Is it wrong for a mother to wear a thong bikini in front of her kids, on holiday?

Question

Prompted by this - If thong bikini is provocative why is accepted in western countries? and similar things I've seen on G@G recently...

I yield to nobody in my utter disinterest in the Kardashian Klan, but this did catch my eye...

Do you think there's anything wrong with it, or it will 'harm' the kids?

Full link here for those who can be bothered...

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

I think it’s more important for parents to be consistent in their views than a strict yes or no... if wearing underwear around the house or bathing with kids (up to an appropriate age 😉) is done in their house then I see no issue with it because the message is consistent.
If mum gets dressed behind locked doors, makes a big deal if their kid walked into the bathroom while she was showering then wearing a thong out is going to confuse and confront. If they’re always open about their body then it’s just an average day 🤷🏻‍♀️
Then they turn into teenagers and everything embarrasses them but that’s just rising to the challenge lol. If she’s still got the body all power to her

Katerina_Belle · Accepted Answer

I don’t think so. Chances are that on beach holiday there’s going to be other women wearing it anyway. I think the key point here is to bring up your children with a open mind and making them aware that different people will have different thoughts and ways of doing things and so if that doesn’t match you personally think it’s not a big deal. Live and let live.

tony_baloney · Accepted Answer

I think it really just falls back on how the kids feel. If they're really young, I don't even know if they'd think anything of it. If they're a bit older, maybe they'd be a little embarassed depending on their view of the mother.. hm. I can't see how this is an issue based on the children alone. Do you think people will look and think she's a bad mother or a poor example for them? Fuck other people if that's what it is lol especially if she is a good mother.

Cask23 · Accepted Answer

I took my 6 & 8 year old to Cancun for spring break. 1/2 of the women there were wearing a thong or micro cheeky. The wife even sported a cheeky a few days. They could care less. More interested in playing in the pool.

exitseven · Answer

If she has a nice body it is okay.

8lutty · Answer

Let consider all the possibility and fact. Fact: A. one person feel what that person feel, B. and outside factor can or can't change one person feeling, C. differrent person could have differrent thoughts. Possibility (about the kid view point): 1. kid think thong = sex (when i was a kid) / 2. kid think mom+thong=embrassing (in front of other people or just simply in front of the kid alone) / 3. kid think thong or mom+thong is normal / 4. kid think both1+2. Now mom can choose to ignore kid's thought and just keep the illusion about if western ok with thong then her kid will be just fine as if her kid like any other person in western who ok with thong (C denied this). Or mom can check her kid thoughts first, this is hard, and dont assume that "kids just play and dont care", because u wouldn't know if they check thong out or not anyway (I used to be that kid :v). When mom somehow magically figured out what kid think about thong, she could choose to change it or not depending on how she like her kid become. If mom ok with kidz thought then it's easy, but if mom want to change kid, B will make this not easy, mom can't be sure the attemp to change the kid will change the kid or unharm to the kid, and why mom would change the kid is the question mom should ask herself. For exp: if the kid think 1, mom could choose to still wear thong and force the kid not allowed to think about her and/or thong and/or mom+thong in sexual way, this could lead to the future where the kid think: i."thong=sex, mom+thong=mom+sex, but I will not involve with her in sexual relelationship" / ii. "thong=sex, mom+thong=mom+sex, I will ask her out" / iii."thong=sex, mom+thong=mom only, sex partner+thong=sex" / iv."thong=sex, mom+thong=mom only, sex partner+thong=not sexy at all!(lost ability to feel thong sexy)" / v. this is the worst possibility: the kid still think thong=sex, but the kid also listen to mom and try to think thong not= sex, it make the kid feel guilty because the kid feel different with what mom told, this could lead to mental problem if it keep continue, like devolope guilty feeling anytime related to sex, even after grow up, the feeling still happen unconsiously, or it could get worse and evolve become another mental problem (one of my friends is victim of this). So good luck with your choice, hope u dont break ur kid, really!

xHoneyxBeex · Answer

Well... I certainly wouldn't want to see my mother in a thong. My opinion may be in the minority but even though I don't think it would "scar kids for life" or anything, I also don't think it's really appropriate. I wouldn't wear that around my kids at least.

