Do you think its best to reject a woman for long term still in her early 20's about to be 24 if she is still immature for her age or be patient?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[IceCreamSandwich]

I don't think people of very different maturity levels should get together in the first place personally. Let her get with someone else at her level. And when she learns from that and grows out of it, she'll be better suited for a mature, long tern relationship with someone else who's also mature. Maybe it will be the initially immature guy she got with, or maybe he won't mature so she'll leave him and find someone who is. Either way I think it's best for people to start with those who are on their same level, and if one person outgrows them and they cannot or will not grow themself, it's probably time to leave.

[DaveJord]

Hummmm... depends honestly. I am not going to say l never dated a woman for the fun it, when I knew long term, it was never going to work out. I mean we had a lot of fun together and eventually things ran the nature course and it ended.

I mean more then 4 years difference in age never really worked out for me, but you never know... why not give it a go and see, you might be surprised by what develops and comes of it.

[LazerBean]

anyone who is immature should be rejected, regardless of age.

[Anonymous]

I'd say you have to take everything into account. Look at her parents. Does she have two? Is her father present? Do her parents have a good marriage? All of this will give you a deeper look into her character, and character doesn't change. But if she doesn't have character it doesn't matter how old she gets she'll ALWAYS be a dud.

[msc545]

I think it depends on the nature of the immaturity. Some immaturity is long-lasting and other immaturity will resolve over time. I would need to know more about it in order to have an opinion.

[Jamie05rhs]

You can passively reject her and just let her continue to live her life single and see what happens. See if she grows up.

[BJP21]

That would depend on how immature. I have to say not necessarily.

[RealMarek]

These days you can’t tell if someone will or will not mature until after the fact. It’s best not to assume someone will change for the better.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

It’s worth it to develop her