[...] And I was freaking out, and she still didn't open [up]. [...]
I met her originally in a night club. She was really cute but she looked miserable standing there and barely dancing and starting at the floor. And I was really drunk so maybe I didn't notice the oddities about her. I just thought she was shy, so I started talking to her and offered her to try my drink (Jagerbomb), and she tried it and started smiling really big. So I asked her if she wanted one and bought her one and we started dancing together, and she was smiling then. So we exchanged contacts but it's like when I sobered up and went on the date, I realized I got a really strange one.
Dating Dr. Lecter, if Dr. Lecter were a hippie.
You kind of did tell her you didn't think it would work out, so that means you tried to end it. I don't think i would call that ghosting.
@HOAAH Totally agree. He did the right thing. After that, it's on her for not getting the message.
I see. I thought any type of ignoring was "ghosting", like disappearing. I didn't respond to her messages and I felt a bit guilty about that like I just said "cya!" out of the blue. I think I could have still handled it in a bit more of a mature way in retrospect.
"I wrote her a text saying I'm glad to have met her but I don't think this whole thing can work between us with the distance." - Nah. You're good.
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Well said. Thanks for th post ♥️
Damn. Even if they were clingy you could've told your friends "Its not working out with him. I've made it clear. If he asks just tell him."
@Hypnos0929, I learned from doing that once ended having to get Restraining Order. I work with Special Circumstances Unit Dom. Violence, Human Trafficking, Sexual Assault, Children Criminals, Crimes Against Children, and Stalkers. This is how we tell people to handle when leaving a relationship inform people to just say they don't know anything they haven't seen or heard from you.
Well I think there's a difference between a potential DV situation and a guy who doesn't take hints well. I haven't directly dealt with any DV situations but I think treating a clingy guy the same as a stalker is a bit harsh, especially if you haven't made it clear that you're ending things.
Hypnos0929, they were acting the same way as the Restraining Order guy so and I wasn't taking a chance. With one of them I literally said I don't want to see you anymore and he completely ignored it as if I never said it and continued on to another conversation friends were there and we all looked at each other, my guy friends mouthed stalker coming and I shook my head...
I love that costume by the way :)
Great post. Thank You ♥️
Sweet. Thanks for sharing ♥️
My ex boyfriend texted me 24/7 when we were friends but when we dated he rarely texted me so I ghosted him for ages until he broke up with me
Totally Understandable ♥️
Great post ♥️
Dump him ♥️
We don't talk. I let him go already. We will never speak again and I'm glad. He's was too toxic!
Thanks for sharing ♥️
Well said. Thanks for the post♥️
That sucks 🥺
I take it you're big on communication too.
That's creepy 😱
Sorry to hear 😢
Oh it happens to everyone
Me too girl ♥️
It's not funny...
I generally try to leave the burden of continuing the conversation on the other person. But you really can't do anything if you write a long message, ask questions, but get a one-word or one-sentence answer. It's insulting really. That's when I ghost.
Good question ♥️
Blocking falls under the ghosting category in my opinion. Especially if it's an out of the blue, no explanation block
I don't really block with no warning, unless they annoyed me to the point of no return
And like I said, I rarely block in the first place
Sorry to hear ♥️
Thats just so f n difficult huh... Its narrsist bs an metal abuse.. They keep you on a string while deceiving you an pull u back by making u feel it was bc of u the bs began... Fuck that mental decomposition find some1 worth your time treat her rite u fuck up move on she does then move on dont waste yourself
@Secret6620 what would it take to be friends again?
You gotta be nicer to yourself. You're doing the best you can. ♥️
... yeah, that's really odd. 🤔
@BoMwarrior Even weirder is that since we used to have cyber sex, exactly that was her one reason for reaching out to me again.
What you wrote was sad. 🥺
Its true tho... ghosting is just really really wrong... its ignorant and its rude and its hurtful
Thanks for sharing 😊
Yea met at a mall turns out that was he’s sister in the picture.