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NotSoBad (Age:25 to 29)     When: 11 months ago
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Do you like being chased? are you ever scared the guy won't think you are interested?


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ashleyattack
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ashleyattack      When: 10 months ago
i like being chased. I like to see if the guy will actually take his time to come after me.
and no I don't think he won't think I'm interested because ill give tiny hints that I want them to keep doing it :P
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
I think that traditional, boy asks girl, still is a majority favourtive with both sexes. Boys like to pursue and girls like being pursued (in the main not all).

Men are hunters and that goes back to cave man days, we may have envolved but our basic instints still lie within us. We have just got either better at controlling them or very very confused, hence why I think there are so many issues with dating and so many questions on a site like this.

Just my two penneth.
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cheerangelcharity
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cheerangelcharity      When: 11 months ago
I like being "chased" if it's by a guy that I at least might be possibly interested in.

otherwise it's just annoying.

well actually even if it's by an alright guy and he does it too much likes seems to stalk me then that's annoying too.
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mzindependant92
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mzindependant92      When: 11 months ago
i like being chased but not after I make it clear I'm not interested and sometimes I do get scared a guy isn't interested
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Linsey
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Linsey      When: 11 months ago
yeahh I like to be chased, makes me feel wanted and special lol. I've chased my fair share of guys.and I'm not doing it nemore:( which also makes me worry.
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k7993
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k7993      When: 11 months ago
i know from experience that we get scared that the guy thinks we don't like him. I was so afraid that my present boy friend didn't know that I liked him I was worried that he thought I didn't like him cause he is a little bulky an he thought I only like scrawny dudes (I know I did like worrying about it but it puts a different perspective on things for us )
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sweet17
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sweet17      When: 11 months ago
Yeah because it makes us feel wanted.
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princessbby
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princessbby      When: 11 months ago
from a girls point of view. that boost a girls confidence up major time.
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kchula
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kchula      When: 11 months ago
i agree with what liltabbixxo said:I like to be chased! I don't really ever think that the guy won't think I am interested. I think that I do a pretty good job making sure he knows it without giving too much away( if that makes any sense). Although lately I think I am the one doing the chasing haha.
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liltabbixxo
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liltabbixxo      When: 11 months ago
I like to be chased! I don't really ever think that the guy won't think I am interested. I think that I do a pretty good job making sure he knows it without giving too much away( if that makes any sense). Although lately I think I am the one doing the chasing haha.
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1catydid
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1catydid      When: 11 months ago
Personally I don't chase after people I let them come to me. I mean I'll "come to their rescue" but I prefer guys to chase after me. Unless they already confront me about the matter and have told them that I'm not intrested, but if I give the signs, let the race begin lol
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
I love it when a guy chases me. it defintely shows he's interested and if he's hot and I like him, it's a really good thing. I wouldn't be scared because I would know when to turn around and say, you want me? let's do it!
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ladygothicka
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ladygothicka      When: 11 months ago
I love being chased by guys, it really makes a girl feel special.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
yes, and yes. I don't get it but It's totally a definite yes.
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993099142
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993099142      When: 11 months ago
I do not enjoy being chased unless I am already in love with the guy. I hate it when a guy really likes me a lot and I don't like them at all. I just don't know how to deal with situations like that.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
In the beginning I love the thrill of being chased. I love it when a guy steps up and does what he needs to, to be able to spend time with me. However, at a certain point it can cross over into possessive/clingy territory. So in my opinion it really depends on where you two are in the dating process.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
yes I do, shame most blokes don't do it anymore!
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Question Asker But by being chased what do you mean? if a girl says "i want to be alone right now"... should a guy keep bugging her? - 11 months ago
Answerer Bugging no a little friendly text to say hi and not asking any major questions or pushing for anything. If a women says she wants to be alone right now, she might mean just that night not forever, difficult to say without knowing the person or context. - 11 months ago
Question Asker We were hanging out since august.. only once or rarely twice a week. I notice she was becoming distant... possibly losing interest. Unlike past relationships this time I began to see those red flags so I told her I was going to take a step back. We talked she said she "likes" me and we make each other laugh, but she needed to be alone. I made it clear that I had started to have feelings for her, but I told her I understood. I plan on doing exactly what you suggest. - 11 months ago
Question Asker I won't constantly bug her.. that has completely back fired in the past (live and learn) I also don't like ending things badly with people so. I'll continue to say hi from time to time. I understand people like attention... unfortunately they always come looking for it when they feel alone. I am guilty of that. - 11 months ago
quantumdefender The reason most men don't chase women, its called sexual harassment! men have better things to do that to defend their actions because a woman who plays "hard to get" can't figure out a man's intentions - 11 months ago