The only person I'd want to see me in a thong would be my boyfriend/husband. Just to clarify though, I do wear regular bikinis at public beaches and to swim in, I just make sure everything important is covered. Lol

katiesmuff · Answer

I think the thong is wrong to wear when with your kids and if you don't have the body for them they should never be worn. My rear section is considered slim and I use to wear thongs sometimes. Today I wear bikini's with bottoms that cover my butt and that I believe is fine for ladies with kids.
That Kardashian clan in my opinion shouldn't even be allowed in a store that sells bibini's with all their buffalo asses.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

I don't know, I probably wouldn't. I don't mind biknis and etc but I know for me of my kids are around I'd be in mother mode. I don't want to be dressed like. rhat in front of them, I'd have a wrap or something.

But I mean different strokes for different folks. Wouldn't call it wrong, depends on the individual really

winterfox10 · Answer

I've never really thought about this before, but I guess I would want her to wear a similar type of bathing suit to that of her daughter... that is to say that I would want her to wear a one-piece, if my daughter wears a one piece, and a two-piece, if my daughter wears a two-piece. I think that mothers have a great deal of control in helping girls to determine their self-worth and sensuality.

emmily2396 · Answer

If we all had a memory of our first months of life when whe came out of a vagina and we ate out of boobs would we still find it a problem? Seeing your mom naked is just as wrong as her seeing you naked... Of course, in most situations a grown woman should have decency, but on the beach everyone is almost butt naked, the difference isn't huge.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well we would first have to define wrong, like morally or in a health sort of way? I don't know either way, but if its wrong for a mother to do it then technically it would follow that its wrong for all women to do it because your still in a public setting and those children are still going to see that. I'm not sure, personally it would make me uncomfortable if my mother had done that (really weird), and the hyper sexualization of oneself in front of your children seems like it would probably have a negative effect but without hard evidence I can't say for certain. But again, if its wrong for one then it would stand to reason it would be wrong for all.

Goodwifie · Answer

I wouldn't wear one TBH.
Wouldn't want to blind the other beach goers with my white on white butt.
I also burn extremely easy and have copped a major sunburn on my lower butt cheeks one day, it hurt so bad.
As for other mums I will not pass judgement on what they decide to wear at the beach.

wittymilf · Answer

It’s only weird if you make it weird. I make shit weird for my kids :) just to keep them real.

Bianca914 · Answer

I think it's inappropriate to wear with your kids but without them it's fine I like thong bikinis. I wear them too but usually with a skirt wrap

watercolor_lions · Answer

Ehhh... I think it's kinda weird... Children look to their parents as a role model, and I wouldn't want my daughter wearing it, or my son to feel guilty checking me out involuntarily.

Most moms I know switch to a tankini or something equally modest after they have children...

Justacatlady · Answer

I feel that if you have small children, then I don't see why this is necessary. She could look just ass sexy without the suit up her ass.
A child won't view this as sexual, but at the same time, why would a person need to show off this much nudity in front of small humans

weysally · Answer

I see nothing wrong in it personally, but then my family have been nudist going way back and we don't see anything wrong in it, so what do you do, all you would be doing is hiding your own body, on a lot of beaches your kids will see someone similar
go to a nudist beach wearing a full costume, and you would look out of place,

ChetAtkins · Answer

It's obviously a very sexy look, but the kids don't need to see it. I could be wrong about that. I'm not an expert on that stuff. I talked to a woman who told me she walks around naked in front of her kids, and even watches TV like that. lol I never said a word, because, I didn't care and didn't want to start any trouble. That would be perfectly fine if she was just with her bf/hubby. Is that a Kardashian?

SarahsSummer · Answer

I dont see a problem. I think what you wear is more dependent on the surroundings than on your little children.

SpaceFungus-07a · Answer

Moms should model good behavior for their kids. The only point in wearing something that provocative is to attract men. But since she's a mom, she's either attracting dad (pointless), her son (immoral), or other guys (also immoral). Therefore, it is not good behavior for a mom to wear something like that in front of her kids.

Mr_twoface · Answer

If she considers herself to be MILF and in good shape, then why not. When you are on holiday and often at the beach, a lot of people will be wearing thongs or in some cases nothing. The kids will be exposed to a lot more than their mum wearing a thong!

SirRexington · Answer

I don't know what to think anymore. Bathing suits are so impractical and slutty nowadays. I hate it. As much as i love the female anatomy I also feel odd (in ways I'm not sure how to explain) when I see a bunch of girls/women in their super revealing outfits.

I know I would never allow my girlfriend to show that much of her ass at a beach. Also we sexualize ourselves so much it makes sense that it would be somewhat inappropriate for children. I don't wanna see my mom's ass and tits.

taleswapper · Answer

No child was ever harmed by seeing a woman in a thong bikini; not even his Mom. Most don't even notice (until they're teens, anyway). What IS wrong is making it a big deal, and trying to teach them that Mom is being shameful for wearing it.

