At what age do you consider a woman a failure if she hasn't been married?

[Vegasrunner]

[avery58]

You're talking as if every woman wants to get married. A woman can take as long as she needs to get to know someone she trusts enough for marriage, if she wants to get married. Doing so doesn't make her a failure.

[Vegasrunner]

@avery58 That's not a factor in the question. I'm asking what age do individuals consider females failures for not being able to get a man to marry them.

[avery58]

I can add whatever opinion I want on a nonsensical question since those individuals' opinion on other people's life matters jack all

[Vegasrunner]

@avery58 Doesn't change the fact that it's not relevant to the question asked

[Fireguy17]

why would a woman be a failure if she wasn't married?
That make no sense at all.
So following your logic would a man also be a failure if he wasn't married?

[Vegasrunner]

@Fireguy17 TY for your question. Marriage is the metric used to define female success.

[Fireguy17]

buy who?
I have never heard of that before.
What if she is in a shit show of a marriage, he cheats, is abusive, lies, spends all of their money on booze and drugs.
Is she still considered a success being in a marriage like that?

[Vegasrunner]

@Fireguy17 By society. It's unfortunate you have never heard that where do you live? If she is in a marriage like thar than she is a poor judge of character.

[Fireguy17]

I'm part of society and have been for a long time.
Why is it unfortunate that I've never heard of it where I live?
To me that would mean that we have progressed way past that archaic thinking from centuries past.
But you did not say if a women is in a shit show marriage is she considered a success because she is married, vs a women that has a great career, say a well respected surgeon that saves lives everyday but is unmarried but she is considered a failure because she is single?
That to me is just idiotic.
I'm glad I am part of the unfortunate that has never heard of that.

[Vegasrunner]

@Fireguy17 Perhaps, however I asked where you live, which tells me you're either not part of society, ashamed of your society or lack critical reading skills which could also account for your ignorance. As I said b4 If a woman is in the type of marriage you crudley describes then it means she makes or made poor decisions this may be why some countries had have arranged marriages. As for the career woman, men don't care about a woman's career so she would essentially be choosing relationship failure in exchange for career success. I can understand why you may think it's idiotic, however it's true which is much more valuable.

[Fireguy17]

I'm done, as a wise man once told me not to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

[Vegasrunner]

@Fireguy17 Glad you've realized how foolish your argument is.

[Anonymous]

I don't know that she's ever a failure per se. But since it's the societal norm for women to marry and raise a family anything past 30 is racing the clock. So I guess after 30?