Why does a guy keep coming back?

Are you saying that I bored him? No, hon. I broke it off cause I got tired of it not going anywhere and seeing that no matter what I did, he still did not want a relationship. I just do not think he is that into me but he say these things that contradicts what he does which is nothing.

Hmmm... who say girl is every hard to understand?! the boy too right?!!>.< I dun understand them too!

No I used to be like that months ago, remember? Iike 5 months ago and I ignored him for the longest after all that and then I would respond on some text just hi and stuff and then weeks and weeks would go by and nothing. I've moved on even had a Boyfriend after we stopped talking so he's not having anything with me. he is just saying things now that he never shows in his actions and I wish he would cause I still wanna be with him a bit but he comes back out of no where.

Well imho yo judge a man by actions not words,so if he's not showing you how he feels with actions....words are easy to say,you know?

Yae but why say it at all if you don't act like you miss me? I don't understand him and I even said that to him and he asked me How does he show it? Like he just has no clue on how to show me but he'll say it like that's enough for him. he just doesn't get it. I want him to just go away and I told him to please stop coming back.

Well its just my opinion but if he was that into you you wouldn't have to tell him how to show it-he just would be in his own ways.

If you want him to go away I guess the only thing you can do it ignore him-change numbers,or just don't reply to him.

Thats what I'm thinkin and I accepted that and I been moved on for months, but why would he text me that he went out with a new girl but all he could think about was me when he was with her and he misses me? I even asked him what his reason for that was on the phone and he said he just wanted to let me know. ?? So confused in why he is wanting me to know that and expect me to totally understand that he would think of me while with another woman. I can't understand that if he doesn't act like it

Well,what does it matter if they are just words not actions.

It matters. Its like talking that talk but not walkin the walk. Actions speak louder than words.

Yeah,thts my point-your not seeing no actions so his words don't mean a lot do they.doesnt matter why he says it,hes not showing it,so I wouldn't waste my time wondering beause they are just words.

Your right, and I promise myself even more now if I ever hear from him again, I will never reply or respond to him ever again. If he wants me, he is gonna have to show it well.