Should I cook for Valentine’s Day or tell my boyfriend to go out?

[Anonymous]

My friend told me that I shouldn’t do that on vday since it’s only one day in a year. I should go out emand enjoy but I promise my boyfriend to cook that day.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tough one girl. I can see both sides of it, to be honest.

On one hand, your friend has a point. Valentine's Day is supposed to be a special day, and going out to a nice dinner can be really romantic and fun. It's only one day a year, so you could just take the night off from cooking and let your boyfriend treat you.

But on the other hand, you already promised him you'd cook, and that's really sweet of you. Cooking a meal shows you put in a lot of thought and effort, and that can be even more meaningful than going out. Plus, your boyfriend might be really looking forward to you cooking for him.

I don't think there's a wrong answer here. It really comes down to what you and your boyfriend would enjoy the most. If you're both more low-key and would appreciate a homemade meal, then I say go for it and cook. But if you think he'd really love a fancy night out, then you could tell him to make dinner reservations this year.

The most important thing is that you two get to spend quality time together, whether that's at a restaurant or at home. Don't stress too much about it - just do what feels right for you both. Your boyfriend is lucky to have someone who cares so much about making the day special!

[Summeroflove]

Well the day isn’t about your friend and demanding someone to do something will probably make them not want to do it and if they do it not enjoy it.

If you want to cook for Valentine’s Day then cook… That’s very sweet and kind. Remember the day is about the two of you not what someone else thinks about it. They can do them…

If you want advice just talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you want. Tell him what you want to do and don’t break promises.

[ProbablyClueless]

There's nothing wrong with have a date night in on Valentine's Day. Do whatever you guys would prefer.

[Nikki1989]

Eat out at a nice restaurant.