Keep in mind, this was all over the span of two months. So, what happened.. Did I do something wrong or no? She talks to this guy seemingly alot, but they have many classes together.. she seems to be desired by a quite a few men. But she eyes me whenever I see her and even my friend noticed this, as she eyed me even while talking to the guy. I hope I gave enough detail for a good answer. What happened!?
(p.s. both me and the guy are considered 'good looking' in our own respective ways)
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Interesting story. My inclination is that your first guess is correct. You had a window of opportunity and you didn't go through it so it became awkward and then it closed. Let me see if I understand exactly what happened here:
1) You mention the first encounter, you led by just grabbing her and taking her to the dance floor. If I understand correctly, when you say you were "intimately 'grinding'" you mean she was rubbing her ass against your hard cock. And when you say she was grinding intensely over a long period of time, you mean she was doing a LOT to initiate and prolong contact with your hard on. If this is true, then she was VERY attracted to you. This would've been a MAJOR green light to get her number, probably even get a kiss that night and definitely set up a date.
2) You saw her at a basketball game and she lit up when she saw you, but you DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK to her? What was this all about? This seems a very far cry from the guy who took charge and pulled her onto the dance floor and showed her a good time earlier. No doubt she was surprised too that you weren't that guy.
3) You say you "later got the courage to go up to her and talk to her." I have to say I'm having trouble understanding this! So you mean, you needed COURAGE to just TALK to a girl who previously, you rubbed your hard dick against? LOL! You're kidding right?
In conclusion, my guess is that yes, you did do something wrong. You should've gotten her number the first night, you had another shot at the basket ball game, and for some reason you find it tougher to speak with her than to rub your junk up against her ass! lol! Next time follow up--you'll get a MUCH better result.
Hope that helps.
True. It was a dance and I was hyped up that day. For some reason I usually have a hard time being comfortable in certain situations, borderline insecurity. Any insight on the guy and her not replying?
Yeah. You need to get comfortable having a conversation with her. Think about it this way--you've already done the hard part! She's comfortable with your hard dick rubbing against her ass! Even if you DO still have your clothes on, THAT'S pretty intimate! AND she could've easily told you to get lost! But she didn't.
If I were you, I'd ignore the other guy (he's likely a gutless hanger-on anyway) and just man up and start a conversation with her. IN PERSON! Ask for her number! Get a DATE