don't accept drinks from guys) so that's out, but clubbing with my friends is usually a good time. I go once every couple months, and it's still pretty fun.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i used to go but haven't for awhile because I hate how smokey it gets. I will start going again soon. there's this event I want to go to...

unighted · Answer

my first clubbing experience doesn't really count, the best one was when I went to cancun for five days, we went out clubbing every night, it was really fun, I still go out to clubs and I like it

Blobb · Answer

siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiick I went to see Paul Van Dyk in one of the biggest clubs in Tunisia, awwwwwwwwwwwweeeesome.

Dylan1989 · Answer

I am getting quite bored of clubbing now tbh. I much rather prefer a pub that plays music and has space for a dancefloor (it's not the same as a club lol)

Anonymous · Answer

I've always loved the music, but I can't stand the crowded and noisy clubs.  I felt that way the first time I went clubbing, and I still feel that way now.

Anonymous · Answer

I went wild for the first time going clubbing. I got totally drunk and my friends had to carry me home. At present, I haven't gone out even for drinks for almost a year now. I'm just not in the mood to do so anymore. Weird huh?

xzinax2 · Answer

8th grade prom,we were in a club for 5 minutes,i felt like puking,and I never ''clubbed'' again.

shenholds09 · Answer

Never been to a club bar or anything and only ever had 2 wine coolers

Moloch · Answer

I danced, but I was definitely not used to the energy. I only go to a club when I'm in a severe dancy state or when my friends make me.

kangaru · Answer

Dont like it at all , too noisy. Prefer pub whereby I could chill and relax with friends

Anonymous · Answer

I remember the music being very loud and me getting tipsy and making out with my girlfriend at the time

Anonymous · Answer

My first time it was extremely crowded and random drunk girls that I'm pretty sure had herpes kept trying to grind on me. I left the dance floor and went to the lounge area to get away from it all...and I ended up having a random sh*tfaced girl puke on my pants.

Clubbing is by all means stupid to me.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been clubbing. I have issues with crowded places though.

Vandal · Answer

It was lame - as it is now. I only go to clubs a few times a year because my amigos enjoy it.

SaltandVinegar · Answer

it was alright, I just don't know what all the hype is about.  I go once in a while now

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