In your idea, is a woman 40 years old single without any kids, educated and have a good job considered successful?

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She spends much of her money traveling around the world and each summer she visits a new country. She just go to high level hotels and the only thing she enjoys is traveling. All of the year, she is planning a new trip and after her trip, she lives with her memories and she doesn’t save a lot

BCA6010 · Accepted Answer

A few years ago, I probably would've said yes without much thought. Now, I'd consider that question to be more subjective to whether or not she is actually living the life she wants. By this description, "the only thing she enjoys is travelling," and only makes one trip per year. So what, she's bored or depressed or stressing out when not taking her vacation once a year? That sounds pretty abysmal, in my opinion.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If she’s happy that’s all that matter. Not my life. But it does raise a lot of red flags. I wouldn’t date someone like that. It’s fun for a while, but I think she’s wasting a lot of her life. For a man that is successful as far as meeting a partner. A lot of women look at men in that way. Men don’t look at women like that. Not the ones that are worth being in a relationship w.

At3mis24 · Accepted Answer

I'm fed up with people judging a woman by her lifestyle, choices and hate her because she doesn't want kids! But let me say this: women will not change to suit your desires, they exist for themselves above all, so you waste your time!

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

yea duh if your rich and living your best rich life you're succesful. you dont need to have kids and be married if your rich to have succeeded at life

exitseven · Answer

If she is happy with her life then she is successful.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

To me, that sounds like a wasted life. What meaningful relationships does she have? How does she use her life to benefit other people? What will she do when she gets older and retires?

"Success" is whatever you define it to be, and some people measure it by money or a lifestyle, but that is not my idea of success.

patois · Answer

That's the most cliché boring woman in the world... Every girl from the time she's like 12 puts the tag line in everything she does "I like to travel". I don't think there is anything more uninteresting a woman can say. It's basically like saying, I hate my life and am extremely fickle, all I want to do is run away from it.

Anonymous · Answer

Everything mentioned was carnal. Now that I've seen the spiritual realm, all of it is meaningless without that part. We are spirit and flesh. I measure success by how aligned the two are. What you just described is severe misalignment!

The spirit within is trying to communicate this but she is not listening!

Marriedandavailable · Answer

this woman is free. I lake to spend sometime with this woman. do not care any problematic conditions. time is important. thats all.

Avicenna · Answer

A woman that can afford to do that on her own dime is definitely going to be considered successful.

Lliam · Answer

Yes. Absolutely! It sounds like a great life. She's living her bliss.  She can even meet men during her travels and have steamy, romantic affairs, just like in romance novels.

Unit1 · Answer

That is one happy woman. Good for her. Certainly happier than married women filing for divorce at a likelihood of 50% 😆

ManOnFire · Answer

That is a super fuckable woman to me. She does what she likes and she's happy. That's really all that matters.

Berethor · Answer

She is childless and too old to have children, so she sounds like a failure as a woman.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No, she is trying to convince herself she is successful. On her death bed she will not count the number of Gucci bags she has but she will miss having her hand held by her non-existent children.

Dinklex3 · Answer

She’s doing what she loves and enjoys, so sure.

JacobJordan · Answer

I personally don't think she has succeeded but if she does more power to her

DrPepper12 · Answer

Fuck yes! The savings thing makes me anxious tho. Ya HAFTA save.

Anonymous · Answer

Not to me. I mean congrats if that's what she wanted out of life. But most of what you listed is a turnoff to me.

Anonymous · Answer

If have the freedom of not having but still choose such a bland life (going to nice resorts doesn't count as adventure) then you're not successful. Do something novel, make your own way

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

If she’s happy, she’s successful.

Dargil · Answer

Sure, but it is only one way to get there.

strateguy632 · Answer

she failed the important stuff.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Absolutely, NOT!

war_daddy · Answer

how will she retire?

Twalli · Answer

If that's what makes her happy

NetherlandsNar · Answer

Yes definitely. I'd love to be her

jahaims · Answer

Depends on what she wanted out of life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I'd date her if she was receptive

OtterMan68 · Answer

yes she is

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