I started dating this guy kind of like he never asked me out. But on my birthday my friends through me a surprise birthday party and at the party was the guy and this girl who was one of my good friends who had had a thing with him over like 3 years but they never went out.
After the party he texted me saying that everything between them was all good again. I was like wtf does that mean lol I later asked him if he still had feelings for her and he told me yes. I was like well what about me. He replied back with what do you mean what about you. He said he didn't know I liked him for the past 2 months and pretty much denied everything he said about us going out soon and what not.
Well my best friend came to visit from texas and well the guy and I have been trying to be friends again soo he wanted to meet her so they did and have been talking. Well the since this guy and I have been trying to be friends again we have been hanging out a lot. And I'm not going to lie I started liking him again. But he kinda liked my best friend but I mean she lives in texas it would never work. They both said it themselves all it is is physical.
And the things she would say about made me think that she wasn't interested in him and that it was ok if I liked him. Well he started liking me too again. I want him so badly but like summer is coming up and I won't be in town much of it so he and I both agreed to stay single and when school started again it was all about us, but then he said something like if he goes to texas he would want to still mess around with my best friend even though I am there. I told my friend that I liked him and she wasn't mad at me but started yelling and shit at him calling him a liar and all this stuff. And he like he said he wants me and that he wants a 2nd chance but he said something like if she(my friend) takes him back, I just don't understand what that means. I said so if she takes you back even though there was never a y'all I would just be tossed aside AGAIN! I just don't know what to do or think HELP!
I think he sounds kind of shady. It sounds like he is using you to get to your friends, and once there are no friends left for him, then maybe he'll be with you. Don't settle for a guy like that- he is not worth it and it does not sound like he would treat you very well. Every time you introduce him to a friend he'll ditch you to go mess around with her! Find someone better. I know you can.
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