Amor3x0
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Amor3x0      When: 11 months ago
Uhm.I would think the guy was pyscho if he chased me. I hate clingy guys who won't leave me alone. However, the sencond part is a yes.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
i have never really "enjoyed" being chased persay, but some guys like a challenge. I never meant to be persued, I really wasn't interested in the last guy who chased me, he was attractive and all, but I was young and didn't want a boyfriend, I enjoyed being single. I even turned him down more than once for a date. I was only nice to him because I was at work every time he came to see me and I couldn't be mean or I'd get in trouble. I eventually agreed to go on a date with him so he'd leave me alone and because he was really persistant. then we ended up being dating exclusively for 2.5 years.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
Girls like to be liked.

Most would know where to draw the line between flirty and rude though.

I definitely like being chased, but I always keep the guy's feelings in mind so I'll also sometimes initiate stuff. Ideally the guy would do about 60 - 40 of the chase. It's not fair for one side to do everything.
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skootz
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skootz      When: 11 months ago
sometimes. no I lie, yes lol
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Question Asker Ok but in your opinion where do you draw the line between enjoying a guy chasing you and being annoyed that he is chasing you? - 11 months ago
Answerer Well its like at first its flattering but after a while it gets annoying I guess. - 11 months ago

HaggardDiva
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HaggardDiva      When: 11 months ago
I think the chase is one of the most exciting parts of a new "thing" with someone. But to not leave any clues and expect the guys to keep in pursuit is wrong. It's not fair to the guy. So as long as I'm leaving some sort of clues then I want the chase to continue and I like it.

PS Seriously creepy picture
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Romanticguy1988 That might be fun for you but trust me, for a guys that is quite annoyable. Most of the guys will just drop eventually the chase. The chasing thing and not telling everything like it this is the most 2x suckiest things girl can do for a guy, before they even date.
I might think like this because I ain't player but who knows. Players would probably no doubt keep trying since they gotta get what they want, aye? - 11 months ago
Question Asker Ok so what type of hints or clues do girls leave? I'm a straight forward person. I have no problem expressing my feelings. If I like a girl a say it. - 11 months ago
Answerer You know it's different for each guy. The clues have to fit the guy and the situation. Usually mine are VERY obvious. Like with the guy I'm dating now, when we'd be out at a party, I would come up to him and talk really close. And when I'd see him talking to another girl, I would say something like "I am so much cuter than her," into his ear as I would pass him. I would never leave a guy wondering if I was even interested at all. - 11 months ago
WeaponZero Unfortunately a lot of guys wouldn't even pick up on those signs. Some of us (myself included) treat approaching a girl like a consent for medical record release; if it isn't clear and in writing, it can't go on from there, because even the seemingly most obvious signs can still be misinterpreted. - 11 months ago
Answerer That's what I mean by it's different for each guy. Different guys respond differently to different things. And frankly, if it was me in the situation, you would know, I would make sure of that. If I wasn't interested I would let you down gently right away, but if I was, I would make sure that you were aware. - 11 months ago
adrianereeder Yes super mega creepy - 3 months ago
 

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A-Guys-Opinion
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A-Guys-Opinion      When: 4 months ago
From my experience, chasing a girl who wants to play games with you can be tricky. Chase too much and you risk being placed into this weird "obsessive/needy" category -- too many women over-think it and start to wonder why you're chasing them and not the other way around, then they wonder what's wrong with you or why you're rushing it, then they ignore you ...and if you try and contact them while they are giving you the silent treatment, you're all of a sudden considered a psycho. Ha... it's kind of silly but I guess it's the nature of the game.

It's like a rubber band, you pull back a little and they will chase you (if attracted to you); you chase them and they might start to pull back a little (depending on level of attraction)... but chase them too much and some get all freaked out. Just depends on the person though.
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metaldave20
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metaldave20      When: 9 months ago
everything in moderation, if the girl wants to be chased, she'll show she wants to, and I'll show I want to chase her as well, but, like I said everything in moderation... basically there's a line between being chased and being stalked, ya know?
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WeaponZero
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WeaponZero      When: 11 months ago
Personally I don't like the idea of chasing girls. When they play hard to get it makes them come across as immature, and plus the LAST thing I need is a girl who plays mind games, and things like that to me mean mind games.

I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I don't hide anything from the girl that pertains to her and I don't drop hints or signs. I'm very up front about what I need and want and what I'm thinking, and if the girl can't show me the respect of being that way back to me, well then she can go take a long walk off a short pier for all I care.
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quantumdefender
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quantumdefender      When: 11 months ago
if I wanted to play chase, I'll buy a DOG!
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