what do y'all think?
Why is it more meaningful when a stranger compliments you?
what do y'all think?
To me, it's because this person knows nothing about you but has judged you positively and forms a surreal, strong opinion of you and feels compelled enough to compliment you in that short amount of time they've been aware of your presence. It's happened to me twice or so and I always feel really overwhelmed.
Yes, I think that they mean more because they are quickly formed and in the moment of whatever situation. We live in a world where it's uncommon for people who don't know each other to be positive towards one another so whenever that trend is broken, I feel happy about society and within myself, even if it's just for a short amount of time.
I also feel we get accustomed to receiving compliments from friends but especially family because their love is unconditional and therefore they feel the need to flatter you and show their attention with compliments but there is of course love and meaning behind those compliments nonetheless.
For me, any compliment is always an honour to receive but only if I feel there is real passion and authenticity behind it.
i reckon it's because we feel that if it's a stranger who compliments us, then they don't know anything about us previously, they are not there to say something nice, (they don't have to speak to you at all) but they still choose to express their positive feeling towards you.
I think that is why we feel like it's extra special.
I agree. I think close ones feel obligated where as strangers have no ties to you and yet they are still willing to speak up and say something nice :)
I always do it because I feel that at the end of the day when the person thinks about hw bad her day was(if it was indeed), this is one thing that will definitely bring a smile on her face. Specially for girls who aren't confident about themselves, one compliment is enough to help them bounce off any pessimism. I know so because I'm overweight & for the past 21yrs have been looking for someone who takes me for who I am. Coming back to the point, your one compliment can basically make someone's day at literally no price. So I have this habit. When a person compliments you, its like a feeling that there are people in the world apart from your family & friends who actually notice you in the hundreds of people they see everyday. They not only noticed you, but also made you feel special. So I think it counts a lot to a person to be complimented by a complete stranger.
A stranger isn't going to feel bad if they make you feel bad, so they have nothing to lose by doing so. But with that being said, they still complimented you, they have no reason to compliment you unless what they are saying is true and they want you to know... or they are being a complete and utter d*** >.>
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I think you pretty much nailed it. A stranger doesn't have to say anything to us, he/she is not obligated in any way. Family and friends kinda have to at least a little bit on occasion just to keep the peace.
Maybe because they don't know us to know that, they like a quality we have. When strangers see it, it seems more ginuine.
I guess because it feels like someone who does not even know you made the effort to notice you.
It's not. I don't like strangers prying into my business. No offense to any strangers out there.
Because they don't know you.
I don't know if its meaningful caz I get skeptical
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