Ecco939 · Answer

Simply talk to your kids and raise them to respect all people. What a woman wants to wear is her business. If people would simply talk with their kids we could all avoid the stupidity of something so simple "harming the children".

nubianqueen704 · Answer

Not at all just because she's a mom doesn't mean her lifes over.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

All I know is that I don't consider this to be an issue worth concerning myself with.

MarketData · Answer

Kids are going to see ladies wearing thongs. No reason for their mother to be any different. Kids aren't traumatized by nudity, just by people acting weird.

rjroy3 · Answer

It's uncommon, but nothing wrong with it. To be fair, it's also uncommon for mothers to have beach bodies to where they would want to wear a thong. Most often both parents put on weight after marriage. especially the mama after having kids.

TripleAce · Answer

no Its not wrong... kids can't do what mommy does and they shall know that lol...

Siri137 · Answer

No, it's fine, and besides, there are other things that are actually harmful to children that we  really  should be worrying about (ex. the political indoctrination that is now taking place in public schools).

HM1189 · Answer

I said it's fine, because depends of the country, culture, body shape (of the mother, of course), the family behaviour and the place they're spending the vacation. Most of those women who wear it are basically Latinas, specially because of the bodyshape, specially their booties, round and big. Also their kids are probably used to it, or they're too young to notice or most likely, to understand about it

ChgzDaniel · Answer

It's wrong full stop. Women shouldn't wear bikinis unless they are in the privacy of their own home where only their husband can see them.

desidoll · Answer

I think it isn't appropriate to do so. I don't see it as slutty but I'm sure it is not a good example to the kids.

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

I wouldn't go with "wrong" - but I wouldn't recommend it. It's an unnecessary distraction that could easily be avoided.

Red_Arrow · Answer

For many families, nudity is acceptable in the family. So what would be wrong with a bikini that is acceptable in public? It is fine.

soe11 · Answer

It's absolutely normal and fine by many families, society is transformed and continued too.

We live in society base morality, not otherway round.

Not only in Weston society in Asia, Latin America middle East too.

TonyMetal86 · Answer

Yes it's wrong, before and after... a girl shall be respectful

9teen · Answer

Trash parents raise up trash kids. I don't care.  My kids would know what dignity means.

Firepoint_525 · Answer

Kids will see them at the beach or the pool anyway.

Jessobee · Answer

It's fine my mom actually brought me a thong bikini last year

Lightning8 · Answer

What's wrong with you guys? Those poor kids. Possibly poor husband. The age of the THOT is truly upon us

Tilin29 · Answer

Embarrassing to the kids... my mom doesn't want to face that she can't wear that shit.

handsomelad70 · Answer

In front of younger children, absolutely not. Even teenagers shouldn't see their mother in such sexy attire.

hellacray · Answer

Well you lead by example if it's ok for you to do it then it should be ok for your kids also.

ThePundertaker · Answer

My mom in a thong would scar me for life  But so would a sex tape of my mom so... damages already done  🤷‍♂️

Kelly1979 · Answer

I seen worst I seen grandmothers or that cause they spent to much time in the sun.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

Seems like it could instill bad values in the kid but people would do it anyways

Mark987 · Answer

No it's fine people sexualize thongs way too much

GizZzmo · Answer

Wrong? No... right? No... is she hot? Yes? Blame her? Definitely.

lernulo · Answer

I love women body and I like to see it, thong is very near

GreatnessBack · Answer

No. Women should dress into whatever looks good on them.

LegateLanius · Answer

I don't see the problem. Never once did I look at my own mom like that.

HeyThere94 · Answer

Only the snowflake prudes would have an issue with it

name_is_eric · Answer

I don't think it's a good look. Why does swimming/bathing attire have to be so revealing anyways?

19irish76 · Answer

I don’t think a standard bikini is bad to wear around family.

Jimmerjammermama83 · Answer

No not at all I’m thinking about getting a thong bikini I’m much more comfy in a thong

handyman0844 · Answer

nothing wrong with it. If she when nude it still be ok. Nothing wrong with nudity at all.

weifnjkaerbdk · Answer

if she has an ass like that no. I had a hot Aunt, she responsible for my first erection.

Lance1965 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it.

Pinky_what_why · Answer

i not really sure tbh

Lilly_Fair · Answer

A 100% . What do you think?

Logorithim · Answer

It's perfectly fine.

Dargil · Answer

I don't like it.

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