Guys, I want to know your opinion on the type of person I am. Basically, I'm a bit of a tomboy, love sports and hanging out playing pool or darts. (I dress girly - skirts, dresses, heels etc) I hang out with guys a lot, but they don't tend to see me as girlfriend material, as I'm flirty but jokey and sarcastic - a lot of dry wit. I know it's all up to taste, but can you give me your opinions, and let me know what I can do? thanks :)
Maybe you could try to hangout with girls instead of guys will help. Probably most of the guys that are interested on you don't talk to you because you have guy friends around. But mainly be yourself and I think a girl playing pool is sexy!
You don't have to do anything. You should just continue to be yourself. In my opinion, I wouldn't be interested... mainly because I'm almost the exact opposite of what you described. :P there is, however, someone out there who is totally into that. There is.
No worries girl ! I'm a bit of a tomboy myself I really like sport (altho I'm not so good at it). But if you judge me by my appearance you won't say; I also wear girly dresses, skirts, heels (non-wide clothes it'll ruin my petite figure xD) About 2 weeks ago when I was at school I heard some of my guy classmates talking about playing soccer after school, so I asked if I could join them. First they were like : what ? why do you wanna play soccer ? you don't seem like the type. So I explained them that I like sports especially soccer (left the part that I'm bad in it out lol)
After that one of my guy classmate took me apart and asked if I really liked sports, when I answered yes he told me that a girl that dresses girly but is also into sports is really attractive in a girl according to him
Maybe you should hang out with girl friends more, boys sometimes compare girls when they are standing in a group & if there is a guy out there that things your cute + you like sport he will definitly pick you out in a group of girls. I think your guy friends at this point only sees you as a friend, because your always around Your one of them~ (Which is okay, if you don't see your guy friends as potential boyfriend material)
Thanks, that's really good to know. the thing is, I feel like when I'm with my friends, guys are intimidated by the amount of girls, and therefore don't talk to me. either that or they notice my friends first! I can't win in this! Lol :) - 18 days ago
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Yes not so confidant boys can be really intimidated if your in a group of boys. of cousrse you can win, you just have to find a boy that is attractive in you (and I'm sure that there are some out there) Maybe you should take a different approach; like focus on a boy that you like (hanging out with him more etc.), not waiting for the boys to come to you. BTW if you do this make sure your girly (maybe a little bit of lipgloss/cute hairstyle/clothing suits your figure), but still true to yourself - 18 days ago
“Does He Like Me” seems to be holding the fort in being one of the most popular questions, still. So I thought I add all the little things a guy would do, the subtle hints he shows and the silliness...
The few paragraphs before the section with the questions are just precursors to the 4 questions I ask/talk about in here. What I am getting at with all this, is why do girls like guys, and why do...
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When: 18 days ago
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