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Guys, will you hang out with a girl alone if you are not interested in her?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: A month ago
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If you know she likes you, will you continue hanging out with her alone?

what are some things you will do to let her know you are interested vs. not interested?


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Dudeness
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Dudeness      When: A month ago
well. if she was interested in me I wouldn't want to lead her on. I would hang out with her but I would make it clear I didn't like her. although if I did like her back I would do some major flirting. some ways to tell if a guy is interested is to look at his feet. if they are pointed to you. but if you are sitting down next to each other then he might be giving you lots of eye contact. not looking around for someone else to hang out with other than you. and he would try to make you laugh a lot.
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TheFatTwig Lol what's this about where his feet are pointed? I've never heard that one before . . . - A month ago
Question Asker It means his body will be facing towards you the whole time....rarely will he turn his back on you. - A month ago
the-love-guru It's all about the non-verbal behavior. Posture, eye contact, how you cross your legs, and yes, where you point your feet. Good looking out! - A month ago
the-love-guru What about the guys that say they don't like you "like that", but insist on paying for you, and get jealous when you hang out with other guys. What's a gal to do in THAT situation? - 16 days ago

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BlueGender
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BlueGender      When: 12 days ago
No.
Maybe if she's hot.
F*ck her.
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bayjell654 Dude, you are one of the 95% or so percent that give guys the "guys only want one thing" label....you are a jerk dude, stop ruinin the repuation of most guys in the world, GEZ - 5 days ago

MadHatterni
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MadHatterni      When: 23 days ago
I would, she's still a friend and if its brought up I stand my ground and say sorry but I care about you but I don't see us having a relationship.

if I'm interested I get close and talk to her eye to eye, if I'm not interested I keep distance and talk about simple topics that end the convo easy without mixed signals being sent.
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MrTinker
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MrTinker      When: A month ago
If she likes me and I liked her back: flirting and baking food for her (if in college or something of the sort, work, etc) daily, I would also after a time so I got to know her better tell her of my feelings for her and wait for the hammer to crush me or other.

If she liekd me and I didn't feel the same way. I would tell her something liek this; "Your a great friend and I hope to always be by yourside as you have mine, as a friend." If she cries or gets hurt becasue I'm her friend I will comfort her, but sex IS NOT COMFORT.

I love hanging out with girls alone, becasue I feel more liek myself talkign to someone who is interesting and has a different take on life - while in the miliart I would always go off base and find people to talk with, just becasue it was another human, becasue he/she breath the same air, drink the ssame water, and have feelings and love.
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EarlofPuuding
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EarlofPuuding      When: A month ago
Well if my leg accidentally touches a girl, I'm not going to just yank it away that's sort of rude, as sneakily as it got there is as sneakily you remove it. Guys who are comfortable with you and get in your space zone isn't doing it to be friendly, you are on his list, just not the top is what you your situation sounds like. If there's a cute girl you can be cool with that is kinda cute but your interest lie elsewhere, nothing wrong with becoming friends and getting to know the new girl, just in case? Just don't get too close or its friend zone.
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EarlofPuuding
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EarlofPuuding      When: A month ago
Well, I did hang out with this girl I liked, that liked me, but I didn't know, I found out because she was jealous of this other girl that was getting too close to me for her liking. She wouldn't leave me alone, not in the stalker way, but in the can't read the I'm not into you vibe, we became friends, but I didn't like her touching me or looking me in the eyes because she was giving of this I want you vibe that was uncomfortable. I was probable very careful to be reeeaaaally friendly and sometimes mean so she would get the hint and stop crushing on me I guess the girl I had liked had picked up on it and avoided me after that.
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Question Asker Lol, what are some of the I'm not into you stuff did you do? I'm just curious because I'm probably just as lost as that girl. - A month ago
Answerer I would ignore the really obvious I like you make a move kinda cues, talk about girls to her (obviously I'm not into you), if something kind of bad happened Id laugh at her (omg my high heel broke), if she put her arm on me or got too close, Id take her arm off or retreat a safe distance. I guess in some way I may have liked her, just the fact that she was Indian and Muslim made her a wrong choice for a potential relationship, she's definitely wasn't as hot as she later became. - A month ago
Question Asker But would you still continue hang out with her 1v 1 if she were to invite you out? - A month ago
Answerer Oh, no turn that down everytime, I have yet to hang out with a girl alone, or anyone for that matter, I guess going home together doesn't count. I'm beginning to think our definitions of hanging out are different... My definition involves me and the girl being in the same place talking or w/e. - A month ago
Question Asker Yeah that's my def of hanging out 1 v 1.... 2 people doing an activity. Is it weird to you hanging out with a girl 1 v 1? - A month ago
Answerer Not really unless it was planned or prolonged, then it would be wierd. - A month ago

Regularguy
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Regularguy      When: A month ago
I personally wouldn't so not to risk leading the girl on. Not all guys are that considerate. If I was interested she'd know and I would make it very clear. Otherwise, if I sense that there is more that the girl is looking for I would let her know I wasn't interested.
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
Yup. When a girl likes you, it's flattering. Everyone loves attention.

Signs he likes you- intellectual conversation, wants to get to know you personally, he'll make "moves" on you

Signs you're being strung along- you come over and clean his house, or make him food, etc.
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cgiddings I disagree. If I allow you to cook for me... I trust you enough and am interested in you. I don't just eat food made by anyone! - A month ago
a_man Some girls make food for anyone... - A month ago
EarlofPuuding Really? most girls can't cook ... and if they did hellz no I wouldn't eat it. Eating food made by an interested party is like signing a contract, you took the bait she got dibs on you. Then there's the weird insecure totally in love girl that would be like "if I put some *thing* (from you know where), he will be totally in love and attracted to me and we will be happy forever. yes that actually happens, not to me I'm too mistrustful. - A month ago
Question Asker HAHAHA That's hilarious...girls really do that?! - A month ago
xxsocalgrlxx Well what if the guy invites you to his house to hang out to chill and play video games. but also makes you dinner...and ur suppose to be friends but he makes a move on you by kissing the you? what's that about? does he like the girl or is she just gettign his hormones going.... by the way they were having intellectual talk about future and life.... he engineer she going to school to be Er doctor ect and fast cars and which are best and why...etc... - A month ago
 

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the-love-guru
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the-love-guru      When: A month ago
Brilliant question. One not too many people think about asking. They go for the hopeful "what are the signs that he likes me?" route. This is much more direct.

I'm looking forward to reading all the male responses :)
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pbima I'd actually like to ask the same question: will a girl hand out with a guy alone if she is not interested? - 16 days ago
 
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