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The Truth of A Person That Has Never Been Loved (Page 2)
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Some people are like that, they don't get involved romantically for what ever reason. At least your alive, go out and do something for others. I'm not a smash hit with the ladies either probably because I'm cynical about it but life is full of stuff to do other than that. I chose to serve the interests of the white race which is under attack. My goal is building an ethnostate having a higher goal makes you forget other things. A soldier has to give up his very life but he still fights hard for what he believes in.
I’m 38 and divorced after 15 years. I married young and thought life was perfect. Things fell apart. She took my son and emptied my bank account on her way out. I’ve since realized that I was just a bank roll for her. Thankfully I do have visitation rights to see my son.
Now 3 years later, I’m sad and single. The woman I have feelings for looks to me as a brother instead of lover. She says she wants someone like me, just not me. Love plays tricks with our minds. The key is to make yourself busy in other areas. I know it’s hard being alone, but when you least expect it someone will brighten your day.
Well at least you don't have to live with the embarrassing regret that I experienced on Monday... As I was walking through the hallway to hand my college professor something... This beautiful hot girl who I have a huge crush on said "your looking good"
And I said "thanks" then I was gonna say "your looking pretty good too"
But I contemplated doing it too long that the moment past and now she probably thinks I was being rude or don't have crush on her.. for fucksake... Now everyday I wake up in much regret thinking about how great it could have been if I just said that... She may even be my girlfriend right now FFS... I think I'd rather be like you... 20yrs and single and have a fresh new start and if someone hits on you you could make the right choice instead of waking up with the embarrassing regret I feel everyday... I kinda feel like killing myself but don't have the balls to... But fuckit.. maybe I'll man up and try it again tonight
Shallow guys. The reason OP is alone, is because you're only after beautiful hot girls
Average girls aren't worth of your time
*worthy
@gothgirl997 I guess the majority of guys are... but not me, I'd actually prefer if a average or ugly chick was into me... Hot girls freak me out cos they seem to good for me, I actually don't feel worthy of having a hot girlfriend, I think that's part of the reason I was scared to say she look good too... Cos other people were in the room n thought they would be like "eww... What right does he have to call her good looking, she way too hot for him... Why he even trying"
So I'd feel a lot more confident around a ugly or average chick... I'd feel like they're more in my League
@gothgirl997 it's totally understandable that you'd dislike my comment tho... I jus re-read it and realise how cringey it is not LOL,
WTF WAS I THINKING... SUICIDE COS OF THAT?
PATHETIC LOL
She caught you off guard hat happens to us all.
@Grotty nah lol, I thought of the reply as soon as she said it... It just I contemplated saying things too long before I say them
Give it 2 more years and you will reach my spot..
Here.. Your desperation will end..
You will no longer feel need of a partner..
You will learn to quench your own cravings..
You will start thinking bigger and clearly..
You will probably get pets.. Or start studying intensively..
Start building an empire of your own.. Or plan to make shit load of money
Trust me..
Life has a lot to offer if you choose to Not Choke on the Breakfast of LOVE 😜😜
You’ll get there... just don’t fall for the first guy who gives you any attention.. I fell for the first girl who even looked at me that way and well, it never ends well.
But you deserve to be loved, and you will be.. you just have to keep trying and not give up. I’m always around if you need to talk about it.
You can't love someone else until you learn to love yourself first. Get comfortable being in your own skin and learn how to be ok with being single. Once you do those two things, your 'value,' for lack of a better word, as a partner will increase exponentially. You'll find love one day for sure, and it'll be with someone who loves you for you! Just hold out.
yea don't worry , you should still go to different places like clubs or pubs you can get some good people to meet , i lost my girl in sept , due to shitty reason , and yea now i feel like i don't want anyone , there are option but i my case i loved only once and now i hope i won't fall in it once again , well you are at a good stage that at least nobody broke your heart , because once that happens you live quite differently
We ignore & avoid those who can give or offering love.. But they're not good enough, aren't they?
& here you say, is it that much to ask for someone to love you? Yeah it is.
You just can't ask for love. Love for giving to those who need it & accepting from those who are giving or offering.
No definitely not too much to ask! I sympathise with you since I feel mostly exactly the same. I may have been on dates with crushes, but no one has ever said they like me, never approached me, never been kissed, I just feel so alone and all i want is to find that special someone who loves me and who I can spend time with together
It is too much to ask for apparently. I usually get the blanket response of "go save your own life", when I talk about the craving-- like it's a fucking sin to vent about having had no relationship ever. Since when do fucking people associate finding love with fixing my life? I'm making my life all fucking ready, I want it to have someone it for fucks sake
Interesting how so many women here are blaming "shallow guys" for being alone and not getting sex. When guys do this, women claim that guys don't have a right to sex and should stop being assholes about being "friend zoned." Just like you don't owe guys anything, we don't owe you shit either!
If you are not happy yourself you won't give the vibe that attract others.
You can find someone if you are looking at the right places but only at the right time.
20 years is nothing really.. work on yourself not focusing on what you are lacking
I can relate. The difference between us is that you have your whole life ahead of you. Real love is not what you find on Valentines Day or any special day. Real love makes every day of the year a special day for you.
Well said. 👏🏼
Find a deep love for yourself, nurture it, magnify it, and slowly as your confidence grows it will radiate outwards... we all know that putting out is what we're going to get.
I hope you can find it. I hope I can find it.
Make it about family. Valentines doesn’t have to be about romantic love. It’s about love and there are so many kinds of love out there. Guys suck anyway, go be a queen 👌🏻
This hit me to the core cause I can relate every Valentine’s Day I spend alone thinking constantly what if I had a girl to hang out with what if I could look into her eyes and tell her how special she is to me, what if I can plan a romantic dinner for her. But I guess that’s all these are are what ifs not the reality
Oh, shut up. You're TWENTY. Thats nothing. "I've never been loved". I'm sure your parents feel really appreciated right about now. Friends, too. And if you're religious, I'm sure God feels great about it.
The problem is society/guys have incredibly high standards for women. Even average looking guys are chasing and dreaming hot/modelesque girls. No one respects or pays attention to average girls.
It's all about looks. So if you're a below average/homely or plain girl, you're scr**ed
Plastic surgery is the only way out of the tunnel
If you want to be respected by society
The sooner one gets plastic surgery, the better for his future
Women have incredibly high standards too that few men can match it's known as the 80/20 rule where 80 percent of women are chasing the top 20 percent of men.
@Grotty I was sure that some smart would reply. No, I see lots of good-looking women dating below their league (guys who are neither rich nor tall)
*smarty
Same here😅
I m single too...😄
Sometimes it's annoying but I use to deviate my mind from such stuff.
Cuz if we work hard for now we could be on an optimum path of future...😆
I have never been loved by humans not even my mother however my friends Jack Russells love me but unlike women dogs don't care what you look like or how much money you have got.