Weird shy girl I like plays hard to get (I think) and seems to want my attention. She puts herself around me so we can talk, but I'm the first to talk. She's made me jealous with my buddy and I've ignored her because of it, but it seems like she's chasing him now. Like she's thirsty for his attwntion. What is this? I thought shy girls wanted to be chased not chase?
Do shy girls chase or like to be chased?
What Girls Said 3
I think a shy girl would rather be chased.0
One thing girls-shy or not-tend to do, not all but most, is use jealousy. You said that you ignore her messing with your buddy, but that's clearly not what she wants. She wants you to acknowledge it, become mad, have some type of reaction. So yes, she may come off as thirsty, but usually you can tell if a girl is really into a guy or just being a flirt. If she really is playing hard to get, most chances are that she is into you and wants this to push you to make a move.1
Both. We don't chase until after we fully have studied you, and when we feel like we are always doing the chasing, we stop and wait to be chased for once.0
What Guys Said 2
I would love to see women chase guys even though at first he didn't find her attractive, sill in time he started to find her attractive then the rest is history.0
Only a very few girls want to chase guys, and none of them can be shy girls.0
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